Family & Relationships - 7 March 2007

I think my roommate Jessica may be attracted to me, though I am not sure because I am not a lesbian. Several times when I have gotten home from work she has volunteered to give me a foot massage. I have to dress professionally and am on my feet all day as I work in retail. I know my stocking feet do not smell good, but she does not complain. The whole situation seems awkward. Jessica also does most things around the place. Should I feel guilty about using her this way?

2007-03-07 15:51:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a great job, the fellow I am seeing is rarely employed, I love to study, read, and do numerous activities, yet his favorite past time is watching TV, I have goals and he seems to have few, yet in spite of all this negativeness, I am drawn to him. I am really disgusted with myself. What steps can I take to move on? Thank you for your thoughts. Jen.

2007-03-07 15:51:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 6'4, slim, nice, respectful, German, Irish, Catholic, fun, and I am an artist.

2007-03-07 15:50:58 · 13 answers · asked by TheSilverBeetles 4 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together four almost fou years now and living together for two. Just last week things all went down hill. He said that our relatioship just wasn't the same. He still loves me but he's not happy...he said he needed a break, feels like he needs change....so he's staying at his sisters now....and he;s got 1 week to figure out what he wants....I've been talkign to his sister and she said that he said it's very different living without me, but he feels like it just right for now....apparently he was seriously considering asking me to marry him and I think he might have scared himself...I just can't stop asking if he'll come back to me....what should I do? Do I just give him complete space?

2007-03-07 15:50:48 · 10 answers · asked by wilsonfromthefrew 1 in Singles & Dating

i have asked one girl out and she blew me off and then there was another girl and i heard she liked me and i was going to ask her out and then i got this email the day before i was going to and this is exactly what she said

I've heard that you like me, and your really nice and all but I'm really happy single and everything and I think we're better off just friends. If I've been leading you on I'm really sorry, I don't think about things and when I do I realize how it must seem to other people. I promise it's nothing personal or anything, it's just that I realized that I'm really happy with things right now and I'm just going to take a break from relationships for a while if that makes any sense? I guess I'll see you tomorrow.
taylor

we haven't talked since
so what i am asking is, is there something wrong with me and have you ever been in a situation like this?

2007-03-07 15:49:48 · 7 answers · asked by anonymous 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 15:49:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

one of my best friends "Z" was going out with this guy, she broke up with him (Not cause she wanted to, but for complicated reasons) and he knows she wants him back, and he wants her back. problem is, he got with his exgirlfriend(that dumped him) the day after "Z" broke up with him.

what do you have to say about that?

2007-03-07 15:49:32 · 4 answers · asked by david d 1 in Singles & Dating

I didnt know what title to put for my question, but anyways......

I was wonder is it ok to have sex when only the guy has protection? Or is better for us both or just me?

and the other question is, How do i break the news to my parents (mostly my mother) that i want to go on birth control.... since me and my boyfriend are thinking by this summer to move in together and i think i should protect myself.

2007-03-07 15:48:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

theres a girl i work with that i like alot, we talk, but its mostly about work stuff. sometimes i get the feeling she likes me, but i dont know.
today another guy i work with asked her on a date, but she avoided him.

my question is, did i blow my chance by waiting to long... or should i ask her soon?

or maybe go to one of her friends for help?

2007-03-07 15:48:36 · 13 answers · asked by dudebro07 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 15:48:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Some people have suggested I encourage him because it is healthy and to even help him along so he gets over me and goes to someone else

2007-03-07 15:48:21 · 3 answers · asked by Jen 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay my finace cheated on me.. and i dont know what to do. We have a one month old baby girl.. and he says he doesnt know why he did it and it was just a fantasy. the girl he cheated with is my best friend and she told me everything. She said that it was a two second thing because they stopped once they realized what there doing. Do i leave him or do i try to save our family. im very confused. they said they dont have feelings for each other. we were all very close... because they are the two most important people in my life. Ive known my best friend for 10 years we grow up together and hes the love of my life. do i just get over it?

2007-03-07 15:47:45 · 17 answers · asked by Nas 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well I need a nickname for my future boyfriend and my brother needs a nickname for his current girlfriend. my future bf is Zack and my bro's gf is devon help please!

2007-03-07 15:47:28 · 8 answers · asked by maziejane333 1 in Singles & Dating

there are about umm 3 girls that are my friends.
The first one likes to flirt with me and touch my hair and rub it and she says that im her hug buddy...??
The second laughs at everything i say and she has a bf.
The third is the same as the second.
how do i get at least one of them to like me

2007-03-07 15:47:21 · 13 answers · asked by Jacob J 1 in Singles & Dating

I only dated "J" for a few weeks and it never got sexual. Now "M" has been calling me and wants to go out this weekend!! What do I do I just broke up with "J" last weekend. I have feelings for "M" thats why I called it off with "J" but it just doesn't feel right. They aren't that good of friends but it's the fact that they are friends that is bothering me. HELP

2007-03-07 15:47:08 · 2 answers · asked by doepy_143 2 in Singles & Dating

I know it’s stupid to be asking but I was just curious. We were both each others first loves and we broke up about two months ago. We mainly broke up because he didn’t want to be with me anymore and I was going through a small sort of depression that he didn’t know about. We were together for about four months. He no longer talks or looks at me even though I see him every day. We have the same friends and they said he hasn’t talked about me since we broke up. You can tell me that there is no hope and that I’m a loser for hanging on if that’s what you think. I just wanted some ideas. And maybe some advice on how I should get over him if there is no hope. I know if we do get back together it will be his decision and I can’t do anything to affect it. I know bringing up the past relationship right now would be a bad idea.

2007-03-07 15:46:31 · 4 answers · asked by Simple Love 2 in Singles & Dating

my relationship with my boyfriend is good right now. he is very sweet and considerate now, but back then, he wasn't. we have a long history (1-2 yrs) of being up & down. one day he changed and later wanted to marry me but I dumped him for half a year because I wasn't ready. afterwards, we tried to make it work but he broke it off. he then moved on with another girl but he kept seeing me, and she wouldn't put out so he lied to me by telling me he was going to dump her, to get sex from me. I regret what I did till this day. Anyway he was a jerk to her and she dumped him (after a month). but he still didn't want a relationship with me and started dating someone else. That girl was too aloof though so he later decided that he wanted a relationship with ME. Now he is so sweet and just... perfect. The thing is, our past isn't anywhere NEAR perfect. I enjoy my time with him SO MUCH, but sometimes when I'm alone, the past haunts me so bad that I start crying out of nowhere.
WHAT SHOULD i DO??

2007-03-07 15:46:17 · 7 answers · asked by aMeNa_aCid* 1 in Singles & Dating

What makes a women good in bed?
and
What makes a man good in bed?

2007-03-07 15:45:54 · 9 answers · asked by purple_85 2 in Singles & Dating

i have have conversations with him on a daily basis about his choices he ,akes in school.he is 90% of the time on red the lowest color for talking but latley it has increased to pointing his finger like a gun at students and his teachers in class hes only in kindergarden.ive done the time out the removal of privledges the begging and pleading he does understand right from wrong on his level,however he just says rules are dumb i dont have to listen good bye forever,today he was in iss for punching another student in his class,hes been seeing a bahavior thearipist for a year now but the same type of converstations happen6 out of 7 nughts,im always waiting for school to call to see what he did this time ,he told his teacher id beat the pants off him and i had not laid a finger on him.his thearpist replies that he will no longer talk to me he just says okay to whatever she says in order for an adult to leave him alone. i relize hes spoiiled,but he just refuses to make any changes

2007-03-07 15:45:43 · 6 answers · asked by resigned 5 in Family

What made you decide to divorce? I mean, other than the usual infidelity, abuse, those things that are deal breakers, why did you finally call it quits? And how long had you been married? How old were you when you got married and divorced? Are you happier now that you did, or do you regret it? If you have kids, how old were they when it happened and how did it effect them? Are you an your ex still able to communicate wthout arguing?

2007-03-07 15:45:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She knows who i am, that part im not worried about. But She doesn't know I have these stronger feelings for her and I don't know if she feels the same way about me or not. What should I do?

2007-03-07 15:44:59 · 12 answers · asked by Jimmy Dean 4 in Singles & Dating

I have heard that 80% of the women a guy sees a day they fantasize about sleeping with them?

2007-03-07 15:44:42 · 14 answers · asked by Momof_2 2 in Singles & Dating

i just met a girl 2 weeks ago and she likes to talk about sex alot. it is kind of disturbing. not to metion she has a child and has not had sex in 2 years i can understand the fustration but girl show some desentsy. am i overeacting or is there a red alert i shuold be concern about.

2007-03-07 15:44:31 · 10 answers · asked by Arnold G 1 in Singles & Dating

Ive been m8s with Michael 4 a year now We met thru a store that he now manages & I usually shopped in b4 he took over Overtime we became close,he lended me his CDs one day & then from then on it turned into an on-going thing we now constantly share our things with each other
Hes always happy 2 c me when I go instore its funny when I walk in he could be serving a customer & he'll c me walk in & be like "Hey mate" while sercing a customer lol its so funny & Im just like "Hey Dude watsup" & then away we'd go talking away. Hes very open with me thats something that i did realise. Ive never been able 2 click with someone b4 like so fast yknw.. he always asks for my opinon or advice on something\recommendations Erm.. we do joke arnd with one another & we have gr8 conversations Just yesterday my m8 came in with me & when we left she was like oh yea & I was like what?
She thinks hes interested in me I was like what made you say that? She was like Just btw you 2 were talking.

2007-03-07 15:44:09 · 7 answers · asked by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

im planning on leaving my husband,,hes pissed me off so much over the years.hes a loser...and a cheat and liar..im broke at the moment..but when i got the money together in a couple of months...im off...shall i tell him or leave when hes at work...out of the 50 ways to leave your lover...which one would yuou choose

2007-03-07 15:43:49 · 2 answers · asked by free-spirit 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 15:43:43 · 7 answers · asked by iya gurl* 1 in Singles & Dating

I am very shy. I know I have the potential to be one of the people everybody likes and everything. I just want to be less shy and more outgoing. What are some tips to do this?

2007-03-07 15:43:34 · 11 answers · asked by Harhar2930902 2 in Singles & Dating

Recently I was in a relationship and noticed one of my friends hanging out alot more than normal. I would come home from work and he would be there on my computer!! The jist is i asked what was up and he told me that he had slept with her and he had hit it off with her. I moved out and now i feel like i should have done something. (like blow up his car) any feedback?

2007-03-07 15:42:12 · 13 answers · asked by Brian W 1 in Singles & Dating

We are going out to this casual pizza parlor tomorrow and my girlfriends say I should wear pants or jeans but I think that's too masculine. I feel best in dress's and skirts. I don't even own a pair of jeans.

2007-03-07 15:42:10 · 6 answers · asked by Summer 2 in Friends

2007-03-07 15:41:58 · 1 answers · asked by mickeyshell36dd 1 in Family