how physically intimate can you get without actually having sex?

Question

Me and my girlfriend are underage, but we both have really strong feelings for each other. How can we express our love without actually "doing it"?

Me and my girlfriend are both underage, but we have really strong feeling for each other. How can we express our love without actually "doing it"? Where's the border between "touching" and "sex"? Is "touching" sex?

we're both seventeen; she just turned

Answer 1

Oral sex is as far as you can go without actually 'doing it'. Spend lots of time together and make sure you're ready before you do though.

Answer 2

As far as I know, if you're underage but have sex with your girlfriend who you love, the police don't actually bust the door down and stop you in the middle of things. The real question is, do you feel ready to have sex and does she?
You don't have to rush things, just let things happen naturally.
Maybe you're amish/mormon/born again, I don't know but I say just have fun, go as far as you want, there are plenty of ways of having a lot of fun without sex, you don't need to ask what they are, you'll discover them soon enough. But don't feel bad if you do have sex. Sex is beautiful and okay, religions endorse a relationship with one person for life becasue eventually that's a good way to live but think of that as only a guideline. Sex, if you really care for someone is just about the most beautiful thing in life
good luck

Answer 3

Gazing into each others eyes! Holding hands, putting your (1)arm around her, enjoying each others company. It is very easy go farther than you should and wouldn't it be nice for just once in the world to day a guy take the girls virtue into consideration!!!! And holds in in high regards! The girls no days don't seem to care wbout themselves either. No body even cares about morals or wholesomeness anymore the way it should be. Even if she is the one who is pushing, the man is suppose to be the strong one or so they claim! It sh old be up to them to step back at a certain point. Save something for later. What if the relationship lasted for years. If you did all the sacred stuff right away there would be nothing to cherish and discover in the future. Kids rush rush rush into hings like that cause they think they are weird for not doing what everybody else is doing. BUT THAT IS SO WRONG!!!!I know your not listening but I just had to say it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 4

how under age???? generally touching hands and kissing is good. especially if you are very underage. the less physical you are the less tempted you will be. generally one thing leads to another before you know it so keeping the physical activity to a minimum is best if the goal is to not have sex.

Answer 5

I don't know what "underage" means but in assuming your teenagers, kissing and hugging is wonderful way of expressing love and never forget telling eachother that you love them.

Answer 6

You can spend lots of time with each other. And always have fun. cause you don't need to do sexual things to show that you two have strong feelings for each other. Just tell her how you feel. and that should be enough.

Answer 7

Give her a good hug and a kiss on the cheek for starters. The thought about "doing it" , pleeeeeeaze, for goodness sake, be responsible and should never think of that. You should respect each other for what he or she is. Be a good boy and listen to this advice ok? Cheers.

Answer 8

well, do the regular stuff. go out to eat and watch movies. thats what most of the young kids do right? but DONT do that! you'll probably regret it anyways, and she might have a chance of getting pregnant. wait a few more years, and control your hormones!

Answer 9

well, third base usually does it. It's generally as far as you can go without actually having sex.

Answer 10

I suggest flowers and candy. Maybe a love note.