im planning on leaving my husband,,hes pissed me off so much over the years.hes a loser...and a cheat and liar..im broke at the moment..but when i got the money together in a couple of months...im off...shall i tell him or leave when hes at work...out of the 50 ways to leave your lover...which one would yuou choose
2007-03-07 15:43:49 · 2 answers · asked by free-spirit 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there are no kids..just me...wish i could win the lottery to make it quicker !!
2007-03-07 16:08:16 · update #1
It seems like you have your mind made up and it's a decision you don't want to look back on.
I'm sure ya'll have had your share of fights and squabbles, some of them being long, dramatic, and UNECCESSARY!!..That is why you don't tell him and leave while he is at work.
Why? Because, it will be painless and drama free. It'll be easier on him and you and there's no chance he convinces you not to do it.
NO arguments, no yelling, no crying. It will be painless and quick. When gone contact him in a way you dont have to see him or leave him a letter. I'm sure if it's at this point you'lve tried everything else and it's time to move on with your life and his. I hope there's no children involved. If there is it does become complicated. Good luck! Just remember, if you do it while he's present it will be a long drawn out process something that you don't want to go through or have to remember. Sure you have enough sorry memories, dont need another one! Been there done that.! Let me know how it went!
2007-03-07 16:00:47 · answer #1 · answered by Italian Knight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its only decent to tell him. but then..it depends on how big of an a$$hole he is and how hes treated you? is he just getting on your nerves? or has he actually cheated on you and been a bad horrible a$$hole. if thats the case...you should totally leave while hes at work! that would be great!!
2007-03-08 00:40:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋