theres a girl i work with that i like alot, we talk, but its mostly about work stuff. sometimes i get the feeling she likes me, but i dont know.
today another guy i work with asked her on a date, but she avoided him.
my question is, did i blow my chance by waiting to long... or should i ask her soon?
or maybe go to one of her friends for help?
2007-03-07 15:48:36 · 13 answers · asked by dudebro07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like your chances could be good, but to be on the safe side and avoid some embarrassment. I'd maybe try to feel her out a little bit more. Maybe drop hints like asking if you'd be the type of guy she'd go and such. I wouldn't ask her out until you could be certain that she's interested in you.
2007-03-07 15:52:42 · answer #1 · answered by toolgirl_75023 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The longer you wait the more youre blowing your chance.
If you feel like you want to be with her, then man up.
You might get rejected because shes scared at first, but if you really want it, then give it a couple of shots. Let her know youre really interested.
After that, the ball is in her court.
2007-03-07 23:51:29 · answer #2 · answered by Thats me...A to the D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude u so need to ask her out unless u dont have enough balls then just asks her friends to see what she is into email me if u have problems
2007-03-07 23:54:22 · answer #3 · answered by paintballinonyoface 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey!... totally go for it! y not? we only live once right?,if it doesnt work out for u...ppl come and go out of our lives, maybe think to urself "hey,maybe it just wasnt ment to be".... but if u do want to avoid rejecton straight up, i would suggest u ask a friend of hers. goodluck...but really dont ignore the situation.
2007-03-07 23:55:47 · answer #4 · answered by bostonzerosix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be open and honest, like hey I like you, do you want to hang out sometime, outside of work. Or ask her to lunch.
2007-03-07 23:52:20 · answer #5 · answered by Abigail M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't go to one of her friends, that's so "high school". Just be up front about it, and ask her if she'd like to catch a movie with you. You won't regret it.
2007-03-07 23:52:13 · answer #6 · answered by brandyswilkes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good grief.....ask her out, the worst she can say is no. Plus this is the only way to find out if she does like you.....Just remember to be a gentleman.
2007-03-08 00:03:16 · answer #7 · answered by mrs_endless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go forward and ask her. She might be waiting for you.
2007-03-07 23:52:01 · answer #8 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit being a wuss. Ask her to dinner
2007-03-07 23:50:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll never know unless you make your move. ask her out to dinner. then go from there.
2007-03-07 23:54:01 · answer #10 · answered by sheilanmanny12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋