My girlfriend is going to be out of school and wont be back until monday, and thats when im going to kiss her. im 13, so there isnt gonna be any frenching or tongue or anything, so dont say anything about that. How long should the kiss itself last. i have everything figured out but that. Any serious answers are hugly appreciated.
2007-03-07 08:59:23 · 18 answers · asked by Matt 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that you are thinking WAAAAAY too hard and that you are going to be much too nervous trying to think and go through your planned list of things to do and what to do next instead of enjoying the moment. If your head is swimming on "omg! I do this next and then this and then this" you probably aren't going to be getting the moment right.
A romantic kiss, especially the first one, is about the moment and feeling close to someone. It's how you feel about each other emotionally and letting the intense feeling take on physical form. Asking how long it should go is like asking "how long do I stroke her hair?" or "hold long do I caress her hands?" A kiss is that except more intense and more intimate. You are caressing her lips with yours. As long as the two of you are in the moment and enjoying it, it can keep going. When you break is when you read in the body language and the feel of the moment that the two of you are sated. Then you part and open your eyes. My romantic kisses that stir the soul go from about 10 seconds to like a minute. You can't do this in a few seconds. I'm not usually looking at the clock at those times, but that's what it seems like.
If you are going to just go do a close mouth pucker and plant it on her closed mouth pucker, then well, I suppose that can just go on for a couple of seconds. However, that really isn't a kiss. It's what mothers do with their children and what a husband running out the door late for a meeting does with his wife. Another words, it's not romantic. It's a symbol of affection.
2007-03-07 09:16:36 · answer #1 · answered by Elisa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it may just be a peck like one second but then a peck could always lead to a more passionate kiss 5-30 seconds or longer don't be shy to give a little tongue if the girl is open to it make sure you have fresh breath but really most guys are not even thinking of girls at this age.
2007-03-07 09:03:38 · answer #2 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt really make sense for a close-mouthed kiss to be longer than 3 seconds in my opinion. It would look kinda stupid if you 2 just sat there and pressed ur lips together for 5 minutes wouldnt it??
2007-03-07 09:02:51 · answer #3 · answered by Sexy*Black*Chick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey I am 14. I kiss my bf for about 5 sec. if she keeps holding on then keep going but dont go over 10 sec cause that is just weird!! Good Luck!!
2007-03-07 09:03:19 · answer #4 · answered by lynette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok,well i'm 12 and i've had my first kiss 2day!!! and i thought i waz gunna mess up and i did'nt.it's gunna be okay i was nerves too and yur girlfriend probaly is too. dont worry about it dont plan anyway to kiss her either just let the kiss come to u its all gunna be allright,and i did'nt tongue kiss either my kiss wit my boyfriend we just had a quick is and it lasted for about 3 seconds.it all turned out well. goodluck!
2007-03-07 09:12:16 · answer #5 · answered by brenda r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think about 5 seconds. 1...2...3...4...5... not 12345 anything longer would be ackward but you can open your mouth with no tounge, thats my fav anyway.
2007-03-07 09:03:44 · answer #6 · answered by 2shay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt know. im 14 and i just got my first bf. if it isnt french then i would just say like a 3 second peck on the lips or cheek!
2007-03-07 09:03:22 · answer #7 · answered by : ) !@#$%^&* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just happens. There's no given time limit on a kiss. Just give her a soft kiss.
2007-03-07 09:03:43 · answer #8 · answered by NicOOd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 hours
2007-03-07 09:03:20 · answer #9 · answered by whasup 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have bad breath,like Clark Gable, avoid the kisses.
If you are normal, for your first kiss, about 1,5 minute.
2007-03-07 09:10:46 · answer #10 · answered by vanearth13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋