I think I broke his heart and want to apologize....what could I do?

Question

I had a summer job with tons of my friends and at this job I usually make new friends.
There was this guy that I had always knew of that was also working. He was a friend of a friend at the time.
I had a boyfriend but our relationship was on the rocks, so I started to pursue this "friend of a friend".
we ended up calling ourselves a "couple" after awhile.
all was going well, then my now ex-bf started coming around and making threats to my new bf.
which eventually made us decide to call of the relationship.
we tried dating again but it didnt work out.
before we dated we had a really cool friendship even while we were dating.
after our summer job was over he slowly stopped talking to me.
we IMd eachother once and I told him how I felt and that I was sorry, but he seemed to not want to talk about it.
I want to email him and tell him how I feel and that I would like to be his friend again, but whenever I did he hasnt written me back.
do you know what I could do or say to him?

I think I still have feelings for him otherwise I wouldnt care about him right now.
and all this happened this past summer.
I would like to ask him if there is a chance for us again but he never answers my e-mails.
do you think i would have another chance?
or do you think I should just forget about it?
plus I am in a relationship right now.

BTW I havent heard from him in like 5 or 6 months.
why do you think he wont talk to me?

Answer 1

well if i was the boy i would feel (i can't really explain it) wierd, to be around a girl who broke off something like that so just give it a month or so then tell him your sry.

Answer 2

You can't ....The relationship is ended....

He is trying to forget you period and to move on...
if you continue to pursue him you might destroy him and he would not be the friend you once met and you being in a relationship is like the another shotgun to the heart.

He might even think your too fickle to even know what you want...
is he right?

And the fact you have a jealous boy friend..does he have to stand up to him to prove himself to you?

You have to think of what he wants rather then what you want...
you have someone....does he?

I don't know who dumped who first but I do know if you were the one that dumped him then you are his "disease" and he wants a cure from you and the "disease: can't be the cure...

sorry for being blunt but I can relate to him and his had the most suffered heart out of this whole deal ..... you have lost little in all this....your still with someone...

If you Do have REAL feelings or want to be friends then..he will come to you on HIS terms not YOURS...

some people tend to play the child with gun without realize it and fire that gun at a innocent target....like your friend...

I just hope that you don't fire that gun again at your friend...he has suffered enough.

Answer 3

Just say that you're sorry with any means communications that you have, if he doesn't responds then it's OK. That means he needs some time alone from you. Further contact with him may cause further damage. Believe me, I'm just like Him.

Anyway, if you're in relationship right now; shouldn't you be messing around with him by thinking any of future relationships that might come?

Make up your mind, you'll make many-many-many men suffers.