topics to talk about with girls?

Question

I'm great when it comes to talking with other guys; they all love me, but around girls all of a sudden i have nothing to say. i'm like the comedian of our grade and talk all the time.i can think of funny things to say just like that but not around girls.not even girls that are my friends and i've known forever i don't know what to talk about with. i can't think of anything to say so i put on the "business attitude" but when one of my buds comes along i get a bit warmed up. what's the matter with me, and what do i do to fix this? especcially with the girl i like? i think she believes me to be boring now, because i can't think of anything to say. also the same with other girls who are my friends. what can i do?

Answer 1

This is common with the opposite sex, and guess what? I can bet you RIGHT NOW that some girl that has talked to you before is asking the same thing. If you think you freeze up around girls, we do the exact same thing.

For starters, don't be tense. Just relax when you're with them, and take a deep breath. Always have a goal when you're going to talk to a girl. For instance, if I'm about to walk up to a guy I like, my goal is to flirt with him and let him know I like him.

I'm shy around guys, too, and always have been. We love music and movies. If this won't make you so uncomfortable, get around a friend that's out-going and will strike up a conversation with the girl you like, and make sure you're around her. That way, a conversation might come more easily.

Like I said, music and movies are a plus. Ask her what kinda music she likes. Ask her if she's seen a movie that just came out that you think is funny. If she has any classes with you, say something like ", Mrs./Mr. So-and-So gave too much homework last night."

I hope this helped you. Good luck!

Answer 2

"women love to talk about themselves"
if you can let her dominate the conversation that's good enough, if you are a good listener and would really be able to remember most of the things she said then thats great

you can also talk about music, her favorite band, or her favorite book, or movie and the why and the how they are her favourite, or if she has a pet, of her favorite sport, or favorite basketball player, favorite food stuff like that , philosophy in life

Answer 3

ur nervous around girls so try to get comforatable with them.
talk about :
school
who ur talkging to. girls love attention so talk about her.
travel, where have u been?
music
movies
random stuff
celebrities
electronics and gadgets
places to eat
what u guys like to eat
shopping
interests

remember, listen to her, she'll talk about her self alot because girls are self centered.
when u can sneak in an appropriate joke, go for it, girls love humor. we like to laugh and smile.
Good luck!!!!

Answer 4

You can talk about pretty much anything except...
Sports (except to a small minority of females)
and probably best not to comment about other females ASSetts.
Best approach is to ask questions about her...and she will then ask about you...keeps it interesting and non trivial.

Answer 5

girls like to talk talk about school what bugs her what she likes about anything and everything.. and ask about her they talk about themselves .. then gear it towards other things after her if your still awake like foods music places to want to go to to travel.. what makes people tick etc..fav things to do on days off of school .. talk about funny happenings.. but ya have to have snacks and chill out on the floor or close by her.. comfortable..

Answer 6

If she likes to talk about movies...then that is it.

Find out what kind of music she likes...and what her fave single is...get that song and learn the lyrics...that would work.yup!

Answer 7

Practice makes perfect! Keep trying.

Talk about movies or celebs or global warming. lol

Answer 8

talk about anything! we're people too, ya know. only difference is that we have boobs and a vagina, sometimes longer hair, and a higher voice.