Then ask her why the hell she married you in the first place?!Really though ask her what she expects from you,and what you can do to reconnect w/ her!!
2007-03-07 15:41:19
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answered by molliehollie 7
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Sourabh,
Will you follow some instructions of mine from today only:-
1. When u will go home today take a bouquet of flowers and wish her a HAPPY WOMEN'S DAY.
2. When ever she cooks something good for you or the family don't criticize her.
3.Perhaps in a month take her outside home with kids for dinner
4. Try to call ones a day, she will like the change.
5. Try to find happiness in small, small things.
6. Keep your office bag, socks, shoes etc.. at the right place.
It is not difficult to imperss a lady as she has the quality to understand, love and above all patience. She sit's all day home and nurishes you kids and family. so try to bring colours to her life and don't !!!!!!!!1shout at her at all.
2007-03-07 18:17:26
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answered by Anonymous
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She might be feeling lonely. It doesn't matter how many times someone "says" they love you, it's better to show it. Think about what it was like before you got married. Think about things that you did for each other then. Bring up those sweet times to her. Sometimes just listening to her about her day helps. Maybe she needs to get out for a little while and do some new things on her own. Good luck.
2007-03-07 17:40:58
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answered by Cheree S 1
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Is a common situation u r into at a certain stage after yr marriage. Hear of a saying, A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but a man marries a woman hoping she will not change, yet both r wrong!
See the point? U can nvr understand a woman not matter how long u r with her. Sometimes the problems may not lies in u! I'm married for 14yrs and w/ 2 child!
Just play yr part right and nvr force yrself into doing anything extreme just to please her, u may not get appreciated! Cheers. ;-)
2007-03-07 15:50:52
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answered by Anonymous
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Ask her to spell out exactly what she means. She can give you a "laundry list" of things that you could do to show her you appreciate and understand her. If all she can tell you is that you have "never understood her", she needs to figure out out for herself what this means exactly. It might also help asking her why exactly does she feel she married you - what qualities in you made her fall in love enough to desire a family with you? Perhaps both of you need to get off the negative and build on the positive. There had to have been something in you that caught her eye - what can you do to strengthen this positive aspects of your relationship?
2007-03-07 15:47:23
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answered by Anonymous
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Tell her to open up, communicate if you have "never understood her". Talk and listen to what she goes on babbling about. Something repeated in the conversation might be a start. If she goes on in gereralities, you will never win. Pin her down as to what "you" might not understand. The devil is in the details and you may have to put up with countless hours of her just yacking her head off but you might get a crumb of insight. Good luck, women are generally nuts.
2007-03-07 16:01:57
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answered by Anonymous
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Go off together at a bueautiful romantic place for sight seeing like Gangtok(Skkim), Gulmarg, Aparwat, Pahalgam, Kokernag, Sonamarg (all In Kashmir) and talk beautiful things softly. Listen to her carefully. Do not try to dominate . Soon things will be perfectly okay.
2007-03-07 15:57:47
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answered by Anonymous
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Tell her to read Dr. Laura's The Proper Care and Feeding of a Husband. Best explanation of what a REAL MAN is all about I ever seen.
It will also cover this I don't understand you crap. She just be watching too much TV.
2007-03-07 16:04:57
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answered by Anonymous
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search for the book "love languages." Sounds like the two of you are speaking different languages. Just skim the book (check it out from the library) - really, not advising you to read it.
But, in it, will be insight on how we think differently - you'll probably be able to diagnose her "language" and your language. By knowing what actions or words she says "I love you" and more importantly knowing what actions or words she expects back....
You'll never understand her (and if you ever THINK you understand the opposite sex - go straight to the local mental hospital), but you'll at least understand more about her language and how to speak it.
2007-03-07 15:51:42
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answered by going_crazy_30m 2
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Bring her home some flowers and tell her to dress up. Don't let her know where she's going. Take her to a nice dinner and simply let her know that you'd like to sit down with her and listen. You want to reconnect with her and know, really know what she's feeling and what's going on in her life. It's important to really remind your wife that you love her whole heartedly. And hey, you show potential seeing as how you're on this site. That's good for starters. :)
2007-03-07 15:48:24
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answered by Anonymous
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I figured out the answers to women a long time ago....then they went and chaged the answers. Just tell her that you don't understand what she means by don't understand. Maybe she'll give you the current cheat sheet. By the way, I've been married for 26 years.
2007-03-07 15:49:08
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answered by docelec2000 2
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