Family & Relationships - 6 March 2007

Ok, a friend of mine is having his B-day party at a karaoke bar and then we will be moving the party to the club. But my problem is that a guy that I use to date is going to be there with his baby mother. I think I might feel a little weird being around them. I have never hung out with any of there friend so I really don't know what to expect. I kind of shy in front of ppl and not much of a risk taker. So my question is to you guys is. 1st should I go? Secondly how can me over come the fact that I’m by myself and see him with his lady. (No I don't have feeling for him) And how can I loosen up and not make a fool of myself. (And theses area bunch of NFL player) I just a little nervous and don't know what to expect.

2007-03-06 15:40:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband has been more mean than usual... he's never really nice to me anymore.. and thinks the only thing that makes a relationship is money.. I hate money so I don't know how he comes up with that relationships revolve around money... he shows no affection, he feels that his way of doing his part is working and just making money and thats it he dosent let me touch him in public or even at home we hardly sleep in the same bed... I really want this to work and not be so stressful because its not good for any of us especially the baby but what do I do to make him go back to his usual self? This is making me miserable and hate life with him how do I fix this??

Serious answers only please!!!


Thank you,

2007-03-06 15:38:25 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I tried to be her friend but she is a total ho bag i want to get even with her.

2007-03-06 15:38:02 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you have the power and position, what would you do to improve the quality of marriage, and to reduce the divorce rate in the US from 60% to 10% ?

2007-03-06 15:37:56 · 17 answers · asked by kenneth h 6 in Marriage & Divorce

my brothers and sisters rooms are downstairs and my parents is on the middle floor.
while we are all in our rooms my brother goes down at about 940...
he comes into my room and i dont know what to do..
my parents are missing and they have been since then and its now almost 1040!
only one car is gone, my moms and all the garage doors are shut..
what do i do?!?!

2007-03-06 15:37:54 · 6 answers · asked by zzzzzzzzzzzzzzz 2 in Friends

my wife is an old hag, but i still love making love to her, but she only puts out once a year!!! how do i get her to make love to me more ofter? and dont get on me about calling her an old hag because uve never met her!!! i mean she's a real *****!!! no matter how hard i try or what i die she wont make love to me, most nights i just use my hand.... but that once or twice a year we do make love.... oh boy is it worth is.... ive tried talking to her about it, ive tried giving her gifts and treating her like a queen, she just wont put out, everytime i ask her she's so tired from her damn bowling club!!! I mean how do u even get sexually exhuasted from a bowling club, plus she never invites me! ive tried playing her in bowling, and for the past 10 years she been in that club she's gotten worse!!! and she's always talking to her damn bowling coach!!! how do i get her to make love to me??? i need help

2007-03-06 15:37:49 · 10 answers · asked by jake w 1 in Singles & Dating

I know she doesn't like me as more than a friend, but she has no idea how i feel about her. should I tell her or just leave it unspoken and a "secret".

2007-03-06 15:36:51 · 12 answers · asked by no 1 in Singles & Dating

What the heck is he thinking? Could he have changed his mind but not saying so?

2007-03-06 15:36:49 · 9 answers · asked by Jessica 4 in Singles & Dating

the girl i am completely crazy about is back from a long holiday for over 3 months. i cant speak to here anymore since i missed her 2 much while she was gone . how can i ask her OUt?

2007-03-06 15:36:24 · 2 answers · asked by dextermatthew 1 in Singles & Dating

I had a summer job with tons of my friends and at this job I usually make new friends.
There was this guy that I had always knew of that was also working. He was a friend of a friend at the time.
I had a boyfriend but our relationship was on the rocks, so I started to pursue this "friend of a friend".
we ended up calling ourselves a "couple" after awhile.
all was going well, then my now ex-bf started coming around and making threats to my new bf.
which eventually made us decide to call of the relationship.
we tried dating again but it didnt work out.
before we dated we had a really cool friendship even while we were dating.
after our summer job was over he slowly stopped talking to me.
we IMd eachother once and I told him how I felt and that I was sorry, but he seemed to not want to talk about it.
I want to email him and tell him how I feel and that I would like to be his friend again, but whenever I did he hasnt written me back.
do you know what I could do or say to him?

2007-03-06 15:36:21 · 3 answers · asked by lady_luv 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is like bipolar or something. We live together, for almost a year now, we have a GREAT relationship, compared to most of our friends relationships we are very stable, hardly fight, i am not jealous, i let him do his thing, and i do mine, however when we DO get into fights, he always throws in the towel so to speak- he yells at me, he says he cant stand me anymore, he says he hates this relationship, so i pack up my stuff, get ready to move out, then he wants me to stay, says he cant live without me! i am SO confused, he did it again today! Why is he ready to quit on it so faast? why doesnt he realize how good he has it?

2007-03-06 15:35:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My grandparents are driving 9 hours to come to our wedding. This is a big deal based on the fact that I've seen my grandmother twice in the past 6 years, my grandfather once (he has cancer). They've never been super invovled in my life due to the distance, so it's a big deal to me that they are actually coming into town.

That said, my grandmother mentioned she'd like to see everyone the night of the rehearsal. I won't be able to see them before since I live out of the town (it's my hometown, closer to my fiance's as well), so we won' t be in until the rehearsal. Even though my grandparents are not in the wedding, I thought it was proper to allow out of state guest attend. My fiance's dad is perfectly fine with this, but his mother doesn't think it's "proper" to invite someone not in the wedding. The money isn't a factor, we actually have no wedding party, so right now it's just us, our parents, & his sister, who is not in the wedding either. Have I been wrong all this time?

2007-03-06 15:35:02 · 16 answers · asked by layla983 5 in Weddings

2007-03-06 15:34:29 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had to play the villian in my relationship to break it up. It was time, but now how do i explain that and really tell him i am sorry and i still love him, we just cant be together?

2007-03-06 15:33:57 · 5 answers · asked by hypnotised_infinity 1 in Singles & Dating

well my boyfriend told me he was confused but he wouldn't tell me about what. then today he finally says this girl wants to go out with him, but he told her that he has a gf and hes not gonna break up with me just to go out with her. and i asked if he wanted to break up and he said noo. and i was like sure and he said if i wanted to break up you would know. then i asked if he likes the girl and he said no. but b4 that hes like he told that girl if she would have told him a couple weeks earlier they could work something out. and he said hes confused, if he didn't like her. wouldn't he not be confused? i don't know. do you think he really does like her and do you think he will break up with me?

2007-03-06 15:33:21 · 9 answers · asked by kirsten h 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 17, my baby's daddy is 21 and the baby is 6 months. I know I can move out, but I don't know what to do so I am not considered a runaway. How do I get consent? Also, would making the dad my legal guardian an option?

2007-03-06 15:32:53 · 24 answers · asked by Nikki 2 in Family

I know that I want lavender and a medium blue as my colors. I was wondering if any one has any pictures that have these colors for their wedding. I would appreciate it, I am just totally lost-I am more of a visual person anyways!!Thank you in advance!!

2007-03-06 15:32:36 · 4 answers · asked by angelkissedbabe 2 in Weddings

He seems like he cranked up the flirting since he's in the "home stretch". How do most guys feel in this situation? Anyone here ever waited on 21 to show you love a certain female?

2007-03-06 15:31:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if the questions are so stupid, then why do people feel the need to put any type of answer to it?

2007-03-06 15:31:16 · 25 answers · asked by smrtgigi 2 in Family

I've nothing against other women, just that I'm physically turned on by white women. I am not white. I live in a conservative Midwest town and although people are nice to me, the idea of interracial dating doesn't cross their mind. Should I move to a larger, diverse city? Keep in mind I still want to date white women. Will the bigger city work in my favor or will it have the opposite effect, since some members of my race may have a negative stereotype associated with them? (crime, etc).

2007-03-06 15:31:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-06 15:30:59 · 1 answers · asked by mozert 1 in Singles & Dating

hey i want to talk to this girl who is really nice and friendly< she goes to my church. im 13 (14 in a month) and she is 13 (14 soon also) I want to know what i can say that isn't stupid and that she would like. we see each other wednesdays and sometimes sundays. im homeschooled she is public schooled. i really want to know thank you!

i can't actually ask a girl on a date till im 17 but i can hang out with them hellpppp!!
plus i need kinda step by step instructions please

ps what i mean by step-by-step is like what exactly do i say to her i am serious please

i kno i sound desperate but i need help

anyone who has had a crush knows about how it feels please

please

please

please

2007-03-06 15:30:52 · 5 answers · asked by pistoluser 3 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i want to have sex. we'r both adults and it would be my 1st time. not him though. i know hes had sex before , and i told him i would like an HIV tes before, just so my mind could be in peace and i could not have to worry about it later. he doesnt like condoms, and last night he was telling me he doesnt want to get that test done...=/ i was upset because we agreed he would.
i know he probably doesnt have anything i should worry about, ive known him for years now and he doesnt have any symptoms like hes sick or anything.
i need advice....should i trust him ?
please help me. what is something i could tell him?

2007-03-06 15:30:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If I get mad about anything, he gets more mad. If I complain, he turns it on me. If he's mad, he tells me what I did or what I should've done. Just in our new house alone, he's punched and broken a door, a doorframe on a separate occasion, kicked a chair into a wall, threw a screwdriver into a door, broke two fake trees with the cement in the bottom and crushed an ashtray in his hand. He's called me a stupid ***** in the past but hasn't done it in a long time. After hearing his side, I usually feel crazy for whatever I was feeling. I don't apologize because I feel I was wrong, but because I just want the yelling and fighting to stop. He makes rules that he changes and then yells at me for not following the rules. At the same time, he tells me I'm strong and independent and deserve the best treatment. Then, why does he not give me the best treatment? He's in counseling. It's evolving into something else but I don't think it's really getting better, just changing. Any thoughts?

2007-03-06 15:28:47 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-06 15:28:38 · 11 answers · asked by lizette r 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-06 15:27:37 · 4 answers · asked by milo2angel 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My civil union partner and I have been together for five years. I love her. She had an affair on me 3 years ago and I forgave her. She has found this person again on myspace and has been speaking back and forth online, but lies to me about it. On top of everything else, her son's father is back in the picture. I have been a parent to her son since he was 3 years old, and now the father comes, but he's talking more about their past relationship than his relationship/support of his son. I love my partner, but I feel like her loyalty and love does not equal mine and I am not strong enough to leave. We are currently in counseling, but it's not helping.

2007-03-06 15:27:23 · 17 answers · asked by ☮ wickey wow wow ♀♀ 7 in Marriage & Divorce

OKay, I have this guy friend. STRICTLY friends. Well last weekend, we got drunk and had what he called "casual sex". Today I had to see him at school for the first time since it happened. And I couldn't even look at him. For him it was like it didn't even phase him. How can guys not give this any thought? How come it was so awquard for me?

2007-03-06 15:27:14 · 32 answers · asked by brunettebabe 2 in Singles & Dating

at what age and where was your first kiss?
also, did any of you have really bad first kiss experiences.. if you'd like to share too.. or with someone you didn't expect you would? how was yours and what was it like?

2007-03-06 15:26:53 · 6 answers · asked by coolio 4 in Singles & Dating

i keep an getting jumped and hurt every day and my posse isnt always there to back me up they never believe me even if i got a black eye!and believe me one person cant beat up 15 people!

2007-03-06 15:26:49 · 4 answers · asked by wamzy 2 in Friends