If you consider sex to be a bad word by writing it as se.x, then you are not ready for it.
2007-03-07 11:45:39
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answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5
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First of all, you can't even spell PREGNANT correctly. So that speaks for itself, which means you ARE NOT READY 4 SEX. you should just wait until you're married or at least have a real real serious relationship. Your aunt shouldn't be telling you that she'll support you regardless you're freaking 13. You should keep your eyes in the books and keep your grades up because dropping out of middle/high school due to being pregnant is not a pretty sight then you'll be terribly embarrassed. Look at all your mother experienced at having you at such a young age, I'm sure she struggled. Don't become a statistic.!!!!
2007-03-07 11:49:54
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answer #2
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answered by diamondz_a_mill 2
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Your grades do not reflect whether you are ready for sex or not. Just because your body may be semi-mature enough for it physically, it does not mean that emotionally and mentally you are prepared for it.
You have the rest of your life to be an adult... why not slow down and enjoy the last bits of your childhood? You need to stop and think how others will judge you for being sexually active at such a young age...also, sex is best with someone that you have a close, loving relationship with... someone that you can communicate with and know that they love you as well and will not blab and brag to his friends and ruin your rep as well.
If you insist on having sex in spite of everyone's advice, here is what you really need to do to protect yourself and any future children that you might want in the future:
Get on birth control pills and only have intercourse with the male wearing a condom with spermicide. Be aware that once your b/f has turned 18, there is a good chance that he could be charged with statutory rape and will go to jail and have to register as a sex offender for the rest of his life.
Please do not use your Aunt's offer of taking care of you if you should get pregnant as a back up plan... you have your whole life ahead of you, slow down, enjoy the journey!
Blessings- dd
2007-03-07 11:58:02
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answer #3
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answered by dedum 6
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I really don't think people your age should. You still have a lot of maturing to do. I'm not saying that you're immature, but you don't want to look back on your first time when you're an adult and regret it.
But, if you do decide to have sex, use a condom! Also birth control pills, if you can. That is so important. Just one time without protection, and you could end up with a baby or AIDS or something.
I almost had sex when I was 13, but I didn't go through with it. That was only 3 years ago, and when I think about it, I'm embarrassed. That little boy was such a moron, I really would have regretted it if I gave it up to him.
2007-03-07 11:48:40
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answer #4
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answered by ....... 4
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It's nice to have such supportive relatives. My niece got pregnant at 15 and decided to keep the baby. Her husband has been a loser the entire time (nearly always out of work), and they are still as poor as church mice.
At 13, use your hand. You lack the emotional maturity to make good judgments about who is a good person to be involved with and who isn't. A relationship is very much like an investment, and one that isn't is only for fun, which is very confusing to a 13 year old and dangerous as well. Be Careful!
2007-03-07 11:49:13
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answered by Anonymous
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The only thing that you are looking at is if you get knocked up your aunt will take care of the kid for you, and your cousin is 14 and she is having sex but you think that because she is having protected sex it is ok, it is not and it is the fact that she is 14, what is wrong with you kids today i wanna know what do you really think you are missing to wanna rush into sex, are you gonna wanna rush into becoming a mom at 13, don't you wanna enjoy being a teenager, hanging out with your friends, you only live once your only young once enjoy being a kid enjoy having no responsibly no other person to worry about but yourself, and your aunt is not helping the decision that you wanna make your aunt should relize that you are not her kid, and it is not her business. Go to school like you are suppose to talk on the phone with your friends and play with your barbie dolls
2007-03-07 12:04:58
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answered by CORONA 3
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Well sweet heart I was young like you when I had sex for the first time. I am 17 year old mom and wife. If you do have sex make sure you use a condom, And you might want to be on birth control too. But allways use a condom unless your married, or engaged. You dont want to throw your teen years away because you have a baby. I mean I love my baby and I woldent trade him for anything, but trust me you will want to go out and have fun. You cant do that all the time when your a mom. I know I dont. My best advice would be too listen to your mom. Because believe it or not she dose know whats best for you. Its gonna be really hard for her to let you grow up and become a woman. Which will happen soon enough. If I were you I would wait another year or until you completely understand the consequinces of sex!!! But like i said if you do BE SAFE!!!!!
I Hope my advice helps!
2007-03-07 11:55:22
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answered by Anonymous
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Look, why can't to wait to have sex? It feels good and everything but you pay a big price if your not carefull. Even if someone is willing to help you raise a baby why would want to have one. Look by reading your ? I can tell you your not ready for this. You have a lot of growing up to do. Without having to worry about getting pregnant or a STD. I hope you listen to your mother and wait a few years. Also when people brag about having sex(cousin) he probably isn't.
2007-03-07 12:19:29
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answered by BABY GIRL 3
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You should never rely on what someone else says to make your decision. Do you think you would be a fit parent if you relied on your aunt. You would be ruining your future at a too early age. Guaranteed you won't be able to keep the father around, boys are more immature than girls and he will be less ready than you are.. This does not make you a bad person and the fact that you need to ask that proves you are too young to raise a baby. Please take this into consideration and stay safe!
2007-03-07 11:48:23
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answer #9
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answered by Jellybean 4
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You really should consider the consequences of sex before you do it at such a young age. Especially because at that time you might not be able to find the guy you want to do it with. you want it to be special, not with some guy you think you love but you're not sure. i'm not saying do it with the guy you're gonna marry or anything, but you wanna make sure he's worthy to get that much of you.
Your mom probably doesn't want you to make the mistake of having a baby early in life, it's really hard to take care of.
I'm 15 and i'm still a virgin, and i'm happy, because i haven't met the guy i wanna give it up to. but that's just me. but you really should consider what could happen, and how it could change you.
2007-03-07 11:51:01
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answered by Anonymous
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S.ex is never a bad thing when it occurs with two people who are sure they really love each other and not two people just looking to have fun. The bible says that it should take place between two married people but sometimes we just can't change our past if its already happened. But you're young so you have time to make a difference. Don't become just another statistic. I myself am trying to wait till im married but we all know that things happen that can change our plans. Do whatever you think is right cuz in the end you're the one who has to live with your decision not me, not your mom, and not your aunt.
2007-03-07 11:52:25
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answer #11
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answered by ♥PiNk RoCkS♥ 3
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