I'm getting ready to be married soon and I'm a virgin.I'm kinda scared and wanted to know what to excpect when we make love for the first time.Now please i'm not some creep or purve i'm really needing some help.Thank You All So Much.
2007-03-07 15:39:14 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Please do yourself a favor, and relax. It will be a time for you and your husband for the first time, to actually be alone together, uninterrupted. (Oh yeah, as the bride, you need to call home to your folks to let them know you got there ok)-then you will get to physically explore each others bodies for the first time. Making love is the ultimate physical expression of your love for your spouse. By the way, if the two of you are really tired from the busy day, don't feel like you HAVE TO make love. You can wait until the next morning, or whenever. As a bride, the first time your husband is in you it will hurt some, and there might or might not be a spot of blood. Don't worry about that. It's normal. For the man, it's possibly a nerve racking time, at least, in his mind. Just, please, for the benefit of both of you, relax, and enjoy each other. Take care.
2007-03-07 15:48:57 · answer #1 · answered by SAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number one, just relax. It might hurt (it did for me), but it might not. Everyone is different. Also, I only bled a tiny bit so you may or may not bleed since your hymen could break from other things, not just sex, i.e., tampons or just playing sports. Just take things slow and you'll know when you feel it's right to have him go inside. It's completely up to you. Don't worry if you don't enjoy it the first time. TV and movies make you feel like the first time is this great thing but the truth is it's really not because of being scared and nervous, etc. So just go with the flow. Hope this helped. Congrats on the marriage, btw:)
2007-03-07 20:12:06 · answer #2 · answered by Wishing on a Dream 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you have probably been told it may hurt a bit at first let your hubby know that you are a virgin if he doesn't know already and tell him to take it slow and easy. Once you get past the breaking of the hymen it becomes pleasurable
just be prepared for a bit of discomfort and abit of bleeding is normal so maybe have a towel under you. Congrats and just relax the more tensed up you are the harder it is going to be for you and him to enjoy act of lovemaking. P.S. use lots of lube it may help with the initial push.
2007-03-07 17:18:25 · answer #3 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly if it's your first time you should probably have a drink before hand and some lubrication at hand. It might hurt or it might not. I think you'll be able to figure out the rest once you get to that point b/c you are in love with each other and have been waiting for this your entire life.
Good luck and congrats!
2007-03-07 16:08:57 · answer #4 · answered by pixiebdg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure he knows you are still a virgin so he knows to be tender with you. The first time will be uncomfortable for you and may even hurt a little but the pain normally will not last. You probably will bleed some but that is normal.
2007-03-07 15:42:30 · answer #5 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your engaged... and coming here to ask us about your wedding night?
Seriously, you have to have a relative or friend that would be able to give you the proper guidance you need for this amazing journey in your life... right?
2007-03-07 15:43:21 · answer #6 · answered by Mommyk232 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well everyone already gave you the best advice but I want to say Congrats and I think it is really awesome you saved your self for your wedding night. Just awesome!!!!
2007-03-07 23:23:44 · answer #7 · answered by Ladybugs77 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my wife was a virgin and we took a long time we talk kiss ad lot 4 play intell she was ready and i went real slow then i let it stay a little bit before i move but its was great and i thank her for gift i know your husband will be happy as was good luck
2007-03-07 15:53:38 · answer #8 · answered by nightman122554 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might hurt a bit the first time, but it is ordinarily not a big deal. Don't worry about it; you'll be fine.
2007-03-07 15:46:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a test drive before the wedding - you might not want to marry him at all after that.
2007-03-07 18:36:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋