I lived w/muslim guy for 3 yrs-he went to his country to visit-came back & told her my wife is on her way so we need to break up why? alot ao muslims do this to american women alot! They make promises- say they can marry a christian want life w/u & then leave...they force u to say i luv u & dont know ur inner heart at beginning-waste ur time when all along they know they will not marry u because they have to go back & marry a chosen wife w/their eyes closed...why these games...how do u know when middle east men want something serious w/u I am now seeing another one & feels like the same issue
2007-03-07 15:55:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not all arabs are like this, I have friends who went through the same thing, but that is not because he is arab, it's because he is not a man and too weak to tell his family he is in love, or he just used his family as an excuse not to marry someone he didn't want to in the first place. I met my husband in the states, he is from the middle east, we dated for 3 years before we got married, he never lied to me, we've been together 12 years and have 4 kids. My sister also married a Kuwaiti, 11 years, 5 kids, now we are both living in Kuwait with our families, happily. There are many americans here married to kuwaitis, so you should not blame it on all arabs, blame it on your jerk x-boyfriend. Who told you that all men behave like real men, some of them are afraid to marry americans, or they just want to mess around, it is a risk dating anyone, regardless where they are from, they don't have to marry a chosen one, unless they are too weak to tell their families that they want to marry someone else. it seems to me that you are dating immature boys who want to mess around. Would you start a relationship with an american with the thought in your mind about marriage? no, and you shouldn't do that with arabs either. What happens, happens. You will marry who you are meant to marry, no matter what. How is what they do different that dating an american for 3 years and breaking up? Just because they are from another country? Don't try to force marriage, just go with the flow.
2007-03-11 00:46:57 · answer #1 · answered by ummaseela 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just does not like to stay in America, you know what happens to the Arabs in the US,
If one Arab do something bad, the media and people in the US Will not say One man did something bad,
they will say ((all Arabs and muslims are bad and evil)) As what you are doing now.
Look at yourself, you are not only generalize on the Arabs, you generalize to all Muslims, who represent a quarter of the world's population, And you are saying ((why is muslim man jerks with american women? ))
you talking as if all Arabs and Muslims did this.
2017-01-30 16:03:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you got wrong man. All muslim man are not same like this . I think you must check your feeling and to find a solution in your hearth and brain.
2007-03-09 17:32:55 · answer #3 · answered by ovelik 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
dear mame not all pepole is the sam you fall in love with a rong man how was using you for his need im arabian man im telling you that you life is more betar withawt him
2007-03-15 16:47:24 · answer #4 · answered by tawfeeq a 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
fool so u keep on repeating ur mistakes
i guess the only thing to say to u is
do whatever you want to do.... (basically means i dont care about u)
2014-09-28 00:02:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dad's arab and he's very stuck up w/ ppl in general, but I don't know why. He's had about 3 wives and he didn't tell me I found out.... :'( Arab men or MEN in particular are stupid and mean AND perverts to me. (most of them not ALL)
2007-03-07 16:00:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
learn from your mistakes, stop dating arabs.
2007-03-07 16:00:30 · answer #7 · answered by Rob C. 2 · 4⤊ 3⤋