Why am i suddenly avoiding men?
i dont know i just dont like the attention , i just dont like men to be so clingy and be so overly desperate about saying that they miss me or they like me, not even in text, in person or chat, i just started feeling that i dont want their attention, im not a lesbian, its just that this crush whom i felt so strongly for, now i dont even feel a thing for him, he is starting to text me and all that last month i sort of even want to be really close to him now i dont want him near, i dont want any man to start confessing anything to me about love,to the point that i sometimes dont talk to men (friends) afraid that they might misinterpret my message of friendship, i only want the friend zone for all, amazingly even for men who i totally adore physically
2007-03-07 15:40:42 · 7 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Darlin, unless you can pinpoint some event or trauma (and it doesn't sound like that's what's going on to me) then just take it as it comes. Nothing wrong with you. We all go through changes and twists and you aren't defective just because you aren't hot to have a man in your pants at the moment. Who says it's necessary to want that kind of thing every moment of your life? Now I admit that a sudden change might be kind of different and could make one wonder but I wouldn't worry unless there are other things that somehow alarm you. Men are not the yardstick by which I would measure my life and so also the attraction to them or not the thermometer by which I would take my "normalcy" temperature.
Relax. Let things happen - or not. The "friend zone" is a fine neighborhood as long as you are comfortable living there. You will move when when something in you makes a decision to take up residency elsewhere.
2007-03-07 15:53:05 · answer #1 · answered by Ande 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can relate.
Some men dont get the 'friend' thing and often its hard to be friends with a guy when they act like they want to be with you but say to the contrary. Keep your space but still try to be friends. You will meet someone down the road who will amaze you completly.
2007-03-07 23:46:10 · answer #2 · answered by Paradox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is normal. i think you're just wanting space. have you had to deal with lots of guys in the past? i think you just want to be respected and valued for who you are, and not your gender or what you have to offer guys who want to get with you. don't worry, there's nothing wrong with you, and this phase will pass once you find a guy who's worth it again, a guy who respects you for your personality and everything about you.
2007-03-07 23:45:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your probably tired of them right now. from reading your question, i have to agree with you. not all men are like that, so leave it alone, go on with your life. when the time comes youll get back in full swing. just have fun.
2007-03-07 23:45:46 · answer #4 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're just wary and afraid of getting hurt
2007-03-07 23:48:15 · answer #5 · answered by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no hon. u're not paranoid.
u dont wanna get hurt.
and u're sick of attention.
that's all.
treat yourself to a trip.
that's all i can say.
2007-03-07 23:44:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i never had that feeling towards girls. but it must suck =\
2007-03-07 23:45:31 · answer #7 · answered by MJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋