Family & Relationships - 7 March 2007

well I got in a fight with this girl and SHE pulled out a marker and scribbled all over my shirt and I got SOO mad so I tore her sleeve off and she tored my shirt and my stomach was showing so I pulled her hair and she screemed and she pushed me on the ground and got on me and start hitting me and I pushed her off and locked her in the boys bathroom and she got out and start throwing soap at me so I tore her skirt and her skirt almost came off and she punched me in the stomach I pushed her and got on her and start hitting her as hard as I can and then I went in the back of the school and got the school hose and sprayed her on her new skirt ha ha and my exbf was tryinmg to stop the fight and and we have dorms so we have to do schoolwork in our dorm

2007-03-07 11:45:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

They think just because im under 20 years old that i am a bad mom, or wife, and make mean comments. Im allways afraid of what people think! What should I do?

2007-03-07 11:44:58 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how do i look nice in front of a guy i like? i REALLY like this guy and idk how to look nice. i want him to find me attractive. girls, any advice on how to glam up?

2007-03-07 11:44:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been going out over a year. ANd randomly she says we dont feel "right" anymore. She loves me as a best friend she says, she is still attracted to me and still wants to hang out and didnt break up with me to date other guys. I have never heard of this happening before. I have heard of it happening if the girl loses attraction but this just isnt the case. Everyone i have told is confused, guys and girls. All the things she told me about our future and getting married, and one day she doesnt feel the same? I dont get it. We were not friends before we dated and now were best friends over the year we dated. COuld she be confusing the love? I mean I just feel like i am bestfriends with her. She is like the ultimate friend, who i love so much? This is just really confusing. No one knows what the heck is going on. I dont even think she does because when she told me how we didnt feel right she told me she didnt even think about saying that and that she needed time to think.

2007-03-07 11:44:44 · 6 answers · asked by PHX SUNS r GOIN to da 'SHip 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi,
We were married for 10+ years with two kids. I recently found out that my spouce is in love with someone else. After discussions with friends and family we decided to changes our ways of doing thigs to make things better. I kept my end of the bargain but my spouce is still in touch with the other person. It doesn't seem to end. Few months passed and same story. The kids are really young one of them is barely one year old. I asked my spouce if there is love between us and I was told "yes". But here is the situation, one day there are emails/phone calls with the other person then next day all love and affection towards me. I feel that my spouce is confused and don't know which way to go. I am not sure what to do. I am worried about the kids and the custody of them if I file for divorce. My spouce's parents are asking me to wait and see what happens. What am I supposed to do? Please help!!!

2007-03-07 11:43:24 · 31 answers · asked by Perplexed 1 in Marriage & Divorce

so there's this guy in one of my classes.. and i'm a sophomore. he's a junior. i remember seeing him in the halls when i was a freshman and admiring him from afar. Now that we have a class together, i want to turn my admiration into maybe something more. Conveniently, we sit next to each other, but we only talk on average once a week. it's really aggravating because i like him a whole lot, and i'm scared to start conversations. last week we argued about which numbers were "cooler" than other numbers. it was fun.. but then we didnt talk for the rest of the week. today he finally spoke to me again.. just out the blue.. about some movie. and i kinda put my foot out into the aisle today, and when i did that, he put his foot out too. sometimes if we're doing something in class, he'll just ask me randomly.. even though he knows that subject isn't my best. i'm confused. what does he want?

2007-03-07 11:43:23 · 10 answers · asked by Maria18 2 in Singles & Dating

okay im a female 13 and am i such a bad person if i make a's and b's and im really a good person but im ready for sex?im ready for a serious relationship but my mom tells me im too young for se.x since she got pregnant with me @ 16.my cousin is 14 and he has se.x and uses protection so why can't i? my aunt is 26 and she says no matter what happens she'll always love and support me if i need it sooo if i happen to get pregnamy shell take care of me!

2007-03-07 11:42:40 · 32 answers · asked by sexy ass candy! 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 11:42:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guys and Girls

What do you go for?

Looks/body or Personality?

you can't say both, cause you can't always get both.

2007-03-07 11:42:05 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

things have always been like this but i just think it me.i do alot for him(gifts,parties,cleaning,backrubs ect.)and allways have but i have to wonder if he even thinks about me when i'm not right in front of his face.for example he "forgot" to get my anything for valintines day,not even a card.said he just did not get around to it yet well 3 weeks later he still has not.if i don't remind him my b-day is comming up he would forget that to,i have to plan my own party if i want one.i don't expect expensive gifts but a card would be nice. he knows how i feel when he forgets these things but he acts like he just does not care.

2007-03-07 11:40:19 · 14 answers · asked by sarah67martin 1 in Weddings

2007-03-07 11:40:05 · 21 answers · asked by Snow 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 11:39:52 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am with a wonderful man, to me anyway. He treats me so wonderfuly buuuuttttt, I am starting to question some things about him. He is a recovered alcoholic (which I knew), he doesnt drink, smoke, party...none of that and right now we are going through an ugly custody battle and his ex wife is using a police report against him that he was abusive. Apparently, he spit in her face, punched her, pulled her hair and told her that he could do whatever he wanted to her because he paid all the bills. Here is the thing...I couldn't possibly see him ever doing a thing like that but I have seen the movie "enough" and that kind of thing, is hidden real well. Another thing, He was never questioned...according to the police report that I read with my own eyes and he deny's. So much seems wrong with the police report like when she filed it, that she didnt want to make a huge deal about it..as she told the officer and the fact that she didnt know where he worked. married for 5 years!

Any thoughts

2007-03-07 11:39:22 · 21 answers · asked by blah 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-07 11:38:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-07 11:38:18 · 19 answers · asked by AVR 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ur mother missed out ur entire life,u find her instead of trying to get to know u as a person she needs your help financially u told her that u r not in the position to do so right now but u will when u r in the position to do so.u asked her some questions like y did she missed out of ur life instead of answering ur questions her other children r telling u that u r causing her to have a high blood pressure.would u insist on having some kind of relationship with her or u would just leave her alone for good.

2007-03-07 11:38:10 · 10 answers · asked by hope 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

We were in bed having sex. Her friend wants to tell her it
happened but I want to keep it quiet. I'm like how in the
world did I get into this. Her friend says its wrong not to tell her.
How should I handle it.

2007-03-07 11:38:02 · 14 answers · asked by Perry 1 in Friends

My brother was rape when he was 10 after 18 years he tells his secret to us.

2007-03-07 11:37:37 · 4 answers · asked by Unlucky 1 in Friends

I have just been dumped by my gf of two years. She has tortured me emotionally, and I am a broken man. She has played me like a violin, and I have been on a roller coatser ride since January of 2006. This girl runs home to her parents, (SHE IS NEARLY 30) dumping me via text or email and then comes back and apologizes and this cycle has repaeted itself every couple of weeks for the last year. I really cared about this girl a lot, and she has hurt me very badly! I can't believe that someone I was so good to does not ever want to speak to me again! Can anyone offer me some advice....?

2007-03-07 11:37:03 · 14 answers · asked by fuji 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i like this guy in school, he's 2 years younger cuz i am a senior and he's a sophomore..

anyway, i believe he likes me too (not being conceited or anything)...since we both could not stop looking at each other and everything...besides, he's very cute and EXTREMELY smart.....

that's not the problem though...

the PROBLEM is that i'm am going to be leaving in august about 400 miles away because i'm going to be off to college...

also, what if we end up together, what's the point???....i'm not sure if i could handle a long-distance relationship.....i'm not saying i'm totally crazy about him but i do have some feelings.....

if he really does like me, and i like him back (my friends' are trying soo hard to hook us up BTW).....will it work?....i'm graduating in June,..do u think a thing called 'break up' is the only way...

help!

2007-03-07 11:36:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well im 16 yrs old and me my bf have been dating for almost a week and i asked him what he was looking forward for the future and he said being with me. Now i think that was alittle weird and it feels like he is too clingy and i don't want a really serious relasionship. I what should i do.

2007-03-07 11:36:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sparks and chemistry. What's the different?

2007-03-07 11:36:27 · 16 answers · asked by qasizan 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I dated a guy for a year and a half and we fell in love. He proposed and I accepted, though my father never approved of our relationship, but I put my foot down and said this is the guy for me. and he had to approve of him. Later I met his family (they knew of our relationship from the beginning) , they flew in from India, and apparently his mom decided she didn't like me and didn't want him to marry me anymore. He left me for his family and sucked it up and moved on, I don't know how I did it. But now I don't want to get married at all, I don't like any man I meet, and I always find faults in men. I cry often, not for him, but for the fact that I feel betrayed. I seem to know the answer and just to be strong, but sometimes I can't help it. I know he wasn't worth it and I am glad I found out before I committed myself. But why do I feel like I never want to be married and how can I overcome this?

2007-03-07 11:36:24 · 6 answers · asked by skagen.2006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok well im in eighth grade and im 14 and my best friend zach ride the bus together every day and two days ago he did something really immature (well i was sorta immature too cuzz i did what he said) well he goes hey samantha look at this cool glowy thing and he has it under his jacket so i went under and he kissed me and now he wont even talk to me! i feel terrible and depressed and i just feel like ive lost my best friend ive tried to talk to him but its just so awkward!! what should i do?

2007-03-07 11:36:15 · 26 answers · asked by Samtata 1 in Friends

so heres the deal,I'm the new i.t guy at a company and theres this really hott girl whos always looking at me and trying to make conversation with me... I always catch her looking at me then when i do she just smiles at me.(wierd right).. I'm 5'10 170 pd slim hispanic with caramel skin and a goatee with short spikey hair and I think we make a compatable couple,,,BUT heres the problem theres this BIG BLACK GUY at work whos always hitting on her and talking to her ..he told me that he likes her and hes trying to hook up with her.... but i think the brotha is way out of his leauge here.... hes told me not to interfere and that i could get with any ohter girl ,,but i think i really like her ,,,what should i do I dont really want to get on the bad side of this black man cause he looks like hes serious about her.....?

2007-03-07 11:36:00 · 4 answers · asked by company computer guy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 11:35:22 · 5 answers · asked by Shaquanda M 1 in Singles & Dating

im in 10th grade and had one boyfriend when i was in the 7th grade

2007-03-07 11:35:15 · 33 answers · asked by THE MOVIE BOOK 3 in Singles & Dating

We're in a tiny town in upstate New York and will be hanging out later tonight. I wanted to plan something fun and random to surprise him with, but have no ideas. There aren't any good restaurants, or places to sightsee. It's freezing outside. What are creative ways to entertain him?

2007-03-07 11:34:25 · 4 answers · asked by Julie K 3 in Singles & Dating

should i move on.. or wait on my gf to figured out what she really wants.me in her life.after i lied to her about a job.she says that she needs her space to think abut things. her kids miss me alot and so does she.. i guess im waiting for her to tell me to move down there... will my patience wear out before she makes up her mind..???

2007-03-07 11:33:42 · 12 answers · asked by country4skot 1 in Marriage & Divorce

should i write a secret admire note to the guy i like people say he likes girls who do but i dont know if i should and if i should what should i say?

2007-03-07 11:33:32 · 2 answers · asked by jojo 1 in Singles & Dating