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2007-03-07 15:58:53 · 5 answers · asked by Dont get Infected 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well at school we did this exorcise where we pretty much say something personal about ourselves that nobody else knows about us and alot of the stuff was about familys and when i really thought about it i realised that i wished i never knew my dad sometimes. he never supported me, he never wants me to be a cop, he always brings me down,. he thinks im gonna get rich working for him and then support him when he's old, in 7th grade he wanted to get ahold of my counceler so he told the school i was suicidal, in 8th grade he he cussed me out because i got a C on my report card when my other grades were B's and A's, he thinks im a drug addict (i never done drugs never even smoked weed) and last year i told him id have to spend anouther year in highschool (i made mistakes i admit it) so he try'd to get me to drop out and work for him. (he was pissed when i made sure i was staying anouther year) anyway when i said it i couldnt stop crying because i started to realise it was true. is it right?
2007-03-07 15:59:08 · update #1
i havent done drugs ive only drank before but i havent even really been totally drunk before and i havent even had a drink of alcohol in like 2 years
2007-03-07 16:13:23 · update #2
Well...Honesty man...I have the SAME issues...only with my mom...The grades, the stupid lies to get THEM where they want...Always putting you down no matter what...Never on your side EVER...I want to be in Law enforcement as well...EVER BADLY...And my family doesn't understand or agree with it...So...I fight with her all the time...It's to the point that I just keep my month shut!!!...I've cried so much because of my moms harsh words before!!!...Your not the only one...nor is it wrong!!!
2007-03-07 18:55:03 · answer #1 · answered by `~Its love~` 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really felt in your heart it was right you would not have to ask the question. He is your dad, love him . Never let anyone talk you out of school. You will make more money because you want to. First you have to have an education. One day you too will have a son, don't let him feel the same about you. I am proud of you for never getting into drugs. Stay clean, keep your chin up and the nose to the books. Show him how very wrong about you he is. You can do anything you set your mind to.
2007-03-08 00:10:13 · answer #2 · answered by surfmom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aside from the terrible things he has said to you, how would you feel if you *didn't* know your dad? How would you feel if the only person you knew was your mom, and what if she never gave you the chance to get to know your dad? Everyone should know who their parents are...you know who he is, you know the type of person he is and you know (hopefully) that you don't want to turn out like him in the future...he's a model for you of everything that you DON'T want to be. I know it's not about me, but I don't know my dad..I wish I knew him so I could know what kind of person he was/is..if he was a decent person or a complete jerk. My boyfriend tells me that not knowing who he is, isn't a complete bad thing (his dad is an alcoholic that beat him and his brother when they were younger). Honestly, it sucks not knowing your dad, not knowing where you come from and all of that other stuff. You know your dad, and now, you know what kind of person to be. Don't let anyone bring you down. Take this to your advantage..you know what he's like, you can use that as some type of motivation to become a cop and prove him wrong...
good luck with becoming a cop!! :)
2007-03-08 00:49:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't blame you for wishing that way. I feel sad that he treats you this way. Have you ever tried to ask yourself why he treats you this way? Have you talked to your mother about the way he treats you? Is your dad always this way ? Or does he treat other people this way as well? Its possible that your father is just giving you a hard time because he wants you to be a decent person.But it would be better for you to talk to your dad about this and don't let hate consume you.
2007-03-08 00:58:21 · answer #4 · answered by bittersweetlove21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because he is your Dad doesn't give him the right to put you down and make you feel bad about yourself. you feel what you feel weather it's right or wrong. i have never had a relationship with my dad so maybe i shouldn't be answering this. but it seems to me that he should respect your feelings and encourage you to attain your goals.
2007-03-08 00:30:51 · answer #5 · answered by heather l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋