Should i go up and talk to him??
I like this guy and i am really shy. He waves and smiles at me but he usually only does this when his with a friend. Although today he wasnt really with a friend. I really want to talk to him, should I?? what should i say? He has only been waving at me for 3 days.
2007-03-07 15:30:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"He has only been waving at me for 3 days." Well, sweetie, that says something right there. Have you waved back? Smiled? Given any indication you're a friendly person so he, (who may also be a bit shy), knows what to do next? If there's some way you can have "verbal" communications, I'd say--do it. Don't ask him for coffee or anything, let him lead the way. I mean, take little baby steps & watch where it goes. Do you ever pass in going to class/s? Wouldn't hurt to drop your books or something--great opening for the first step! It will also indicate if he's really a "nice" person. Just an idea! Hard for me to believe, but I was once shy, too. As for what to say, I'd say something very simple at the start & see how he carries the ball. I think he's given you enough signals that he likes you, too, or he wouldn't have bothered to wave. Just take it slow & easy, okay? & good luck!
2007-03-07 16:09:15 · answer #1 · answered by Valac Gypsy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd go up and say hello...if you don't you'll never know and then you'll always be wondering. If it doesn't go anywhere at least you tried and someone else will come along. Maybe he's taking some of the same classes or something and you could ask him for some help with something. Use your imagination.
2007-03-07 23:35:29 · answer #2 · answered by Tina D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Right now you have nothing.
If you talk to him and everything goes wrong, you'll still have nothing. So you haven't lost anything.
If you talk to him and things go well you'll have something! That would be something from nothing. There you have the logic you need based on the Billy Preston hit "Nothing From Nothing Leaves Nothing." Pretty good logic, eh?
Good luck!
2007-03-07 23:39:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So borrow some guts and a backbone and go talk to him before he stops waving.
2007-03-07 23:33:30 · answer #4 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear,
Since, waving and smiling one of sign of...
Having feeling for someone you Like or LOVE...
First make sure that you also have some feelings for Him...
Just b'coz of his behavior you are eager to speak to him...
Relax, think and give you best SHOT....
Good Luck !!
2007-03-07 23:43:14 · answer #5 · answered by hitz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he waves and smiles wave and smile back, start there and see how it goes.
2007-03-07 23:34:27 · answer #6 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When he waves, wave him over, if he comes to you your in.
2007-03-07 23:35:33 · answer #7 · answered by canadaguy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
too soon to jump in and start, keep waving for a week or so, take your time, he is a stranger!
2007-03-07 23:35:39 · answer #8 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl let me tell you something, you need to make the first move and go talk to him. I would!!! Tell me how it goes.
2007-03-07 23:34:29 · answer #9 · answered by gr33n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do it.
walk up to him and frankly invite him for a cup of coffee.
if he agrees good,
if not do not feel sad.
watch your steps and be careful of what you are doing.
2007-03-07 23:38:03 · answer #10 · answered by rajan t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋