Ok well my BEST friend in the entire world introduced me to her friend/ex-boyfriend (who she still liked) and me n him hit it off. I didnt realize 2 years ago he randomly asked me out when we barly knew eachother and i said no. Well now that we were properly introduced and all we are good friend so he asked me out again but he lived far away. I said yes so we had a long distance relationship but it didnt work out so we split up and were still friends. The after a while my BEST friend introduced me to another guy and i fell in love with him within 2 days. After a few months he asked me out and i said yes. After the BEST friend found out she didnt talk to me for a while and i could figure out why. Finaly she told me she liked him and she was mad that i was dating him. I didnt know what to do so i never talked about him around her no matter how much i wanted too. I feel bad because its like i was stealing all the people she liked. I know its not something to be proud and i feel horrible.
2007-03-07 09:03:28 · 4 answers · asked by Nessa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
As a girlfriend there are several things that you may share........ make-up, clothes, taste in guys........ HOWEVER!!!!!!!!!
You don't share boyfriends........ believe me, even if she doesn't seemed bothered by it....she really is!!!!!!! Be a good friend and meet your own guys!
2007-03-07 09:10:25 · answer #1 · answered by erin_foss8191@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont you have guy friends of your own that you have to wait until your best f introduces one to you? If something similar had happened before, why didnt you ask your friend this time if she was interested in this new guy?
So im guessing if she introduces you to a 3rd guy you'll say yes?
You should feel horrible.
2007-03-07 17:11:58 · answer #2 · answered by Java Chip 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should GROW UP! Falling in love with a guy after two days? Im not saying it doesnt happen , but come on, it happened twice in a short time span. If you care about your friend (it doesnt sound like you do) then stop chasing every peice of tail that she introduces you to.
2007-03-07 17:12:36 · answer #3 · answered by JASSY 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off...you can't fall in love in 2 days...I dont' care what anyone says, it's impossible.
Second of all, just because you develop feelings for someone doens't mean you have to act on them.
Friends are forever but guys come and go...you need to respect your friend and her feelings.
And if you really feel like you could have a future for one of these guys, sit down and talk to your friend about it BEFORE you start dating someone.
You might find if you're honest with her, she'll give you her blessing
2007-03-07 17:11:31 · answer #4 · answered by duvalicious 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋