My brother was rape when he was 10 after 18 years he tells his secret to us.
2007-03-07 11:37:37 · 4 answers · asked by Unlucky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This is hard because the perpatrator was some one who i trust even love. I feel betrayed. I can't belive he will would do something like this to us.
2007-03-07 11:56:12 · update #1
i agree with the other answers be supportive and get him some counsiling so he can try to work thru this!! god bless
2007-03-07 11:47:30 · answer #1 · answered by Carrie H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!! i wade through an identical issue! each and anytime I placed on some shorts or something, she'll make lil comments like "have not you had sufficient exhilaration?" It truly bothers me cuz it rather a lot means that it became my fault or maybe as it got here about, i became wearing some jeans and a HOODIE. resembling u stated, it didnt take position only walking down the line an someone hopped out the timber or something. No its no longer undesirable in any respect to desire some time remote from them. i understand how that feels to have someone making comments about the position you flow, who you flow with, and what you position on. Im happy youre no longer petrified of each little thing and that ur getting over it. i imagine u could only tell them that theyre no longer helping u and that u dont continually favor to be reminded of what got here about to u because u were there of route. reliable luck 2 u and that i wish I helped.
2016-12-05 09:33:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is not something a family chat can help he needs counseling and he needs support from u guys. its good he felt it was time to tell hes been holding this for 18yrs and im sure it was a burden on him.
2007-03-07 11:43:13 · answer #3 · answered by charli_red1218 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the family should support him in every way. And if he wants to press charges he should, also he should go to counseling.
2007-03-07 11:46:11 · answer #4 · answered by latina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋