Recently I was in a relationship and noticed one of my friends hanging out alot more than normal. I would come home from work and he would be there on my computer!! The jist is i asked what was up and he told me that he had slept with her and he had hit it off with her. I moved out and now i feel like i should have done something. (like blow up his car) any feedback?
2007-03-07 15:42:12 · 13 answers · asked by Brian W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Friend! Friend!! What friend. Friends do not sleep with their friends girl. Period end of the conversation and friendship.
As far as doing something to retaliate. He has done all the damage that needs to be done. He just lost you as a friend.
He will wake up one day and see how he messed that up. You will wake up one day and realize what a big favor he did you!
Just think if she was sleeping with your friend she didn't care too much for you. And if she would do that now she would have done it later. She will regret the mistake, I just hope you realize you can no longer trust her or your ex friend.
Count yourself lucky and move along, there are lots of girls out there that are looking for good, faithful men that care about them.
2007-03-07 15:53:30 · answer #1 · answered by Mee-Maw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually say that it is stupid to blame the guy when a girlfriend cheats. She is the one who has the commitment with you.
But when it is a true friend, that's a whole new ballgame. A knuckle sandwich is in order.
But the bottom line is you are better off without both of them. They are both people not worth friendship or trust.
Move on and remember....Living well is the best revenge.
2007-03-07 15:56:10 · answer #2 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe a punch in the mouth wouldve made you feel better, since he betrayed you...but whats done is done...if he cared for you as a friend, then not having you around should be a nice slap in the face for him....just think about coping with your feelings about all this drama now....go out and party, and socialize with people that are worthy of being your friend..
2007-03-07 15:48:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi Bernard! i understand you're growing to be the solutions affirming that tell her the reality............and that i understand whats the concern in the back of it. the following is one trick in case you are able to do. Get a cellular telephone that could record a lengthy communication or a dictophone (pirce could no longer be a constraint to u right this moment, or u can borrow it of someone) and talk over with ur gf's perfect buddy about it and galvanize her to threaten u obviously....verbally and record each and each of the chat .................. properly mate if u have accomplished that .................u r out of this complicated project............its as a lot as u now how u use it. best of luck. yet otherwise is to make her to ascertain this question on her pc.
2016-12-05 09:44:51 · answer #4 · answered by butlin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that. That's rough to go through. It'd be best to just let the scum reside with scum and move on. You're a better man for being noble and just leaving without stooping down to their level.
2007-03-07 16:02:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They deserve each other, and no doubt will cheat on each other soon enough. You did the mature thing. Blow up his car might have felt good, but only until all those sheriffs deputies showed up at your door.
2007-03-07 15:48:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just move on,put em behind in your life because they dont deserve you.Doing nothing for it shows class and makes em wonder if they were really as important for you as persons as they thought they were.Like that you hit em in their ego. Next step is you get better friends and better girlfriends.
Best of luck mate.
2007-03-07 15:56:35 · answer #7 · answered by lordaccess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally u could of whoop his ***, just one time. That's the biggest disrespectful thing a best friend & girlfriend can do, is run around ur back, man i would of **** them up
2007-03-07 15:47:59 · answer #8 · answered by gr33n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The world is *ucked. Be very happy you got out when you did. Go p/u his mother. just kidding. Don't blow up his car,you'll burn your lips.
You really did miss the boat. When you caught them, in your house, but not in bed, you should'f served drinks. That's right, get em drunk till they confess, then forgive them. Then go p/u a very young woman, and bring her home, and tell her to get him. It'll impress your old lady how loyal he is to her.
2007-03-07 16:02:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
be glad you found out sooner than later , he is not your friend just let it go that way you can move on it happens alot why sink to his level,you are better than that,
2007-03-07 15:49:49 · answer #10 · answered by freeflow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋