Family & Relationships - 6 March 2007

my husband doesnot take interest in me from initial stage.my in-laws said he was not interested in marriage with me.now relations are so worst.we have only mother-in-law with us.father-in-law is expired.my husband is very possessive about my mother-in-law .he want to sleep in the bedroom of my mother .i think he is feeling that his mother is lonely.he doesnot share anything with me .he doesnot want to talk with me without his mother.tell me what should i do.

2007-03-06 15:53:38 · 30 answers · asked by raman 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hi i am 22yrs old female my friends make fun of me because i dont wear make up and i look fat and i wear traditional dress i am an asian here i have come on a hoilday to my sisters house they say if i look like that i won't get married and not guys will like me.just tell me what to do will guys only go made for attractive looks like they said tell me what guys like in girl i told her many of them are not like that but they dont believe me help me please

2007-03-06 15:52:53 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i want to have sex. we'r both adults and it would be my 1st time. not him though. i know hes had sex before , and i told him i would like an HIV tes before, just so my mind could be in peace and i could not have to worry about it later. he doesnt like condoms, and last night he was telling me he doesnt want to get that test done...=/ i was upset because we agreed he would.
i know he probably doesnt have anything i should worry about, ive known him for years now and he doesnt have any symptoms like hes sick or anything.
i need advice....should i trust him ?
please help me. what is something i could tell him?
am i exagerating by asking him to do this?

2007-03-06 15:52:33 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ive never had a bf, whenever i like a guy they never like me back. why is this! it makes me really depressed! I am i ugly or somthin ?
I know im young(13) to be worrieing about this but its driveing me crazy! please help me im haveing unstable thought(possiblely suicidel)

2007-03-06 15:52:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-06 15:52:24 · 2 answers · asked by emily 2 in Friends

He has had sex with 4 girls, and has dated one for about a year.
Now he's single, and going to be dating me soon.
Will he be experianced/good at sex?
I'm used to dating guys who are virgins,
but I think I will benefit from him having more experiance.
what do you think?

2007-03-06 15:52:12 · 4 answers · asked by Sammy 5 in Singles & Dating

I'm growing apart from my best friend. We've been best friends for 4 years. We're in 7th grade now. We don't talk as much, and she's found someone else who she loves to hang out with. I don't want to tell her, because she'll think i'm jealous or something. What should i do? Is this normal? Is there a way we can be close again?

2007-03-06 15:51:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Well, my girlfriend slipped on some ice today and scratched her face. It's not terrible but when I saw it, a panic button went off inside of me... Is that normal? It sorta hurtg me too, seein her with that cut.... Also she says it's not my fault but I wasn't payin attention to her... Am I right that I should have been there to catch her or something?

2007-03-06 15:51:39 · 15 answers · asked by detlionsfan1218 2 in Singles & Dating

are there any hints they give off before hand..?!? besides just like leaning in, haha..

2007-03-06 15:51:18 · 3 answers · asked by coolio 4 in Singles & Dating

Are you adults? Have you ever been in love with anyone? Seriously why do you flame someone who says that he or she is 20 yrs older or younger than her partner? This is so upsetting me - do you realize that there are people who have married with such age difference and are still living happily? And who told you that relationships last a lifetime? At some point or the other you are gonna break up, but at least you can carry over the experience and memories later on into your life.

So get your heads out of your old-fashioned and bigoted ideas and realize the fact that age is no barrier to two people in love with each other, ok?

2007-03-06 15:49:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my girlfriend are underage, but we both have really strong feelings for each other. How can we express our love without actually "doing it"?

2007-03-06 15:49:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

whats more embarrassing, being a guy in his early 20s - being gay as in homosexual or a guy who is straight but never had a girlfriend in his life before? which one should feel more ashamed of more?

2007-03-06 15:47:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

She called me and asked if i could be an usher, coming early to put place cards on the table and to escort people to their seats. The thing is I felt it was like some afterthought once she filled all the other roles with her family and friends. Also I am 37 years old and his only sister--what, will I be parking cars too! i just told her thanks but no thanks and she acted like she didn't understand why I wasn't interested! Why would I want o walk around escorting people in a gown and heels? Is she retarded, insensitive, stupid, or secretly jealous trying to put me to work at her wedding? She could have created any role she wanted for me, like reading a poem or something but an USHER?! Give me a break!

2007-03-06 15:46:25 · 12 answers · asked by Meems 2 in Marriage & Divorce

27 male here. i don't understand how people find love. i've never had a gf. I"m reserved , quiet person and although i don't have love, i've seen tons of people who have gfs bfs. Most of those people have something good about them though. Example: People who are talented( music, computer science, etc) or good speakers, or people who gossip alot and talk and talk nonstop.

That's why, even if some people with a gf are kind of reserved like me, but have a talent...then somehow the girl is attracted.

But i really don't have any talent. Let me run through my negatives:

not handsome, bony skinny h ands kind of marfan syndrome looking, not smart i struggle with language, can't even talk well , i limp have knee problems and other health problems, can't play guitar well, nor piano, i ve studied languages but i am not good even though i spend lots of time studying. failed comp science.and math.

so tantless people who are quiet too, how can we ever find love?

2007-03-06 15:46:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-06 15:46:11 · 9 answers · asked by aaryan 3 in Singles & Dating

i mean straight men. all the guys i've dated are more sexual than intimate if you know what i mean.

2007-03-06 15:46:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Everytime i pass by this guy he always looks at me and smiles at me until i leave or turn. My friend told him that i liked him but he says i am not his type. But know he always stares at me from a distance. me friend told me that he wanted to smile at me today but i wasn't looking.

2007-03-06 15:46:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 16 (junior). There's this girl I've known since freshman year that I like. We talked some in freshman year when we had a class together, but this year, we don't. We're in last period together with her best guy friend (who has a gf), and they're really good friends. She and I never really talk in class anymore since the seats were changed, but neither do they, so i guess that's not too bad.

Whenever anybody says anything about me, she always defends me, even if wut they're saying is true or funny. Also, I IMed her recently (just for conversation) and asked her if she wanted to come to a get together for my birthday in April. She said sure. Later in that conversation, she said that "her live is really boring" and that she wanted to start goin out more. That convo, was 30 min, and one before it was 70.

Does anybody think that she sounds interested? Wut should I do? I really like her and think that this is a good match.

SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY

2007-03-06 15:45:56 · 3 answers · asked by c90 4 in Singles & Dating

I am sitting here while husband is living with girlfriend. He told me to wait a few days and he will come be with me. He said he wants me but cant hurt his girlfriend. I wait but cry because he hurts me by protecting her and making me wait.
The other night I went to his house to get him and he told me to leave, i cried. I beg him not to make me wait. And then his girlfriend was looking out the window.

Tomorrow is the dead line and him and the kids are supposed to pick me up. He has the kids until school is out because i didnt want them to change schools.
We been married 9 yrs , seperated 5 months.

I dont want to give up on our marriage..this morning i ignored his phone calls and he rush right over to see why I didnt answer the phone.

I dont know what to do.

2007-03-06 15:44:58 · 26 answers · asked by Navulam 3 in Marriage & Divorce

So i am trying to figure out the truth...
my husbands and my marriage was pretty close to perfect then all the sudden last november a coworker starting flirting and talking to my husband, they ended up sending dirty text messages to each other. i was 7 months pregnant when i found out and confrunted him about it. he lied to me and said SHE just had a crush. I knowing better from past relationships then confrunted her about it and she told me everything.
a week later he moved out stating he loves me but hes not in love with me. i then found emails from him to her stating that he loves her. does is sound like he threw away his family to be with her or that he really didn't love me any more and wanted out?
PLEASE BE NICE!

2007-03-06 15:44:14 · 10 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4 in Marriage & Divorce

with out breaking the friendship and there life.please help.

2007-03-06 15:43:58 · 6 answers · asked by revathy l 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-06 15:43:19 · 19 answers · asked by -=kaye=- 1 in Singles & Dating

would you call something like this a red flag. should i just back off now?

2007-03-06 15:42:58 · 13 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

do guys like it when girls smile at them? or does it freak them out? how should i get a guys eye contact?

2007-03-06 15:42:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what is wrong with this guy, i also check his myspace and he leaves comments tellin other girls they are pretty or good looking. but he still wants to hang out with me again this week, so you would think if he was a player he would at least have tried to kiss me, so im confused, whats the deal

2007-03-06 15:42:18 · 16 answers · asked by Dreamer 1 in Singles & Dating

if you have some,really interestng cheats it would make the game even better

2007-03-06 15:42:17 · 2 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Singles & Dating

I always shy away from social situations, even though I'm much happier when I talk to people. I've been on one date in my life (I'm 20, and she came onto me). I have a few "sort of" friends at school, but no real good friends. Why am I like this? Could it be because I always had lots of family around (cousins lived in our house til I was 10. My other cousins live 3 minutes from my house) and never needed friends to play with as a child?

2007-03-06 15:41:53 · 2 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

what kind of things can I do to surprise him? is there any service in toronto that goes to people's houses' and sings happy bday or som't like that...just looking for ideas that are not too $$ but yet shows i love him :) thanks and pls no stupid answers lol

2007-03-06 15:41:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i have a friend who is not super attractive, not super built, but he still doesnt have any problems gettin with girls he wants. What do you think that this quality is?

2007-03-06 15:41:27 · 7 answers · asked by zach m 2 in Singles & Dating

why doesn't he start conversations with me? he says he's not the talkitive type but i'm his girl friend he's spossed to talk to me! I think hes either shy or doesnt like me which one do u think it is?

p.s.
he has eye contact with me when he talks to me and he stands up for me too!

2007-03-06 15:41:12 · 7 answers · asked by killer.bebe 1 in Singles & Dating