Well, my girlfriend slipped on some ice today and scratched her face. It's not terrible but when I saw it, a panic button went off inside of me... Is that normal? It sorta hurtg me too, seein her with that cut.... Also she says it's not my fault but I wasn't payin attention to her... Am I right that I should have been there to catch her or something?
2007-03-06 15:51:39 · 15 answers · asked by detlionsfan1218 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes it's normal but u have to be there 4 her she needs u right now and the only way u can make it up 2 her is be by her side and support her...
2007-03-06 15:56:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a classic case of misplaced guilt. You have to know that everything happens for a reason and if it was meant to be it will be. You are not at fault and you will never be. No one expected this to happen least of all you. I mean, if you knew something like this was going to happen, I am sure you would have done something. Besides, your friend is not mad at you probably because she understands that you are not at fault. It is normal for best friends to feel guilty when something horrible happens to one another. That just shows how much you care for her and it shouldn't be an outlet for your guilt.
2007-03-06 15:57:22 · answer #2 · answered by MimiUdang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She slipped on some ice, it happens everyday at some part of the world... It's not a big deal, she got cut up a little, she will heal, I wouldn't worry about stuff like that if I were you, life is way to short to think the way you do...
2007-03-06 15:57:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Quit worrying. She's your girlfriend, not your daughter.
Besides, I'm sure that the time it takes gravity to drag a girl down is less than the time it takes for your brain to send a motor neuron impulse to your arms to catch her.
It's nice that you care for her but would SHE feel the same "panic button" if the roles were reversed? If not, you should think hard about it.
2007-03-06 15:55:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're feeling this way because you are male. It is the male instinct to protect his female and by her falling you feel that it was your fault she got hurt. You also saw how helpless she looked and wanted to come to her rescue and thats adorable. And no you are not guilty for not paying attention these things happen. Just tell her how happy you are that she is alright. ;)
2007-03-06 15:56:39 · answer #5 · answered by BrwnEyedPlayette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to worry about it. It's totally normal for another partner to feel physical pain felt by their boyfriend or girlfriend. It's not your fault accidents happen.
2007-03-06 15:55:37 · answer #6 · answered by Brenna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww, you are an extra sweet and sensitive person. What hurts her hurts you. Don't feel guilty. Accidents happen. Hold onto her next time.
2007-03-06 15:55:12 · answer #7 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
accidents happen..but it's not not your fault so don't blame yourself..of course you want to catch her..but it's really an accident..I'm sure that if you just know it may happen, you'll do something to avoid the accident..right???? cheer up..it's not yet late to make her feel comforted..
2007-03-06 15:58:45 · answer #8 · answered by mountain_laurel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww hun your in love! thats all, its not your fault it happened for a reason , so that you will know your reall emotions for her!
aww this is cute!
good luck!
2007-03-06 15:57:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats ADORIBLE! you feel gulty for what wasnt you fault! You should go kiss her cut! THATS SO CUTE
2007-03-06 15:55:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋