there are about umm 3 girls that are my friends.
The first one likes to flirt with me and touch my hair and rub it and she says that im her hug buddy...??
The second laughs at everything i say and she has a bf.
The third is the same as the second.
how do i get at least one of them to like me
2007-03-07 15:47:21 · 13 answers · asked by Jacob J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
will treating them like crap really work? i''ve heard it works but thats not really like me...
2007-03-07 15:51:38 · update #1
How do you get a girlfriend? By waiting your turn. Chill out! This might sound cliche, but when the right one comes along you will know that she is the one that you truly want as your prospective [girl] friend. In the meantime, do not take the gentle playfulness of your lady friends to be a come on or a come hither. That's all it is is girls having a little fun. And they feel that you are having fun too. Don't make more out of it than it is.
And why do you let them play and tease you this way? Do you really like it? I don't think so. Do you like your body being felt on and invaded and tugged at? Do you find yourself to be so amusing all of the time? Get serious man! Stop with the touchy and the feely and the giggles. How do you expect to get a girl to be serious about you when you let the 3 Stooges climb all over you like that?
Anybody in their right mind does not like or want to be roughed up or slapped or kicked or beaten. And nobody wants to be treated like crap. Not even people who treat others like crap want to be treated that way. Besides, you are a young man who hopes that someday you will get a girlfriend who respects you; and believe you me, if you did that word would get around and your reputation would be ruined.
2007-03-07 16:34:13 · answer #1 · answered by DARMADAKO 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get past the friend zone. That's only done through making your intentions clear.
2007-03-07 23:49:41 · answer #2 · answered by James W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably go for the first one since she doesn't have a boyfriend. What you should do is talk to her and complement her. Then, you can ask her out.
2007-03-07 23:56:28 · answer #3 · answered by CoolKidd :) :) :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a girl you like, smile at her and if she smiles back ask her to go for coffee, a pop or any other activity...
2007-03-07 23:51:41 · answer #4 · answered by Paradox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get to be better friends then ask one of them out. if you dont get past the friend zone, they will always look at you as just a "friend".
2007-03-08 00:01:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
turn off the computer and treat them like crap and they will chase you round
2007-03-07 23:50:05 · answer #6 · answered by contrary mary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't try with the two that have bf's, that's just a waste of your time. but the first one, well, it sounds like she likes you okay... just ask her out. be confident. girls like confident.
2007-03-07 23:51:53 · answer #7 · answered by curlyr3d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust d first one... ask her for a date... n it ll work...
2007-03-08 00:12:40 · answer #8 · answered by Rico 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and get past that friend barrier.
2007-03-07 23:51:01 · answer #9 · answered by PROUD TO BE A LIBERAL TEEN! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to me, it sounds like they all like you...I would suggest you start with the one that doesn't have a boyfrind to avoid fights and anger...
2007-03-07 23:51:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋