she is in the 9th grade, the babys father is 15teen also. his mom is 26 with 5 kids and pregnant with twins due any day now. She doesnt want to abort the baby but i do. I know it will be up to me to take care of this child.
2007-03-07 08:58:54 · 15 answers · asked by grieving mother 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Since when is a mother MURDERING her unborn child a good idea? You yourself are 31 years old and were 16 when you got pregnant. Are you going to look at your 15 year old daughter and tell her that you should have had an abortion??? What's wrong with adoption??? Because 9 months of embarassment is worth a human life? WHAT'S WRONG WITH PEOPLE THESE DAYS?????
2007-03-07 09:04:08 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OK, ya know what? when is your daughter due? I will take the baby, don't kill it. I have 2 sons, and I am 27 years old, own my home and have a great paying job. My husband also has a good secure job. I always wanted a daughter, and even if your daughter does not bear a girl I will still take it.
due to complication during my last pregnancy I cannot have kids anymore.
so please consider adoption, there are people out there that have NO children and have spent thousands of dollars trying to conceive without result. Your daughters mistake is someone Else's gift from god. Just cause you will be embarrassed for 9 months don't mean that a child should be aborted. if anything you should be ashamed that your daughter knows nothing of protection.
2007-03-10 12:15:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong if you don't want to end up raising the baby. She's 15 and knew better. No one seems to be saying anything about the father... no one ever does, big surprise. Then women get all the flack for having abortions... that's crap.
HIS mom is 26 and will have SEVEN kids?! omfg. That's a great example to be setting huh? If your daughter refuses the abortion, tell her to go live with her boyfriend. His mom doesn't seem to mind raising kids.
I'm sure none of the people here that are against abortion have ever complained about welfare or higher taxes etiher.
2007-03-07 15:18:37 · answer #3 · answered by Yur Mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Over twenty years ago, I became pregnant at a young age also and was constantly harassed by school officials and other family members to adopt my child out, I was very stressed. In later years I was pregnant again and was threatened by my boyfriend at that time to get an abortion, and I did. It was one of the biggest mistakes I ever made. Ask your daughter what she wants to do, and what her plans are, if any and support her in her efforts along with the father. She needs guidance, and the father does too, they both made the baby so, they need to face the music. If the both of them agree on adoption allow it but, do not try and make her have an abortion you do not want innocent blood on your hands.
2007-03-07 12:52:49 · answer #4 · answered by D S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. That's really tough. I am a mother too. I had my daughter when I was young also. Raising kids is such a hard job, but I wouldn't trade my daughter for anything in the world and I'm sure that you would say the same about your children. This is so hard, because I'm sure you thought you were done raising babies. A baby would make everyone's life harder, but think of all the love and joy that your children have brought into your life. If you could go back, would you choose not to have them? I find it hard to believe that even through the rough times of raising a child, that someone could wish that they could go back and abort. But many wish they could go back and choose not to abort.
The other option is always adoption.
This is definitely hard to answer for you. Best of luck to you
2007-03-07 09:10:31 · answer #5 · answered by Jmac 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I answered your question in another segment here, but don't kill the innocent baby, GIVE IT UP FOR ADOPTION, and put your daughter on birth control. By forcing your child to have an abortion you will be teaching her all kinds of WRONG attitudes about life. Make her own up to her actions, don't just flush her consequences down the drain. She will never learn about consequences in life if you force her to have this abortion. Nobody says you have to raise the kid yourself. There are government resources out there....with four kids of your own, I would think you'd have a slightly different point of view here....but all you are worried about is the work/care you are going to face? I feel sorry for the rest of your kids. Wake up and pay attention to them, give your daughter love, support, she's probably scared out of her mind. She will become a better, more productive person if you involve her in this decision making process, and push adoption as the best option...that way the baby gets a better life, and your daughter gets a second chance at focusing on her education and bettering herself.
2007-03-07 09:10:48 · answer #6 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't FORCE her but if she wants to let her. If you make her you'll probably end up being hated by her forever. Also abortion can possibly kill you so it just wouldn't be right to force her. Also keep in mind she may want to keep the child. With in a year she can be emancipated. I'm raising my kids on my own with no help or money from my parents. It CAN be done.
2007-03-10 14:41:46 · answer #7 · answered by lol 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no no no. abortion is the worst thing to do. if you dont want the baby and you know you wouldnt take care if him/her the best thing to do is give the baby up for adoption. Your taking the life of someone who hasnt even got to see the world yet.
2007-03-07 09:19:25 · answer #8 · answered by girl.that.loves.a.boy. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, plz don't it is a child and cannot help that it was born into a life like that..... at least if u want to get rid of it put it up for adoption, and put it in a good home. u wouldn't want to die b 4 u were born..... i am totally up against abortion, if i were u i would keep the innocent thing, or bring it to a foster family.
2007-03-07 09:08:54 · answer #9 · answered by nannerz iz 2 kool 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just tell her that she'll have to take care of it and so will the father because you or his mom can't do it but NO abotions
2007-03-07 13:16:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋