Just curious.... I'm seeing someone and doing that. But at the same time I don't want to make him wait to long or work to hard and lose interest.
What do you think?
2007-03-07 09:30:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am making him wait beause I like him a lot but am just not ready to take it to the next level with him yet. I told him that and he said I am "worth waiting for".
It isn't just a game or something like that....
2007-03-07 09:36:33 · update #1
Well... it depends on the guy... but if you really let him know that you like him... by your eyes... body language... and by telling him... but leave a little for him to try and hunt for... I would like that... it would make me really want you.
2007-03-07 09:34:40 · answer #1 · answered by David 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's just a game... games are for children.
and to your add on..... YES it is a game.. and you know it... trying to give a logical reason after the fact doesn't take the game out of it. It's only a silly attempt to cover the fact that it is a game and you got caught.. Time to grow up. You should never hold a carrot in front of someone.. sooner or later that carrot will get snatched, chewed up and spit out. Either you are interested or you are not.. There is no wait and see and maybe... That's quite the pedestal you have yourself on.
2007-03-07 17:38:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I may wait for a little while, but after that I loose interest and move on to someone else, thats if I really like her. If I just want to have fun with her, and she plays that, I might wait a couple days before I get bored and move on.
2007-03-07 17:37:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. On to the next trick. Just cause you got that thing between your legs that you think is gold, doesn't mean a man will wait or work harder for it. There's many more fish in the sea. You'll realize that one day, but then again it seems that you're not the brightest bulb in the six pack from the dollar store.
2007-03-07 17:35:55 · answer #4 · answered by Mike Hunt 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Personally speaking, if a girl can wait for it, she most likely will continue to maintain this illusion of control and make sex a one-sided activity, relenting only when it is in her favor.
I would say it also depends on her level of "coyness", if you send out strong signals and send him home repeatedly, expect diminishing returns in his interest.
Expect to be placed on the back burner if you overdo it.
2007-03-07 17:50:33 · answer #5 · answered by Horndog 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Fine line there.REAL fine. Personally,I'm not a chaser and will not wait long.I don't like games and things being held over my head.Being undecided wether or not you want to get serious does not sit well with me.You should be able to make a mature decision relatively quickly.If not--BYE!
2007-03-07 17:45:15 · answer #6 · answered by rockman 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont overwait... If you make him work hard to get you, show him that its worth it, show him you are interested in him. And DONT say you love him. Thats strong for a short time, but fades away really fast.
2007-03-07 17:35:51 · answer #7 · answered by remove 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
working too hard makes you definitely lose interest but too easy sometimes makes it boring so if you have already waited a little bit then go ahead and move forward
2007-03-07 17:34:08 · answer #8 · answered by TheOneNOnlyTK 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
o guys love a chellenge! girls that are easy will be boring for them and they will lose their interest faster. playing little games with their mind and making them wait and work for it can usually make a better relationship cuz they no they worked 4 it and earned it!
2007-03-07 17:34:08 · answer #9 · answered by RJlicious! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes somtimes
2007-03-07 17:34:01 · answer #10 · answered by hindergirl17 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋