My boyfriend is going through a lot right now, and I am trying my best to understand him. We are both in college and this semester he is taking all math related courses and is having a hard time, and his parents are getting a divorce. He hardly has time to see me during the week now and I understand that, but lately in my opinion he has been very disrespectful. We have been arguing and he will tell me what I need to do instead of offering advice and he doesn't try to understand my points. I like to keep situations peaceful so when he gets really mad and puts me down I usually get upset and start crying. He says that he is tired of having to deal with me getting upset, and he wishes that when I got upset I could just make myself feel better instead of him having to fix it all the time. I don't feel like I'm asking very much, most of the time I just want a sincere apology. I end up taking the blame for our problems because he has too much stress to worry about my feelings. Someone help!
2007-03-07 09:27:35 · 3 answers · asked by gab 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
PS: It is my birthday tomorrow and he told me he didn't even think about what to get me yet. I'm not materialistic, it's just that his birthday is in May and I've already started thinking about it. He never puts in the effort that I do, even when he's not in school.
2007-03-07 10:32:34 · update #1
You should leaving him be for a while so he can calm down. Men prefer to figure things out on there own. If he feels that he needs help then he will ask. You can be good to him by just telling him once that if you need anything I'm here for you, and leave it at that.
2007-03-07 09:40:29 · answer #1 · answered by james020184 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be too clingy to him, maybe he needs a little breathing space. take a couple of days off and catch up on the weekend and allocate some time to talk about the situation.
2007-03-07 09:33:08 · answer #2 · answered by Gruntled Employee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should help him in his time of need. be patend and help him he needs your help and advice so be careful of what you say. and can you plz help me my guestion is; How can i tell if my crush likes me? my name: britanie m
plz help me
2007-03-07 09:37:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋