should i move on.. or wait on my gf to figured out what she really wants.me in her life.after i lied to her about a job.she says that she needs her space to think abut things. her kids miss me alot and so does she.. i guess im waiting for her to tell me to move down there... will my patience wear out before she makes up her mind..???
2007-03-07 11:33:42 · 12 answers · asked by country4skot 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i have moved out since saturday.today i thought she was going to ask me to go down there.. but no so now im depress
2007-03-07 11:39:26 · update #1
she doesnt want to feel pressured. she just miss me.. not really miss me .. she wants to find that out.
2007-03-07 11:41:41 · update #2
do u think that she is leading me on? do u think she is just a tease?
2007-03-07 12:10:03 · update #3
do u think that she is leading me on? do u think she is just a tease?
2007-03-07 12:10:21 · update #4
i hate to get a job here and then she will call to tell me to move down there and i have to start another job.....
2007-03-07 12:16:04 · update #5
She is just being honest with you, maybe she really needs time, give it to her because it might wake her up to the fact that you are a great guy and she will miss you so much she'll come running back. if you start throwing ultimadems in her face she will resent you and it could end badly. IF you are invested in the kids it's a good idea to wait. IF you really love her then how can you even consider finding someone else. Is she the one, if she is wait
2007-03-07 19:44:02 · answer #1 · answered by Cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't wait, even if she was worth it. Time is way to short to wait on someone other than yourself. Move on, do what's right by you and if it's going to work out, she'll come around. If she never does, you've wasted no time and bettered yourself.
Thats a win win situation if I've ever seen one.
2007-03-07 19:39:58 · answer #2 · answered by ark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love her, wait for her to make her mind up, especially since you are the one who betrayed her trust, she just needs some time to cool down and realize she wants you back in her life
2007-03-07 19:37:42 · answer #3 · answered by shelly63795 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well tell her all your feeling about whats going on. See what she has to say. Tell her you still have feeling for her and her kids but you cant wait forever and you need to know if you need to move on or not its not only her life she is mess with.
2007-03-07 19:39:36 · answer #4 · answered by C M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know, I would probably move to Alaska and make friends with penguins and Eskimos and stuff. See if you can get some free Klondike bars to.
2007-03-07 19:40:30 · answer #5 · answered by jw1269 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hopefully you are doing more than just waiting on this person to decide your future for you. move on with your life and if she wants you back then you can go from there. best of luck
2007-03-07 19:38:38 · answer #6 · answered by simplyme 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you never said what the time frame has been. but if you lied to her, i'm guessing you did not have a job like you said????you might not want to hold our breath
2007-03-07 19:38:30 · answer #7 · answered by mamma bird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should wait if u truly love her everything will fall in place....
2007-03-07 19:46:32 · answer #8 · answered by moneygreen_07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been waiting? A day, or a week?
2007-03-07 19:37:47 · answer #9 · answered by Kimora Miranda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her some time if it's meant to be then it would happen.
2007-03-07 19:37:12 · answer #10 · answered by Lady Ice 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋