Ur mother missed out ur entire life,u find her instead of trying to get to know u as a person she needs your help financially u told her that u r not in the position to do so right now but u will when u r in the position to do so.u asked her some questions like y did she missed out of ur life instead of answering ur questions her other children r telling u that u r causing her to have a high blood pressure.would u insist on having some kind of relationship with her or u would just leave her alone for good.
2007-03-07 11:38:10 · 10 answers · asked by hope 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would definitely try to regain some kind of relationship with her. I mean..its your mother. She already missed out on your childhood so why let her miss out on your adult-life too? On the other hand, if all she wants to be in your life for is MONEY thats a problem. She missed out on you whole life and all she can ask for is money, that does not sound too good. Seems like you guys dont even have a relationship so what right does she have asking for money? Not trying to say she's a bad person.. just analyzing the situation. But other than that, you should try to gain some kind of relationship with her in my opinion. Its your mother.
2007-03-07 11:44:53 · answer #1 · answered by Sexy*Black*Chick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say, but I would just loose connection. If one of the things she wants is financial help after she's never been around - don't help - it's not a good sign. But if you do end up helping, make sure you draw up the papers that say that she WILL pay you back, so if you have to go to court, you won't get jiffed.
2007-03-07 19:42:26 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long has she been missing from your life? When you are in good position to help, you can do so, but not now.
2007-03-07 19:44:05 · answer #3 · answered by Kimora Miranda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 40 and grew up with out my mom and i too have many q's about why my mom did not want me,but she kept the other 5.I might never know the answer to this,but I do treasure the time I have with her now.I am thankful to my (mom)aunt who raised me to be good person I am today,My real mom is not in the best of health either,just be patient,your answers will come in time,treasure what you have with her NOW!!!
Don't push her,LOVE HER!!!
2007-03-07 19:53:35 · answer #4 · answered by BaDonkaDonk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say leave her alone, she sounds like she doesn't want to make up for what she lost and what she stole from you, she just wants you use you for money which i think is adding insult to injury it will hurt you more if you give her the money because in a way it's like your trying to buy her love.
2007-03-07 19:49:56 · answer #5 · answered by You Lames! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a great thing that you want to know these things... and your mother should understand that... it looks as though she is a desperate woman. if you feel you want a relationship with her... leave money out of it... and also look back on your life... did you have people there to take care of you? some people were just not meant to be parents.
2007-03-07 19:42:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's what I'll tell her since you wanna know
Ayo you my moms yo! Na yo get the *** bak bytch b4 i ...
**smak-smak** bytch i told you get bak.. Can you borrow what ?? *** No you dum ugly ducklin I ***** hate you cuz yo you played me and you left me .. memba when i was 2yrs old and i was tryna say ''Gimme Cookie'' and you gave me a nookie >:( I ***** hate you for all eternity and I ain't given you jak shyt hoe
2007-03-07 19:48:33 · answer #7 · answered by youngBERT 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If this is her first contact with you, she's a loser and is only looking for money.
2007-03-07 19:42:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
play fifa
2007-03-07 20:20:23 · answer #9 · answered by MOUSTAFA m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has some nerve...id dissassociate from that woman
2007-03-07 19:41:46 · answer #10 · answered by Jennifer H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋