Should I tell her I like her?

Question

I know she doesn't like me as more than a friend, but she has no idea how i feel about her. should I tell her or just leave it unspoken and a "secret".

Answer 1

You can't be 100% sure she doesn't like you more than just a friend. She may be acting that way because she thinks you only like HER as a friend.

In the past, I have been shocked to find out that a certain guy I had a crush on was hiding his true feelings just like I was. Miscommunication.

Instead of telling her with words, you should start showing her little signs of affection such as stroking her hair while she's talking to you.
That is really sexy and sends a message that can trigure her inner feelings for you that might be hiding away all this time.

Stare into her eyes and say nothing long after she stops talking. That's another clue you can give her.

After she says something funny, laugh, lean forward and give her a kiss on the cheek.

When she's talking about something that is bothering her, reach out and take her by the hand. Kiss it even, if you like.

If she doesn't respond possitively to these very sexy gestures, I would be shocked.
If she already likes you as a friend, then THIS will just push the relationship into a whole new realm.
She will find it sexy and if she didn't have feelings for you before, she will now.
It's hard for a female to not be moved by sexy advances like that. She'll see you in a whole new light and lay awake in bed at night thinking about it.

I promise. It works every time. For your sake, try it.
You have nothing to lose. She already likes you so she won't be repulsed or turned off by it.
She may get turned ON by it though.

Try it. I'll bet you'll be happily surprised. Just don't tell her in words yet. Not until you know for sure she feels the same way.

Good luck.

Answer 2

Well you may risk a let down if you announce undying love, but if you can handle that then go ahead, or maybe you could just give her a flower or something symbolic and say nothing. If her interest is aroused, you may have a chance with her. There is no way you should let it stay a secret unless you prefer fantasy over reality.

Answer 3

Tell her, it's better to get it out there than keep it a secret. Sometimes people don't see things that are incredibly obvious to everyone else.

Answer 4

well just tell her. she be glad the hear the news. just make sure she is a person who doesnt gossip unless u want to have everone else find out. u should tell her. good luck

Answer 5

Go for it, you have nothing to lose and lots to gain. Nothing beats a failure but a try. Live a life of no regrets.

Answer 6

If you already know she doesn't like you the same way, then why bother? Use that energy to find some other girl that does like you the same way.

Answer 7

Tell her what you feel and be ready to accept if it is negative too. It is better to ask rather than regret later.

Answer 8

..if you think and believe that she'll understand your situation, it's better if you let her know, who knows, maybe she likes you either..but you should also be prepared on the consequences that your decision may bring..but..if letting her know about your feelings will ruin your friendship..dude..i know it hurts..but better keep that feelings to yourself and keep her as a friend..rather than letting her know..but losing her in the end..

Answer 9

girls like it when they know someone likes them so just tell her
but expect the worse so it wont be as bad as u think

Answer 10

You could if you did it just to flatter her and didn't care about the rejection. Or not, it's up to you.