Family & Relationships - 7 March 2007

my relationship with my boyfriend is good right now. he is very sweet and considerate now, but back then, he wasn't. we have a long history (1-2 yrs) of being up & down. one day he changed and later wanted to marry me but I dumped him for half a year because I wasn't ready. afterwards, we tried to make it work but he broke it off. he then moved on with another girl but he kept seeing me, and she wouldn't put out so he lied to me by telling me he was going to dump her, to get sex from me. I regret what I did till this day. Anyway he was a jerk to her and she dumped him (after a month). but he still didn't want a relationship with me and started dating someone else. That girl was too aloof though so he later decided that he wanted a relationship with ME. Now he is so sweet and just... perfect. The thing is, our past isn't anywhere NEAR perfect. I enjoy my time with him SO MUCH, but sometimes when I'm alone, the past haunts me so bad that I start crying out of nowhere.
WHAT SHOULD i DO??

2007-03-07 16:08:18 · 8 answers · asked by aMeNa_aCid* 1 in Singles & Dating

I have 2 months of charges from ifriends. Once, about a year ago and last month. I've asked my husband and he is claiming ignorance. Do you know anything about ifriends? Should I be concerned? Can I use this to my advantage in a divorce? (been wanting one, just need a good reason). Thanks!

2007-03-07 16:07:18 · 4 answers · asked by allisoneast 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is a great person, but when it comes to doing the dishes, laundry, or helping me to pick up the house he hardly does it-- I blame all of this on his mother, because she has never taught him what it means to be a responsible adult-- he's 24 and never filed his taxes before he met me-or has never made mashed potatoes-- I say its his mother's fault because she might as well a 13-year-old trapped in a 48 year- olds body-- The thing is that we live at her house, till we can save enough money to move out,...my son is still an infant but I'm afraid he's going to pick up the irresponsibility of his father and grandmother one day and drive his future wife crazy... any advise on how I can prevent that from happening?

2007-03-07 16:07:07 · 25 answers · asked by Angela98 1 in Family

I'm in a relationship but at times I've found myself lusting for someone else. Is this normal or is it wrong. Sometimes it feels wrong so I try not thinking about the other person. I love who I'm with but the "WHAT IF" is there? Is it wrong for me to think of someone else I may have wanted to be with?

2007-03-07 16:06:41 · 6 answers · asked by ~* Garden Empress*~ 5 in Singles & Dating

i need it becauuse i am always bored

2007-03-07 16:06:29 · 11 answers · asked by sonia_batra 1 in Family

2007-03-07 16:04:50 · 4 answers · asked by unimnd 1 in Marriage & Divorce

PLEASE HELP! IT'S KILLING ME WITH GUILT, GUYS!

2007-03-07 16:03:46 · 16 answers · asked by kenzie f 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My girlfriend is jealous over her ex's new girlfriend because she feels that his new girlfriend is prettier than her. Does this mean she still has feeling for him or is it just a woman thing.

2007-03-07 16:02:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anthony T 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in love with my clone, and I want to marry him, but gay marriage isn't allowed. Should I break up with him?

2007-03-07 16:02:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Where,Dress,decoration..ect

2007-03-07 16:01:56 · 6 answers · asked by Dan Z 1 in Weddings

Ok, so when do you call someone you Girlfriend/Boyfriend?

2007-03-07 16:01:51 · 7 answers · asked by davidvbinder 2 in Singles & Dating

She locked me out of the bedroom cuz I'm on the computer too much lately, and didn't say one kind word to her all night and ignored her......I hate the couch and don't have access to the alarm clock. Hmmmmm what to do....any ideas? She's asleep in there and so is the baby....

2007-03-07 16:01:21 · 22 answers · asked by duluthguy427 1 in Family

hey i'm a junior in high school and I'm usually very quiet and shy. Do you have any suggestions as to how I can be more outgoing and not afraid of what others think of me? thanks: ) serious answers plz

2007-03-07 16:00:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm great when it comes to talking with other guys; they all love me, but around girls all of a sudden i have nothing to say. i'm like the comedian of our grade and talk all the time.i can think of funny things to say just like that but not around girls.not even girls that are my friends and i've known forever i don't know what to talk about with. i can't think of anything to say so i put on the "business attitude" but when one of my buds comes along i get a bit warmed up. what's the matter with me, and what do i do to fix this? especcially with the girl i like? i think she believes me to be boring now, because i can't think of anything to say. also the same with other girls who are my friends. what can i do?

2007-03-07 15:59:43 · 8 answers · asked by some random kid 1 in Friends

what did you do ? How did you fix it ? Were you foolish to believe the truth would not be found?

2007-03-07 15:59:26 · 9 answers · asked by lilly l 6 in Marriage & Divorce

MY boo and i really love each other with a passion. hes my bestfriend, my partner, my lover.

2007-03-07 15:59:11 · 17 answers · asked by gr33n 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-07 15:59:01 · 6 answers · asked by denisa k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I think that having sex leads to a good night sleep.


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2007-03-07 15:58:54 · 19 answers · asked by James W 1 in Singles & Dating

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2007-03-07 15:58:53 · 5 answers · asked by Dont get Infected 7 in Family

ok it is like this i haven't seen him in 12 or 13 years and i always wondered about him. how is life was if he had kids and so on well i found him on my space and i sent him a message to my surprise he sent me one back and even apologize for they way things ended thought that was nice and i thought it would give me closure i needed on that. but now i just want to talk to him more i mean i haven't got to talk to much i just want to know it all about him and the last 12 years is that 2 much.. and my hubby does know and i have not step over any boundries. and neither has he and he is married to . is it ok or wrong. want your advice but who knows it i will listen. and is i am staying up all hours that should be the sign to stop going to work on a few hours.

2007-03-07 15:58:01 · 28 answers · asked by LOLO 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay so i have been going out with this girl for about three months. Before we went out she broke up wit htis one idiot. He went syco and tryied suicide. Anyway one day she came to me and said. " i dont think this is going to work out. I still like that (crazy) guy." i am cool with that just one girl then she starts to be a total jerk like its my fault she dumped me. Then today she wrote me a note saying."My heart lyes with this guy and i have decided to go for it. I still have feelings foryou and they are as strong as ever." then she ends the note with "please love me back LOVE in huge print (her name.). Im a guy and guys are known to be pimps and players but at least if we do it its behind her back come on how stupid is that. So what do i tell jher to get her off me. Please help. Guys or girls please help.

2007-03-07 15:56:44 · 35 answers · asked by LJD4 2 in Singles & Dating

we have alot of ppl in our group and after jr prom we dont really know wat to do, alot of ppl are goin bowling or lazer tag, but we dont wanna do that...so do you ppl have any ideas???

and i think this is goin to be the night i ask my date to be my gf!!

2007-03-07 15:55:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i need to anwser because my son is two weak

2007-03-07 15:55:28 · 8 answers · asked by sonia_batra 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I lived w/muslim guy for 3 yrs-he went to his country to visit-came back & told her my wife is on her way so we need to break up why? alot ao muslims do this to american women alot! They make promises- say they can marry a christian want life w/u & then leave...they force u to say i luv u & dont know ur inner heart at beginning-waste ur time when all along they know they will not marry u because they have to go back & marry a chosen wife w/their eyes closed...why these games...how do u know when middle east men want something serious w/u I am now seeing another one & feels like the same issue

2007-03-07 15:55:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

somebody said that no matter what if one of the bridesmaids or groomsmen are married to somebody, that somebody must be their partner. Is this true?

2007-03-07 15:55:06 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-03-07 15:54:45 · 10 answers · asked by lalabscoh08 1 in Singles & Dating

...do you think I can have unprotected sex with my girlfriend, who is on birthcontrol and religiously takes it at the exact same time everyday, before she ends up getting preggo? And for those concerned, we are a pro-choice couple.

2007-03-07 15:53:46 · 12 answers · asked by Justin G 4 in Singles & Dating

She has not been keen in the past when I brought it up and was wondering what I could say to her that would convince her it would be nice to have them done?

2007-03-07 15:53:42 · 23 answers · asked by antoniovivaldi 3 in Marriage & Divorce

haha, my bf asked me to ask this one... He's thinking about it and really nervous, but is curious what other people think since he's not sure its going to happen...

2007-03-07 15:52:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 15:52:05 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce