Family & Relationships - 7 March 2007

I have been with my husband for 15 years and we've had our ups and downs just like any other couple and we always come out better for the experience...but lately, it seems as though I have had to walk on eggshells around him. He has had some medical issues come up in the last couple of months, so I know that he is dealing with A LOT! But what about me, should I just sit back and get lost in all of this while WE deal with what is going on with him? I don't mean this bad, but I feel as though I am getting lost in all of this and no one, aside from me, realizes it. It's all about the kids and the husband and I have somehow become...well, I'm not real sure?

2007-03-07 09:36:41 · 5 answers · asked by quirky 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i was just wondering cause im a virgin and i dont know

2007-03-07 09:36:01 · 27 answers · asked by georga darling 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf cheated on me because i ould not have sex with him so i went and had sex with my ex.bf who has a gf out of anger.I am so scared i think i am pregnant.Should i warn the guy?

2007-03-07 09:36:01 · 19 answers · asked by Mandie G 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 09:35:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i went out for a guy for a week and two days, but i was on vaca in mexico for the 6 days in between. then, he broke up with me the day after the monday after vaca. im not sure if he still likes me because he does look at me a lot and we flirt... can you help me? thanks<3 oh...and i dont really wanna ask him out because i had to do it the first time. and i kno i should get over it but its really hard to because hes really sweet and cute and in my homeroom, so kinda hard to avoid!!:))

2007-03-07 09:34:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

yeah i do he's cute he knows no thanks to my friends now what?
how do i get him to talk or even a conversation he knows but
he does things like stand next to me and have this look
what do i do. i want to get him he's 26 years old help.

2007-03-07 09:34:16 · 18 answers · asked by lilc 2 in Singles & Dating

On anything..

2007-03-07 09:34:13 · 9 answers · asked by Fruitful1 3 in Friends

ok, so there is this guy, named bret, who i want to ask to prom. i just want to go with him as friends, i don't like him in the bf/gf way, i just think he would be a fun date. well, the twist is that about 4 months ago he and a friend of mine got out of a, not even month long, relationship. would it be mean of me to ask him since my friend did go out wih him a little, or should i just go for it? (it's not like bret and i are gonna start dating, it is just prom....but i donno)

2007-03-07 09:32:49 · 13 answers · asked by angelkitty0012 2 in Singles & Dating

How can I spice it up with my husband?
My husband and I have a great relationship...be are best of friends but we have been together almost 9 years and we have a 3.5 year old toddler running around...we work really hard so it is difficult to find the energy at the end of the day to even think about having sex much less setting a new scene...he never turns me down and nor I him but it takes one of us to iniciate it and we are both so tired by the end of the day that we just fall in the bed and barely make it through the daily show...(Our news show).

We need some new ideas...open to anything as long as it involves just the two of us! Thanks everyone, I know you got some good ones!

2007-03-07 09:32:35 · 16 answers · asked by JennyJ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-07 09:32:18 · 1 answers · asked by Jenn 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was used by a girl, after 4 years of dating.

I really want to get married, but I don't want a gold-digging woman who will cheat.

Where can I find someone who is honest, kind, loving, romantic? I just want a friend right now. Till I get to know them.

Are online dating sites any good? Or are there better places to look? Please help me, if your able, thanks!

2007-03-07 09:31:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 09:31:48 · 11 answers · asked by PoPrOcKz 1 in Friends

12 yrs ago I had sex with a family members friend. Yes it was a one night stand. I had just broken up with my b/f a few weeks before hand. When it got around that I was pregnant the family member asked the friends mother if the baby could be the friends. When the mother confronted the friend he said yes he had had sex with me. Later on the mother became my aunt by marring into my family. At a family function she had taken many photos of my child that was then three and compared them to her own son when he was at that age. They looked like twins. She then showed my mother the pictures who was also convinced that he was the father. I had said nothing to no one on who the father was. Now everyone in my family had known who they thought the father was, but she (his mother) had said she did not want me to persue him as the father because according to her he would not be a good parent and they do not even acknowledge my child as being her granddaughter.

2007-03-07 09:31:41 · 10 answers · asked by Rigssy 2 in Family

He is really depressed and is having some family issues right now...
How can I cheer him up or make him feel better?
Thankee.
Oh we both are 15 so don't say have sex with him or anything like that please.. rofl

2007-03-07 09:31:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i mean we had a relationship at one point and time but we are better off being friend then anything we get along better now then ever

2007-03-07 09:31:32 · 3 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

2007-03-07 09:30:50 · 21 answers · asked by PoPrOcKz 1 in Friends

Just curious.... I'm seeing someone and doing that. But at the same time I don't want to make him wait to long or work to hard and lose interest.

What do you think?

2007-03-07 09:30:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Everytime my friend and I talk on the phone and I start to tell a story, or really just talk, she cuts me off and the conversation goes back to her. I am usuallly a quiet person but it annoys me to think that she might not be interested in the things I have to say. I don't want to be rude, and I have told her once that she always cuts me off (she got mad) so please any new suggestions that could help me resolve this problem would be appreciated. Thank you!

2007-03-07 09:30:26 · 1 answers · asked by 1982 3 in Friends

like say in a group situation where there's a mix of girls and guys. do you have like a sixth sense or something about who is liking who, and discuss with your other friends by some sort of code? And/or can you tell if another girl likes a guy by your observations and knowledge about your own gender? Am I breaking some unwritten law by asking this?

2007-03-07 09:29:26 · 9 answers · asked by Gruntled Employee 6 in Singles & Dating

My best friend is totaly in love this guy. They are'nt offically engaged but they both said they wanted to get married... several times.
i met him, he's really cool... except. i think he was flirting with me. we went to the movies as a big group. he held my friends hand and rubbed my leg with his foot, (he took off his shoe). he kept going higher up my leg. It was odd... couple weeks later, my friends going out of town. he said he wanted to see a movie w/me . She thinks he's going to go" wing wink" go ring shopping for her. and thinks he just wanted friends help on picking out the ring. He hasn't said much about the rings though... he's more focused on the movie. my friend wants me to go to the "movie" so bad and begged me, I finally agreed, but I'm worried. i dont want him to do something stupid. i dont want to hurt my friend.am i overanalyzing this?

2007-03-07 09:29:12 · 8 answers · asked by Dancing with love 2 in Singles & Dating

Brandon Machabee A skater city dude that is a heartbreaker.

2007-03-07 09:29:12 · 2 answers · asked by hindergirl17 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it more common for the guy not to be putting out or the girl??

2007-03-07 09:29:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do ladies prefer the "bad boy" or the suit and tie kind of guy. I kinda need to know before next wednesday cause that when i am going to see her again

2007-03-07 09:28:42 · 23 answers · asked by tONY g 1 in Singles & Dating

just wondering

2007-03-07 09:28:18 · 16 answers · asked by miss kris 2 in Singles & Dating

Boyfriend says he wants marriage with me - can't see anyone else he'd rather spend his life with, nor to be mother of his children, but he doesn't want marraige now, and not until about another year or two, because he has more things he wants to accomplish before he marries, but I think we can accomplish those things better together, as a married couple. He's 33, I'm 28. Need good advice on what I should do. Thank you.

2007-03-07 09:28:12 · 43 answers · asked by just me 2 in Marriage & Divorce

hi i was wondering how to u give a peck to a girl when u meet her for the first time? is it just rubbing u r cheek with hers? o u r chin?

2007-03-07 09:28:05 · 5 answers · asked by cutierp 1 in Singles & Dating

have u ever loved somebody s much it makes cry????
have u ever wanted some1 so bad that u cant sleep at night??
have u ever tried to find the word but u cant get them in yur mind??have u fond the 1 who u would recive yur heart n aslo give u his ??

2007-03-07 09:27:46 · 13 answers · asked by Angad 4 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is going through a lot right now, and I am trying my best to understand him. We are both in college and this semester he is taking all math related courses and is having a hard time, and his parents are getting a divorce. He hardly has time to see me during the week now and I understand that, but lately in my opinion he has been very disrespectful. We have been arguing and he will tell me what I need to do instead of offering advice and he doesn't try to understand my points. I like to keep situations peaceful so when he gets really mad and puts me down I usually get upset and start crying. He says that he is tired of having to deal with me getting upset, and he wishes that when I got upset I could just make myself feel better instead of him having to fix it all the time. I don't feel like I'm asking very much, most of the time I just want a sincere apology. I end up taking the blame for our problems because he has too much stress to worry about my feelings. Someone help!

2007-03-07 09:27:35 · 3 answers · asked by gab 2 in Singles & Dating

Well my boyfriend is 24 and i'm 7 years younger, it seems strange to some people but we've being going out for over 6 months. Thing is, my mother always knew he was 24 however, my dad always thought he was 22 becuase i knew he wouldn't be happy if he knew his real age, but in an argument down the phone to my boyfriend, my dad heard me mention his age; he hasn't mentioned anything to me but he has to my mother, what should i do? deny it? or tell him thr truth?

2007-03-07 09:27:24 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My boyfriend is about to graduate from college and he may have a job prospect at a place that is an hour away. He keeps talking about all of these other job offers in other states though. He says he just wants to go on the trips and that the interviews don't mean anything. I feel skeptable. He even said last night that if he had to, meaning the job in state didn't work out, that he would have to move away. I just sort of let him talk and later that night I couldn't hold it in anymore and told him it made me sad and started crying a little. He said he loved me and didn't want to lose me but why would he keep talking to me about these job offers? He's obviously considering them. What do I do if in he tells me that in August he's moving away? How do I deal with the uncertainty until I find out for sure?

2007-03-07 09:27:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating