Family & Relationships - 7 March 2007

She left for deployment on Jan. 8 and 14 days later she cheated on me and is now pregnant, most likely with the other man's child. I love her with all my heart but i feel like my soul is bleeding. She says she loves me and that she regretted what she did. If this child is not mine how do I raise him/her without seeing the wound she caused me? i dont want to take care of the kid in resentment....

2007-03-07 15:41:52 · 10 answers · asked by pharroahofgreece 2 in Singles & Dating

I was speaking to a group of Armenians/Lebanese girls, and at first sight I thought they were European white. These girls have really white skin and dark hair. Unlike other Middle Easterners, they have small mouths, noses, etc. I was really surprised, especially since all were born there.

2007-03-07 15:40:59 · 4 answers · asked by James W 1 in Singles & Dating

When my friends and my parents and other people think she's just "alright"?

2007-03-07 15:40:49 · 9 answers · asked by Curios 2 in Singles & Dating

Why am i suddenly avoiding men?
i dont know i just dont like the attention , i just dont like men to be so clingy and be so overly desperate about saying that they miss me or they like me, not even in text, in person or chat, i just started feeling that i dont want their attention, im not a lesbian, its just that this crush whom i felt so strongly for, now i dont even feel a thing for him, he is starting to text me and all that last month i sort of even want to be really close to him now i dont want him near, i dont want any man to start confessing anything to me about love,to the point that i sometimes dont talk to men (friends) afraid that they might misinterpret my message of friendship, i only want the friend zone for all, amazingly even for men who i totally adore physically

2007-03-07 15:40:42 · 7 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Singles & Dating

To me that person has to be knowledgeable, sophsicated, great confidence, a sense of humor, trustworthy, and trusting. Having good looks dosen't hurt either. I don't want to date someone who did not complete their college education and bulls&itted their way through high school.

2007-03-07 15:40:06 · 10 answers · asked by 12Grey14 4 in Singles & Dating

just yes or no?

2007-03-07 15:40:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 15:39:59 · 9 answers · asked by And i heard as it were a thunder 6 in Friends

I like this girl in my school that I find pretty hot but i dont know if she likes me back. Last year , I sat next to her in math and she would always poke me with her pencil and try to act funny. At my middle school graduation i was also next to her and 1 min. we were talking and like after 5 min. shes like, " i forgot u were here." wtf? This year we make eye contact in the hallways and sometimes talk but other than that i have no clue how she feels. What do you think??

2007-03-07 15:39:52 · 1 answers · asked by Gagan G 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm getting ready to be married soon and I'm a virgin.I'm kinda scared and wanted to know what to excpect when we make love for the first time.Now please i'm not some creep or purve i'm really needing some help.Thank You All So Much.

2007-03-07 15:39:14 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2 in Weddings

Please help because I cannot keep up with today's slangs.

2007-03-07 15:39:03 · 13 answers · asked by Momma K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been dating for some time (going on 11months here) . He has been thinking about get a place of our own and was planning on this summer... so as soon as i get a job and back on my feet he want us to move in together..... we are not engaged "YET" but we have talked about marrage and stuff like that. All I know is he does have the ring according to his brother who has told me that he is planning on it but does not know when.... (I know i cant belive his brother has told me about him having the ring).... anyways my Question is... do you think it a good idea to move in with your boyfriend/girlfriend be for your married?

2007-03-07 15:38:55 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-07 15:38:55 · 9 answers · asked by candy_bubbles 1 in Family

I am an 11th grader, and a couple of days ago in my second period class we went to the school library to work on a project. So there are like 2 computers on each table and my buddy and i each take one. So this girl in my class who is really beautiful comes up to me and asks if we can share a computer( i guess there are not enough computers.). I say sure, and let her use it first and when a look around i see that one of her class friends has a computer of her own. The thing is that before that day i had never talked to her before, because we sit at opposite ends of the room. Although i had looked in he direction before in class and saw her looking in my direction(at me?).
That whole week we worked on the project in the library and every time she sat at my table even when other spots were open. And when we had to take the projects to other classes she always had me go with her. Now every day at lunch time she and her friends walk by where i hang out and she starts talking to me.

2007-03-07 15:38:35 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How to remember family relationship chart ? i confuse it .

2007-03-07 15:38:20 · 1 answers · asked by sanko 1 in Family

then they cannot communicate when thet talk in person

2007-03-07 15:37:43 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Every little thing I do for him seems to delight him.
He bounces over and gives me a giant hug! I spent a whopping 14 cents at a discount bin store and got him fingernail clippers with a knife and a bottle opener. He said he was tickled I had thought about him while I was out shopping. So I guess, here comes the question...
He's the guy I got it bad for.
Do you think he's "catching on" considering all the hugging and sweet talk?
Would most guys know by now? Especially considering he knows how stingy I am with a dime.


Oh, I picked nail clippers because he mentioned last week he needed a pair.
When I gave them to him, he said "Oh, good. I need to cut my toenails!"
I was like..."Don't let me see your feet!"
He said "You'd like my feet." (Is that flirting???)

I just write kinda flowery so don't hold "delight","bounces", and "giant hug" against him..I write like a girl..damn..I am a girl..Well that explains that! And he's not gay.

2007-03-07 15:37:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 15:37:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 37 year old man, 12 years of married life with 2 loving kids.

My wife is a house wife and always says that I have never understood her. Altough, I have always loved her and always honest to our relationship. Please help me in getting that what she really wanted to say.

2007-03-07 15:37:31 · 26 answers · asked by sourabh_gupta2000 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Have you ever felt like you always think you say something wrong when you talk to your significant other?

I feel like everytime I talk to my boyfriend and end the conversation, I can't help but always think I said something wrong or I did something that he didn't like... like I hurt his feelings or frustrated him with something.

We've been together for over a year. He's a great guy and he doesn't abuse me at all (if that's what you think). I noticed I've been feeling this way a lot recently. I have no idea why. It's like I always obsess about the things I may or may not have said.... I always obsess about the negative things I may have done. Like I always think I did something to the extreme that he may want to end it with me. I know that's not it because we plan on getting married after college. I shouldn't be feeling this way!!

Why do I act so scared that I have done something wrong... like I hurt his feelings or something? Anyone feel this way before? Any advice?

2007-03-07 15:35:11 · 13 answers · asked by Rita 3 in Singles & Dating

I was told that beause I'm younger than 16 my boyfriend can get into a lot of trouble. That's one of the reasons to why he broke up with me. I'm also turning 15 next month too so will the situation change after I'm 15? He's also a mormon and that's another reason to the 16-year-old thing that is happening. I was told by his friend that he could get into a lot of trouble and that he has to break up with me. I don't know what to do now. I don't know who to believe any more. Please help if you can. I really don't want to lose him because of something that was just said. I want to know the truth.

2007-03-07 15:35:06 · 19 answers · asked by blue_14wolf 1 in Friends

I have an ex-boyfriend that bothers me. We broke up 8 months ago. For one BIG reason. He was so immature, he started smokin and drinkin all the time with his so called friends who just wanted to get him to do something stupid to get himself in trouble. We had nothing in common, and I thought I was in love with him but I was his babysitter. He would make it so hard for me to break up with him, if I wasnt with someone else I would believe his lies and go back to him. He would talk to girls on myspace all the time!!! So I found a MAN with potential to be perfect for me, (8 months March 22 and loved everyday of it). Well back to the problem. He has called me EVERYDAY for 8 months. I now hate him with a passion and I am sorry but I hate him so much that if he died tomorrow, I would laugh. He does immature things to try and make my life miserable. I have a really bad temper, and I go off on him all the time! I dont have 36 dollas to change my #. I need help dealing with this ASAP.

2007-03-07 15:34:16 · 12 answers · asked by BigAndBeautiful 2 in Singles & Dating

i dont know i just dont like the attention , i just dont like men to be so clingy and be so overly desperate about saying that they miss me or they like me, not even in text, in person or chat, i just started feeling that i dont want their attention, im not a lesbian, its just that this crush whom i felt so strongly for, now i dont even feel a thing for him, he is starting to text me and all that last month i sort of even want to be really close to him now i dont want him near, i dont want any man to start confessing anything to me about love,to the point that i sometimes dont talk to men (friends) afraid that they might misinterpret my message of friendship, i only want the friend zone for all, amazingly even for men who i totally adore physically

2007-03-07 15:33:48 · 3 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

if i was 18 and the guy i was going out with was 28 who is a teacher at my school and my former teacher but he doesnt teach me anymore but i'm still at the school

2007-03-07 15:33:42 · 17 answers · asked by Ophelia 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so I'm a really nice guy with some very good qualities, and i like this girl alot, as usual. But i'm just friends with her and for some reason I believe she only wants to be my friend and nothing more. Now I really like her but I want to be more than friends with her. So besides just asking her out, how can I get the girl i like to notice me as a potential boyfriend who is really kind, generous, and respectful and instead as her good friend. I like her as a friend and I wouldn't mind just being a friend, but it's just that i want her to notice me as a great candidate for an excellent boyfriend. Can anyone help me? (serious answers please) Much help is appreciated.

2007-03-07 15:32:44 · 7 answers · asked by xcommander2189 2 in Singles & Dating

Im 19 5'4'' christian woman. Born in FL moved to Ky now live in VA. I work at a dialysis center and love my patients. I love books and i love people. Use to be a vegan. I love meat now. I have brown long hair. 132lbs and want to lose wieght. Sometimes i get really depressed and need a picker upper. Can you help me? I love animals and I love all types of music. I love to listen to the ocean and watch the stars at night. I love to watch people walk by in the park and make up stories about their lives. I love movies that make me cry and I love you!

2007-03-07 15:32:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay my ex boyfriend told me that I was wrong for telling my sister that I saw her boyfriend with another girl. He said that I should've told my sister's boyfriend about the time that my sister was talking to this other guy, but I don't love my sister's boyfriend like I love and care for my sister. So was I wrong for telling my sister about her boyfriend?

2007-03-07 15:32:20 · 3 answers · asked by tcgagirl18 2 in Singles & Dating

Now honestly he can't really be trying to pick you up at 40 mph or so. So what is the deal, do women find it a compliment or annoying?

2007-03-07 15:31:31 · 17 answers · asked by Barbo 2 in Singles & Dating

i want to meet a female and in the age betwwen 20-24 and here is my email fitsumwork@yahoo.com.

2007-03-07 15:30:37 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Should i go up and talk to him??
I like this guy and i am really shy. He waves and smiles at me but he usually only does this when his with a friend. Although today he wasnt really with a friend. I really want to talk to him, should I?? what should i say? He has only been waving at me for 3 days.

2007-03-07 15:30:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was wonderin' how it feels to lose the virginity. I mean i am 19 yrs old and I am just curious to maybe know how it feels. can anyone try to describe it?

2007-03-07 15:30:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating