I'm in a relationship but at times I've found myself lusting for someone else. Is this normal or is it wrong. Sometimes it feels wrong so I try not thinking about the other person. I love who I'm with but the "WHAT IF" is there? Is it wrong for me to think of someone else I may have wanted to be with?
2007-03-07 16:06:41 · 6 answers · asked by ~* Garden Empress*~ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As I have answered in a previous question, humans are always thinking of someone else. No matter how happy you are with someone the deep desire for something new or better is still there. Nobody will ever be truly happy with one person forever, only content. So no it is not wrong, it is part of who you are as a human being. The only difference of it being wrong or right is whether you act on those desires. As long as you keep it to just daydreams and thoughts you will be okay.
2007-03-07 16:36:09 · answer #1 · answered by natasha_randle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
C'mon. Of course it's not wrong. You wanted other guys before you met this one, right? Being in a relationship doesn't turn off all your thoughts and desires, it just means you have vowed not to act on them for now.
Everybody feels this way and if they say they don't they lie. If you can't keep from acting on what you feel then you need to be single but if you are just talking about thoughts and feelings and fantasies then you are quite average and need do no more than enjoy them and know that you're healthy and all your stuff is in good working order.
2007-03-08 00:13:07 · answer #2 · answered by Ande 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha, you are not human if you do not lust. i belive it to be in our nature to love anyone we find attractive. that is why most people who are in a relationship feel confind knowing this is the only person in our intimate life when really we are just animals when it comes to lust. it is perfectly normal to have that what if feeling even when it consistantly pops up. depending on your actions due to lust will be viewed upon as wrong or right.
2007-03-08 00:14:36 · answer #3 · answered by ssalas928 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its perfectly normal. Even though guys are in a relationship they lust for other women. Its perfectly normal to have the lusful desire towards other people even though your in a relationship. As long as you dont go and do anything your fine.
2007-03-08 00:11:57 · answer #4 · answered by caring black guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To lust is not wrong but as long as it is under control! Cos it can get pretty serious if it get out of hand.
2007-03-08 00:20:45 · answer #5 · answered by RenRen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it not,go for it .....ok
2007-03-08 00:18:12 · answer #6 · answered by William E A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋