Can anyone give me good advice on how to get over a 2 1/2 year first relationship/first love? Please???

Answer 1

1) Involvement in and commitment to a social activity that requires meeting new people.
2) More time spent with other friends.
3) Write something descriptive and long about the good and bad parts of the relationship.
4) Avoiding all contact with the person
5) Crying
6) Concentrating on challenging tasks that have a goal or finality
7) Picking out somebody you see regularly and telling yourself that you will look forward to seeing them each day and saying something nice to them.
8) Ice cream
9) Telling your family (or whatever you consider your "family" to be) how much you love them
10) Time

Answer 2

yes my soon to be ex husband have been together since I was 18 I am 23 now(so that's 5yrs) and we have one son and one on the way. We decided to ended it right when i was a bout 6 weeks pregnant. I told myself there is no reason I should continue to stick it thur if I am not satisfied. I said to myself I can't control anything but my life. I choose happiness. that's all I can control. I still love my Hubby but its not going to work and probably never will. to get over it I do a lot of praying to help with the pain, loneliness and boredom and 2nd so i don't harbor bad feeling toward him. sometimes it may be hard to distance yourself from what is familiar but it helps. change your routine i know for me being in a long term relationship couples rely on ea. other and form routines break free. single life is good!

Answer 3

forget approximately that answer approximately loving your self considering the fact which you'll be able to desire to love your self formerly you are able to thoroughly love all and sundry else Then attempt by way of acquaintances; mall; on line web pages; and don't canines out nightclubs yeah lots of the adult males could be after a million difficulty yet, I met my fiance there and we've been jointly for 2 a million/2 years so yeah additionally nightclubs that is achievable yet there you may administration your habit or you will in user-friendly terms allure to the incorrect adult males! sturdy success!

Answer 4

Dear,

2 and half years is not small period...

Some time it happens when two people decides that...

They are in Love in each other....

And fails to continue relationship...

There is advice to over come from such relationship...

Only one thing is there for is....

TIME....

Let the time go...

You will be in position to understand...

What to do !!

Relax,

Good Luck !!

Answer 5

Just move on w/ yo' life that's wat I would do. I know it's hard but if ya'll break up after a 2 1/2 year relationship then he really isn't yo' "love" at all. Cuz if ya'll can't stay together three years imagine how it would be if ya'll married. (Constant Fights and Probably NO Kids) See that's what I do just think of ya'll married and say, "You know what if we married it wouldn't work out AT ALL." Hope you agree w/ my advice.

Answer 6

You just need time...also put yourself out there and socialize, it will help to not think about it...believe me, in a year or even a few months, even if you are still single, this feeling wont be anywhere near as strong as it is now....

Answer 7

cry and then go out stay single for awhile go out with your friends and just get over it but dont cry everyday its not worth wrinkles and haedaches, there will be lotsa of other guys in your future just take your time and dont hurry and get another one wait till you get past your emotions do yoga or find a hobby,

Answer 8

with any relationship that ended it will take time to for the
heart to heal but as time goes on things will get better.
start doing things with friends. get a hobby, so that you can
keep busy, then as when you now it you seen the sun shine
that was dark at one time. but take it one day at time.