Family & Relationships - 7 March 2007

There's this guy i know. And i like him alot but i'm not sure if he really likes me back. The reason i think he does is, that he's always telling me that i'm beautiful and hot. He told me that if he dated me than he'd treat me right. Yesterday he told me that it'd be easy for me to get a guy because i'm beautiful and smart, and he said he wants to hangout with me more. The reasons i dont believe he likes me is because he told me that he really likes this girl that he thinks is really hot. and hopes to date her sometime. He also spent valentines day with her. I'm not too sure if he likes me. What do u think? i hope this didnt confuse you.

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2007-03-07 09:06:49 · 14 answers · asked by squiggles 2 in Singles & Dating

There is a girl I work with very closely in my office. There is only about 5 people on our staff. I have worked here for just under two years, we are close to the same age and have become friends. She is a really nice person on a personal level but at work is a different story all together.

She is constantly undermining (<--- spelling?) me, making me look bad to the bosses and just generally being a bi*tch. She treats me like crap here. I have stopped hanging out with her outside of work so much just because I don't like how two faced she seems to be.

As a matter of fact as I was typing this I had to pause because my boss came into my office to discuss with me something she told him I did wrong wich was completely untrue. It goes really deep down to her refusing to order me business cards because I "don't need them" when I am in a higher more sensitive position than her to boot. She cancelled an order I placed on my own once saying I "went over her head and behind her back". HELP

2007-03-07 09:06:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my Ex-boyfriend is only talking to my Bff's and my crush is his friend. What should i do?!!!?!!

2007-03-07 09:05:39 · 1 answers · asked by claudia g 1 in Singles & Dating

I have the pot, and the water, and a piece of cheese in case i get hungry.
Anyways, i was about to boil the water when all the sudden, i got lost.....i totaly blanked out...help♥

2007-03-07 09:05:27 · 9 answers · asked by ♥Dougie_Poynter♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, i have a best friend..she had sex when she was 13 with her boyfriend who was 15, she cut herself cuz she was depressed and she smokes!!!! shes only 13 and shes my best friend it makes me so sad to see her! what advice should i give her or should i tell an adult????? HELP

2007-03-07 09:04:54 · 3 answers · asked by bluewingle2 1 in Friends

my bf and i are talking about getting married and we want to know when the best time to get married for luck reasons

2007-03-07 09:04:34 · 6 answers · asked by luvnlifelol 1 in Weddings

My Godmother died Sunday and her funeral is Saturday but I have been on the waiting list for childcare for over a year and orentation is Saturday also now if I do not go to orentation I will get pushed to the bottom of the list again. I don't know where to go. By the way I did visit my godmother before she passed.

2007-03-07 09:04:28 · 24 answers · asked by :-) Lovely(-: 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok.. i go to a christian church.. and iv knowen this guy there for over 14 years. well heres the delema... my friend turned 17 on last saturday and he is going out with a 13 year old.. so part of the year he is 3 years older and other part he is 4 years. the thing is, they are both baptized christians and haven knowen eachother for about 6 years.. they arnt like haven sex or anything they are just doing pg-13 crap cause they are christians so hes not gonna have sex with her before they are both 18... the mother of the girl is in LOVE with my friend and his parents approve also since they are both christians and they trust them....

Im asking what your guys opinions are on it since i was gonna talk to him about it.. is it wrong? even though they arnt gonna do anything bad and just being close to eachother..

2007-03-07 09:04:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been dating for 1.5 yrs and although I love him, I feel his use of percocets, vicodin, etc is seriously standing in the way of us continuing our relationship. I have confronted him in the past and he usually gets angry and defensive and I have since dropped the issue. I also don't entirely trust him when he tells me how much money he spends on pills and when hes hanging out with certain people who have similar habits. I know none of this is a good sign and I should have done something months ago...any advice on what I should do now?

2007-03-07 09:03:55 · 11 answers · asked by jennafingers 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok well my BEST friend in the entire world introduced me to her friend/ex-boyfriend (who she still liked) and me n him hit it off. I didnt realize 2 years ago he randomly asked me out when we barly knew eachother and i said no. Well now that we were properly introduced and all we are good friend so he asked me out again but he lived far away. I said yes so we had a long distance relationship but it didnt work out so we split up and were still friends. The after a while my BEST friend introduced me to another guy and i fell in love with him within 2 days. After a few months he asked me out and i said yes. After the BEST friend found out she didnt talk to me for a while and i could figure out why. Finaly she told me she liked him and she was mad that i was dating him. I didnt know what to do so i never talked about him around her no matter how much i wanted too. I feel bad because its like i was stealing all the people she liked. I know its not something to be proud and i feel horrible.

2007-03-07 09:03:28 · 4 answers · asked by Nessa 2 in Friends

If you know you said one thing and your mate tells you you said another and makes you question yourself and tells his family and friends that you made fun of him, and they treat you bad because of his insecurity and b.s., what do you do? It is not an isolated incident, it is often.

2007-03-07 09:03:13 · 5 answers · asked by LaRae 2 in Family

I hate my mother in law so much. She's a wicked witch. She says all the bad remarks and such about me. She is pure evil and I can't do anything about it. My Husband gets her upset and she takes it out on me. I wasn't even at the scene to begin with. She was even considering that my Husband and I divorce. She's never respectful towards me. She looks down at me. She was very nice at one point where I was still dating my Husband and we weren't even married then and had any children. Now that we are married and have a child she showed her true colors. She really hated me to begin with. I just can't stand looking at her face. Her presence is a disaster to my eyes. She brings nothing but pain to me. I love my husband, but I just don't understand why his mother is just cruel. She also wanted to be called "ma ma" towards my own son. What the heck is that supposed to mean? Right in front of my face she does that. I'm my son's mom, mama, mother not that good for nothing mother in law I wish I never had. I can't stand her. I could write endlessly about how much I hate her.

2007-03-07 09:02:50 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hi.I'm planning to propose to my wonderful gf on her birthday.I know she'll say yes - we've talked about it often enough.I'm terrible at expressing myself especially with the lovey-dovey stuff.
What can i say to her to sweep her off her feet, make her happy & make the night memorable?I don't want to just say i love you honey will you marry me?
What other loving romantic stuff can i say to her that tells i love her so much & that she means the world to me? I'm terrible at this.I had to write here for advice on a Valentines Card!
For sure i want to be with this girl forever.I just want to make her night the most special night of her life so far.Any help will be gratefully received! Thanks from a tongue-tied Jackie.

2007-03-07 09:02:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend grounded his son from TV for a week...this weekend is the moms weekend with the son...should she also be made to NOt let him watch TV while he is there. The decision to not let him watch TV was never discussed with her but my boyfriend thinks she should follow thru with the punishment...The mother only has the son 4 days a month...What are your thoughts?

2007-03-07 09:02:33 · 9 answers · asked by karaoke742000 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I think she made the right decision about leaving and even not telling me at first, but don't know why she won't talk to me or even call me. I love her with all my heart and miss her so much, I have had time to think about us and I have found that there is alot of Vanessa that I just cherish with all my heart..I have found that I love her more than I thought I did, she really truely is a genuine loving caring person with a huge heart..and I see it now and feel my love deeper. Vanessa, if you read this I love you babe and miss you dearly, I hope you are accomplishing what you set off to do, I know you needed your time. and understand and have no anger about it at all, just confused..but then ohwell all i care about is that you have what you need and are healthy and safe and warm..then I am ok. well sweetie, if you still have a place for me in your life when you return, will you call me? love James "vbj"

2007-03-07 09:02:11 · 2 answers · asked by justnogoodpieceofshitme 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So here'e the deal. We've been together for 3 years and my parents didn't like him in the beginning because he's mexican and they are "so called white". They are very judgmental to his race,you know like red necks, but more old fashioned. Im about to be 20 and we've lived together for 2 years. My parents are ok with him now that we have our own apartment. Here's the thing, last night during our 3 year anniversary he asks me to marry him.Being completly in love I say yes. Now Im wondering how I should tell my parents, and how long I should wait. I have always been afraid of them, and my dad wanted to be asked first(hes controlling)Maybe one of you has been in the same situation? First we thought we would bring both sides of parents together and announce, but our parents have never met cuz his parents only speak spanish. My parents live about 2 hours away and his are in the town next to us. What do you think we should do?How long did you wait?Can I do it over the phone?

2007-03-07 09:02:10 · 24 answers · asked by monkeysgirl04 3 in Marriage & Divorce

guys or girls.
do you shower? apply makeup for 2 hours (girls, i hope) nothing?
tell me :)

2007-03-07 09:01:56 · 13 answers · asked by hairspray queen 5 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy (call him M) who says he really likes me and he has no problem saying that so I don't think he's shy or anything. I've told him I liked him too, but...

...he thinks this one guy likes me and I've told him that I don't like him like that and I just think he's okay and sometimes a little weird. But in every conversation I have with him, he always says stuff like, "You guys are so perfect," "You walked home with him, your boyfriend? So cute." "You guys are like lovebirds." When he says this stuff he's joking around and I joke around too and say stuff like, "Haha, oh yeah, me and him - we're perfect." And there's this one celebrity who I said looks and seems pretty cool and M answered, "He looks gay." The thing is, I never bring up the other guy, he always does. I don't think he does this because he's shy, because he says he likes me a lot and tells me all the time.

What's with him??

2007-03-07 09:01:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, so there is this guy in my first hour and he is like so freaking cute. the problem is that he is a senior and im a freshman. and im not the type of girl to ask out a guy. im pretty quiet and shy so i dont' know how to go up and talk to him. he kinda sits all by himself because he's a student helper and so no one talkes to him in our class. but every once and i while i think i see him look at me but im not sure. but then again he just might be looking at me since im like STARING at him. so i need ways to talk to him or get to know him with out being to obvious. or just give me ideas on what i should do.

2007-03-07 09:01:03 · 10 answers · asked by Chewy 2 in Singles & Dating

I just heard a conversation with my boss and a guy who I am "friends" with. My boss had the call on speaker - I wasn't eavesdropping. This guy and I have gone out as friends and have slowly been developing a relationship. He sounded really upset on the phone and may be coming over before I leave tonight. We have a "dinner date" that we've been trying to fit into our schedules. Would I be too forward to suggest us going out tonight if he wanted someone to talk to or should I just play dumb and go home.

2007-03-07 09:00:17 · 8 answers · asked by Gatekeeper 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 08:59:35 · 11 answers · asked by Eastcoast beachgirl 3 in Singles & Dating

my ex bf is only tlking to my bff's and my crush thinks i'm weird

2007-03-07 08:59:29 · 7 answers · asked by claudia g 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend is going to be out of school and wont be back until monday, and thats when im going to kiss her. im 13, so there isnt gonna be any frenching or tongue or anything, so dont say anything about that. How long should the kiss itself last. i have everything figured out but that. Any serious answers are hugly appreciated.

2007-03-07 08:59:23 · 18 answers · asked by Matt 3 in Singles & Dating

can download "create it yourself" wedding invitations....can you give me some sites?

2007-03-07 08:59:08 · 5 answers · asked by Kiss my Putt! 7 in Weddings

Well, the scenario goes like this...I met this guy at a gym club I attend.I wasn't really attracted to him, but he seemed really nice and comforting.Everytime I would see him, he's always come up to me and see how i was doing.I notice there was a ltlle flirting action going on, he gave me his cell number and when I called him he told me he found me to be VERY Attractive, and that if I ever wanted to hang out ot go to a movie call him, so i finally did three weeks ago..and all I can say is that he hasn't been positive.I told him that we should hang out, he tells me in a couple of weeks because he has no money, then i call hima few weeks later and he tells me that he's busy, maybe next week, I text message him to see if we were going out still, he tells me that some things came up, and he was suppossed to hang out with a few people, and he'll let me know he was free...so I'm feeling very rejected.,and I don't know why all the distance from him, when he intiated the "hanging out

2007-03-07 08:58:57 · 4 answers · asked by Velinda S 1 in Friends

she is in the 9th grade, the babys father is 15teen also. his mom is 26 with 5 kids and pregnant with twins due any day now. She doesnt want to abort the baby but i do. I know it will be up to me to take care of this child.

2007-03-07 08:58:54 · 15 answers · asked by grieving mother 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

There was this girl that I chased after for a while but nothing ever came of it, she didn't want to date. Fine. I was still talking to her but much more occasionally, but our schedules were similar and we were friends first, and this allowed us to go out once in a while for some drinks, sometimes to the wee hours of the morning. Now I am dating someone, and I like her a lot and want something serious w/ her. Problem is, this girl still calls like she did before (which I am not upset about) but now SHE is all flirty when I see her and I want nothing to do w/ it. Frankly she had her chance and I absolutely adore the girl I am now dating. How do I tell her to tone it down w/out ruining a friendship? I wonder if there is even a way or if I should even worry about it. FYI- my gf does know who she is and that I used to be interested, so it's not like I am trying to hide anything from her.

2007-03-07 08:58:33 · 4 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

we have been frineds 4 like 2 years...

2007-03-07 08:58:13 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

People say it all the time, and I'm 25, so I know I should seriously KNOW by now, but I don't. Can someone please tell me? Thanks! :-)

2007-03-07 08:57:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 08:57:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating