Okay so i have been going out with this girl for about three months. Before we went out she broke up wit htis one idiot. He went syco and tryied suicide. Anyway one day she came to me and said. " i dont think this is going to work out. I still like that (crazy) guy." i am cool with that just one girl then she starts to be a total jerk like its my fault she dumped me. Then today she wrote me a note saying."My heart lyes with this guy and i have decided to go for it. I still have feelings foryou and they are as strong as ever." then she ends the note with "please love me back LOVE in huge print (her name.). Im a guy and guys are known to be pimps and players but at least if we do it its behind her back come on how stupid is that. So what do i tell jher to get her off me. Please help. Guys or girls please help.
2007-03-07 15:56:44 · 35 answers · asked by LJD4 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay bro im gonna help u with these one becuase i been trough alot lately girsl r not dumb they gust dont think right ...your x is retatred alright bro she cant pick a guy and once she cant then she gets all confused look i dont know if these is gonna help u but gust find someone else if u can and if she comes running after u dont go with her becuase i know its gonna be even more presuer on u trust me if u dont get wat im saying then email me at yakle.2055@yahoo.com becuase im in a hurry right now so bye
p.s dont lisitn to her shes gonna say alot of bullshit that might seem true but its not she gust despret
2007-03-07 16:12:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"RUN FORREST, RUN"....Save yourself the trouble. You are dealing with a young lady who is soaked and cloaked in confusion. She does not know what she wants and until this emotional roller coaster she is on comes to a complete halt and she gets off the ride and tears up the ticket, you'll be in for more heartache than you can imagine. She will be playing you like a puppet on a string. This other guy has problems that he has already pulled her into. Suicide is a very disturbing issue and he has pulled her into the hoola hoop on this, and she is feeling guilty. It's a very, very difficult issue that you should probably stay away from. Write her a letter back and just tell her that while you care for her, you believe that her issues and drama are a bit too much for you to get involved in at this time. She needs some fresh air and sunshine and a new beginning. And so do you. Get yourself someone who is healthy and a little less dramatic.
2007-03-07 16:05:10 · answer #2 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, drop this chick and find somone that only wants to be with you and not some crazy guy. It sounds like the only reason why she wrote you that note is because she's trying to give you false hope and try to have you wait around for her in case it doesn't work out with the other guy. Tell her that since she broke up with you then she needs to move on with the nutcase and leave you alone. Hope it helps, Good luck. Oh and another thing, NOT all chicks are dumb.
2007-03-07 16:06:50 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. Phyll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds pretty dumb to me in general, first dumping u, going for a suicidal guy next, and later telling u that "its all your fault but I love ya anyway"? Not all girls are like her so u don't have to worry about that. Getting rid of her will be easy, just tell the crazy guy about what's going on. Before u do that though write back to her saying that u do not feel the same way about her, and if she continues to write back to u, tell her that you'll tell her current crazy boyfriend about who she really is obsessing over (that means you).
2007-03-07 16:03:51 · answer #4 · answered by Sazziable 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you already know the answer to that one. You need to sit down and think about it. Could you live with this girl forever or can you barely be in the same room with here. If she acts dumb she is dumb. This girl seems a little in mature. And if she's as dumb as you think she is she'll never go away because she's needy. Our she's smarter than you think and she's playing you for a fool. Use the phrase let's be friend's.
2007-03-07 16:06:44 · answer #5 · answered by friend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl is crazy. I don't understand why she would do this. I hope for both your sakes that you are both really really young and that you will be able to laugh about this in a few years time. IF HOWEVER you are out of school and living life, this is weird and a little bit creepy and I think that this girl needs help and you need to try and distance yourself from her.
2007-03-07 16:06:51 · answer #6 · answered by smile_girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmm...for sure you need to leave that girl alone. She seems to have some issues and 3 months is not long at all, especially not long enough to withstand a break up already. As cliquee as it sounds, there is definitely someone better out there for you. And the best thing is, is that that one perfect person for you will show up when you aren't expecting it at all...
2007-03-07 16:04:05 · answer #7 · answered by taken:* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys amaze me...out of all the nice girls they spend their time and energy with girls that are not emotionally well,have bfs,they are sluts or whatever. Decide what you want in a woman is th first step in finding her.Dont go after all woman that have 2 boobs and fine body.Be picky.
2007-03-07 16:04:41 · answer #8 · answered by lordaccess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way to get rid of a girl like that is to convince her that you dont like her at all, even if u do. every time u are nice to her or help her with anything shes going to take that as you loving her back. every time u hug her or even smile shes telling herself u love her. unfortunately she prolly thinks the same thing about this other guy. id watch out. this sounds like a situation for tough love
2007-03-07 16:09:02 · answer #9 · answered by spazmffn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like fing loonie bin skank.
Could be good in bed, but worthless for everything else.
Well I guess it could be fun to try and mess with her head some since shes a nut case. But if youd rather get out of it safely tell her to go blankity blank herself, in a polite way.
She sounds dangerous, but it could be fun.
Damn decisions, decisions.
2007-03-07 16:03:28 · answer #10 · answered by Thats me...A to the D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋