A few months ago, I thought this guy really liked me, but I didn't really like him back. He started IMing me as soon as I got online and hanging around me more than anyone else and always mentioning me or wanting to know my opinion and he got me a b-day present and included a really sweet note. I was nice back but not forward or touchy (like all the other girls who like him ... and there are many), so I guess he got negative vibes 'cause, well, he ... stopped.
Anyways, recently I started liking him but I can't tell whether he still likes me or not ... and I'm starting to doubt whether he ever really liked me in the first place, because he seems to flirt with a lot of girls. He's really really friendly online but at school he's not as forward. There's this one girl who he's touchy/flirty with, but there's something different about the way he is toward me. It's not touchy ... but it feels more ... genuine. But maybe I'm just deluding myself because I wanna think he still likes me.
2007-03-07 09:44:58 · 9 answers · asked by far away from the cold night air 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sooo confused. Sometimes I think he likes me and other times I think ... he's probably like this to everyone. He's naturally a very friendly, outgoing guy, so the girls are all over him. A couple months ago (when I think he used to like me) he sent me a message that said that he couldn't stop himself from saying how amazing I was ... but ... is he like that to everyone? Does he just think that I don't like him back? Because I'm pretty shy and I don't really react to silly physical flirting like a lot of other girls do. It's almost like he's changed his flirting style when he's around me because I didn't respond to that, but ... I don't know.
Also ... it makes me really jealous when he's touchy with other girls, but I don't usually show it, so he probably can't tell. When it's just me and one or two other girls, he seems completely focused on me and pretty much ignores them ... but when we're in a massive group at school, he doesn't seek me out or anything. What should I do?
2007-03-07 09:50:39 · update #1
He really does like you. You should make a move. Ask him out for dancing or a movie.
2007-03-07 09:47:57 · answer #1 · answered by morgieDawn*(: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well why would u ask this question? What u should really do is ask your best friend. Tell her to say the truth. Friends can always tell if a boy likes u for reall or is just like that to every girl! And make sure she doesnt lie to make u happy. A true friend would say what she really thinks.
2007-03-07 17:51:51 · answer #2 · answered by chick180 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he really likes you. Maybe it is actually because you dont act weird around him. He probably wanted you to show that you liked him back, and now, because you didn't react the way he wanted you to, he wants to make you jealous. It seems to me like he is more than a major flirt with you. Try to make the first move, though. Start showing that you like him.
Good Luck! :)
2007-03-07 17:56:40 · answer #3 · answered by *vulcangirl008* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably figured you didn't like him so he backed off. Thats what I would do. You can only chase someone for so long and there are so many fish in the sea.
2007-03-07 17:49:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
chances are the guy really liked you, but realized that you didnt like him back........so he moved on. Now he is just being friendly, flirty and fun, but I doubt that he still feels that way about you
and if he does.....I doubt he will act on it because now it looks like you only like him because you cant have him.
2007-03-07 17:49:13 · answer #5 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will never know for unless you be forward with him- its the only way to clear things up- good luck and i hope you two end up together- just be careful of that other girl
2007-03-07 17:49:02 · answer #6 · answered by Miss_Sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you had your chance,, he probably found a girl already who likes him back..
there is still hope for you if you really want... just start flirting with him, chances are he will catch on....
2007-03-07 17:48:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hard to tell. if he's really outgoing.... ask him if he wants to go out? and if he freaks say your kidding.
2007-03-07 17:50:43 · answer #8 · answered by Dancing with love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him how he feels.
2007-03-07 18:41:17 · answer #9 · answered by dannys girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋