ok well im in eighth grade and im 14 and my best friend zach ride the bus together every day and two days ago he did something really immature (well i was sorta immature too cuzz i did what he said) well he goes hey samantha look at this cool glowy thing and he has it under his jacket so i went under and he kissed me and now he wont even talk to me! i feel terrible and depressed and i just feel like ive lost my best friend ive tried to talk to him but its just so awkward!! what should i do?
2007-03-07 11:36:15 · 26 answers · asked by Samtata 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Oh good i hate high school drama i am a senior and i am now realizing how annoying it really is.
2007-03-07 11:39:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Samantha, my dear sweet girl, you don't a problem. The awkwardness between you and Zach will soon pass. How about giving him a good smack on the arm the next time you see him and say "Whatzzzzzup, dude?" That should break the ice. The thing is to act normal...as if the kiss didn't happen. Now if you feel that you're both ready to go to the next level, just let nature take its course.......don't fight it but don't hurry it either.
SMILE!
2007-03-07 19:50:34 · answer #2 · answered by Inday 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he tricked you because he didn't have enough confidence to kiss you any other way. Now, he is too embarrassed to talk to you. You should write him a note and tell him how you feel. If you want to be more than friends, you should tell him. If you just want to be friends, you should tell him. He is probably waiting for your reaction, and has low self esteem. The ball is in your court and it is up to you. If you really care about him you will find a way.
2007-03-07 19:57:01 · answer #3 · answered by teacher sub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep trying 2 talk 2 him girl! u never know or u can tell him how u feel and if he does not take it then u just walk away ,and i guess he is not yoUr bf then.just move on with Ur life and if u have feelings 4 him then u should talk 2 ur mom &dad that is if ur dad assep that 2 happen then if not it would be beeter to talk just 2 ur mom and if ur mom is the same talk 2 GOD! and one more thing don't tell any one of ur frinds in school i was in middle school once and it did not work out 4 me when i did that , so don't.
2007-03-07 19:49:40 · answer #4 · answered by pamela t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wants to be more than friends here. If he won't even discuss it with you then I would just let it go and move on. Remember, a 14 year old girl is on the mental level of a 20 year old guy so you're a bit ahead of him. He probably just chose the worst way of expressing his feelings for you and is embarrassed to death right now. I hope this helps you a little.
2007-03-07 19:41:45 · answer #5 · answered by clayp72 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Awww! Maybe you're not losing a friend, but gaining a boyfriend... I think that he's probably just embarrassed. If you liked it, I would assume that you two should go out. If not, you definately have to tell him. Suggestion: Tell him in person. It's rude to do that kind of thing over the phone. If you can't talk to him and tell him, I'd write him a note. Good luck! I hope this helps.
nicole
2007-03-07 19:41:09 · answer #6 · answered by nicole 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay, okay, take a breath. It sounds like this guy likes you a lot, and maybe he feels bad (or embarassed) about what he did to you. Try talking with him about how you're feeling and try and see if you two can get over it. Good luck to ya!
2007-03-07 19:40:33 · answer #7 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok first of all...chill out.
Second of all find a way you can corner him and MAKE him talk to you. If you guys like each other than talk about if you want to date.
If you don't then you need to talk about letting it go because friendship is way more important than to let something like a kiss mess it up.
I hope everything goes ok
2007-03-07 19:40:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
try talking
it may seem awkward but the soonest you talk with him and figure everything out the better
2007-03-07 19:43:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww how cute. well it seem like he wants to be wit u. look try to call him. he is bound to talk to you over the phone. or send him anote. but the key thing is is he cute, or hot.
2007-03-07 19:49:01 · answer #10 · answered by kelly s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋