I think my roommate Jessica may be attracted to me, though I am not sure because I am not a lesbian. Several times when I have gotten home from work she has volunteered to give me a foot massage. I have to dress professionally and am on my feet all day as I work in retail. I know my stocking feet do not smell good, but she does not complain. The whole situation seems awkward. Jessica also does most things around the place. Should I feel guilty about using her this way?
2007-03-07 15:51:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if she doesn't mind doing work around the place then it is ok. However, you should also pitch in a little more. With the foot massage thing, I don't think that is quite normal. I'm not sure to say she is a lesbian, but maybe she might be just caring for you. Does she give you any other signs of her being attracted to you?
2007-03-07 15:55:49 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Did you know her before moving in ? Here's what it comes down to. When you live with someone , share food with someone ,etc no matter what you share something with that person. Do I think she's lesbian ? It's too soon to tell . You got to remember whether she is or not she may just be attracted to you .It doesn't mean she's full blown lesbian or she may love love guys but have foot fetish to your feet. We as humans Are so worry ed about everythinggggg omg omg omg omg. Look if something crazy happened in regards to psycho roommate you can always leave or call police but if it's not and you know she's good person. Want the truth ??? Stop stop worrying and give her your feet lol.
2015-05-07 07:28:06 · answer #2 · answered by paul 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes you should. Don't be lazy and do your share. Is she attracted to you, I'd say anyone who touches your smelly feet and doesn't complain either got paid or has feelings for you. If you know that she is a lesbian then you should tell her how uncomfortable you are about the set up. So she doesn't feel led on.
2007-03-07 15:56:53 · answer #3 · answered by brandyswilkes 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you do feel guilty... and you did say "use" - so yes, if you're using her, then, you should stop doing that.
Sounds like she's a sweet girl at a minimum. If you're into that sort of lesbian thing, then smile and give some satisfied moans when she does her thing.... and if not, well, stop letting her.
I'd love for a woman to massage my feet - and I'd return the favor.
2007-03-07 15:56:42 · answer #4 · answered by going_crazy_30m 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Well if she's gonna do the things at yo' place let her. But stop lettin' her give u foot massages ok? You can live w/out a foot massage. I have to go to schools in heels almost everyday and I don't get a massage so... yeah...
2007-03-07 15:55:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Haha Justin G had 69 total answers when I posted this.
2007-03-07 15:57:22 · answer #6 · answered by Harhar2930902 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Please set up a live webcam feed of your apartment ASAP. It is a crime to leave us in the dark on this very important matter. We must have cumclusive...err...conclusive evidence that she is indeed a lesbo.
2007-03-07 15:55:56 · answer #7 · answered by Justin G 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was going to post what MaryE posted but didn't have the balls to say it.
YOU GO GIRL
2007-03-07 16:04:41 · answer #8 · answered by Ms Blonde Ambition 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like she is just tyring to help out, and be there for you if you need it.
2007-03-07 15:56:50 · answer #9 · answered by caring black guy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she's just being nice
2007-03-07 15:55:08 · answer #10 · answered by Ethernaut 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋