She has not been keen in the past when I brought it up and was wondering what I could say to her that would convince her it would be nice to have them done?
2007-03-07 15:53:42 · 23 answers · asked by antoniovivaldi 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it will not be nice to have them done. it is a painful opperation and the results have cause many painful problems for many women foolish enough to do this. If you bring this up after she has already not been keen on it she will just assume that you are not happy with her breasts, and ya might not get near them at all so make your self happy.
How would you feel if she came to you and said "Hon ya know I been thinking that your penis could use some augmenting because it just is not cutting it for me and I want something bigger? Don't like it huh? Well neither will she so for get your pervy dreams, you creep and be happy she will let you touch what she already has.
2007-03-07 15:59:00 · answer #1 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your married and should have better things to do with your women then waste money to cut up her breast and slap in stuffing.
Like save money for a house or your childrens education.
Wow, think of that if you have a daughter she'll probably be sized like your wife so save some money for her self esteem issues since you and mommy obviously don't think the body you were born with is good enough and needs to be augmented with a few good cuts and some stuffing.
Better get a better job, you all soon be getting older and with a few cuts here and there you can keep yourself young for a long time. Skip the family your all too self-centered about your looks for kids, the'll hurt themselves while your all gazing in the mirror looking for the next wrinkle.
Get a clue dude, that crap is silly.
2007-03-08 00:18:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't want it done, quit pushing her to have it done. By doing that, you are basically telling her that you don't like the way she is, and small breasts are the last things about a woman's body that should be disliked. I could probably understand you wanting to help her lose weight if she was obese, but not trying to get your wife to make her breasts bigger. Jeesh, man, you married her knowing she had small breasts, and if that was something you didn't like about her enough to try and make her go through surgery, why did you even marry her? Why are you willing to cause her possible painful side effects just to satisfy your want of large boobs when you just could have let her go before it got serious so y'all could find people that would be willing to accept y'all for who you are, no matter what your bodies looked like?
2007-03-08 00:28:07 · answer #3 · answered by littlevivi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't think its a good idea for your anniversary for you to bring it up. That is suppose to be a celebration of your marriage and a special moment for both of you. By doing that you are making this special moment about you and not her. You need to get her something that would show you appriecate the marriage. If my husband ever suggested that, especially on our anniversary, it would be the worst day of his life. If you feel that strongly about it wait until a week or so after the anniversary, so whatever you do for her, won't be forgotten the second you suggest this, then bring it up. Tell her that you are strongly for it and you feel like it will help your relationship because it seems as though it will make you happy as well as it might be good for her. Then tell here your gonna pay and etc. good luck
2007-03-07 23:59:59 · answer #4 · answered by aysha a 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you have enough money to pay to have her breast augmented without her asking for it as an anniversary gift, then be sure you also have enough money for the divorce she asks you for before your next anniversary.
2007-03-07 23:57:55 · answer #5 · answered by Patty 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well your wedding anniversary is NOT the time to bring it up. But talk to her about it when you have the money in hand. But if she's not into it, dude she's just not. It is, a surgical procedure, where they put man-made blobs into your body. The though freaks me out. Unless she's really really flat, I'd leave it alone if she's not open to it.
2007-03-07 23:59:33 · answer #6 · answered by Ade 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you DO bring this up, especially to offer it as a gift to HER, you might as well move out to the backyard with Fido the dog!!! She is obviously INSULTED that you are not accepting of her as she is NOW - she does NOT want to suffer through painful (and the possible failure) surgery and recovery so YOU can fulfill your immature fantasy. Let me ask you this - how would YOU feel if your wife told you she wanted you to get a penis enlargement, you said not really, then she gave you the money to do it anyway!? Maybe you are unaware of how sensitive women are about their breast size. For women who have strong morals, big breasts make us feel like that is all men see of us - men look at the breasts, NOT at us. Could be your wife is feeling like that is what you also want - to stare at her boobs - not at her. How shallow and thoughtless of you. Anyway, I strongly suggest you back WAY off, and ask yourself how important this really is - is your selfish desire for your wife to buy bigger body parts worth loosing her for??? If my husband kept pushing me to get bigger "boobs", I'd tell him to go get them put on himself, AND, don't let the door hit your butt on the way out!!!
2007-03-08 00:27:24 · answer #7 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nice for who! If she has expressed to you before that she's not interested and you want something bigger and not her, go find them! If she decides later that she wants them she will come to you, How would you feel if she said your penis wasn't large enough for her and she wanted you to get it surgically altered to better satisfy her? HMMM< I bet that wouldn't go over very well would it! in the meanwhile if she means anything to you, I would suggest something more practical, like a day at a local spa!
2007-03-08 00:01:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought that the wedding present was for her not you!! Listen to her!! She doesn't want to have her breasts enlarged!! If she is content with the size of her breasts then so should you be. You love her for who she is not the size of her breasts.
2007-03-08 00:00:29 · answer #9 · answered by platinumlady 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is it your wife or you that want's them done?
Should be totally her choice,if she wants them done im sure she will bring up the topic.Not really a nice anniversary gift!Give her something that shows how much you love her just as she is.Afterall you married her for who she is right?
2007-03-07 23:58:39 · answer #10 · answered by tuppenybitz 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋