So i am trying to figure out the truth...
my husbands and my marriage was pretty close to perfect then all the sudden last november a coworker starting flirting and talking to my husband, they ended up sending dirty text messages to each other. i was 7 months pregnant when i found out and confrunted him about it. he lied to me and said SHE just had a crush. I knowing better from past relationships then confrunted her about it and she told me everything.
a week later he moved out stating he loves me but hes not in love with me. i then found emails from him to her stating that he loves her. does is sound like he threw away his family to be with her or that he really didn't love me any more and wanted out?
PLEASE BE NICE!
2007-03-06 15:44:14 · 10 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
perfecting meaning, we just got married 2 months before that and we had a baby girl on the way!
2007-03-06 15:48:40 · update #1
yea, he dumped his family for the other girl, thats all that there is, if he was not in love with you and if he was unhappy then you would have know it, sorry, i know it does not make it any easier, sometimes thats just how life goes, sorry
2007-03-06 16:06:24 · answer #1 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't blame you for feeling this way. It seems to me that the other party initiated the first move by flirting with your husband and your husband was just doing what men do; giving in to temptation and lust. This does not give him the right to cheat on you and the first thing you need to remember is that you are not at fault. All those e-mails and messages that you found are testaments to his infidelity. Instead of delving into this, it would be beneficial if you are to focus all your attention and energy to your baby girl. That way, you will have less time to think about him, which will make it easier to move on with your life.
2007-03-06 15:53:54 · answer #2 · answered by MimiUdang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say but you married an immature loser. He will probably do the same to the other woman as well. I say just move on and be the best mommy you can be. He is not worth your time and he is not worth any space in your head. Start doing things for yourself and start going out when you have the chance. You are free and there are so many other fish in the sea.
2007-03-06 17:35:52 · answer #3 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm so sorry!
i know it's hard but the only thing you can do is create a good life with you and your baby. do not take him back when the affair is over he will do it again.
the best revenge is having a good life without him in it.
your child support will help you and trust me it will piss off the girlfriend.
there is a good man out there just waiting for you to come along.
good luck!
2007-03-06 16:08:39 · answer #4 · answered by KRIS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just may be both. He desired her so much that she was worth leaving his family for (in his eyes). Perhaps he has fallen out of love with you and wanted out of the marriage. You deserve better than this. Do try and reach out for some help in getting yourself back on your feet.
2007-03-06 15:51:00 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sound like he just left the situation for the the other women, im
sorry to say. but he should have been honest with you and told
you that there was problems especially since you are having
a child. you only been married for 2 months. good luck to you
but stay strong for you and your baby girl.
2007-03-06 15:53:11 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people just suck. they're incapable of being honest and loyal. do the best you can for your kid. try your hardest not to be a woman scorned and use the kid as a weapon against him. just because he's a crappy husband doesn't mean that he won't be a good dad.
2007-03-06 16:11:04 · answer #7 · answered by heynow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck with the baby. THINK of your baby first. GO to church 4 support+prayer.
2007-03-06 15:49:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn. that sucks the truth is he left u for that other woman.
2007-03-06 15:50:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does not deserve to be with a wonderful person as you!
2007-03-06 15:51:18 · answer #10 · answered by ACTS 4:12 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋