hey i want to talk to this girl who is really nice and friendly< she goes to my church. im 13 (14 in a month) and she is 13 (14 soon also) I want to know what i can say that isn't stupid and that she would like. we see each other wednesdays and sometimes sundays. im homeschooled she is public schooled. i really want to know thank you!
i can't actually ask a girl on a date till im 17 but i can hang out with them hellpppp!!
plus i need kinda step by step instructions please
ps what i mean by step-by-step is like what exactly do i say to her i am serious please
i kno i sound desperate but i need help
anyone who has had a crush knows about how it feels please
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2007-03-06 15:30:52 · 5 answers · asked by pistoluser 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow...sounds serious. maybe you could ask her about what kind of music she likes or what movies she has seen. maybe you could arrange to meet at a movie theater and see a movie together..not really a date if you just meet up there right?
just be yourself...you sound like a sweet kid. good luck!
2007-03-06 15:35:26 · answer #1 · answered by BJC 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to give some advice that you will find hard to follow. JUST BE YOURSELF! Talk to this girl just like you're talking to your best friend. Believe it or not girls are no different than boys when it comes to talking to them. They have a sense of humor just like you do. They have about the same taste in foods. They like movies and video games. They like music. Think about it. You probably have a lot of things in common. Just don't look at her any differently than you would your best friend and you'd be surprised how easy it will be to approach her. If she has a myspace page you could probably start there. Many kids at 13 and 14 do. You can get to know what she likes and doesn't like through her page. It could also help you break the ice in talking to her through the internet first. If not ask a couple of her friends or maybe her brother if she has one what kind of music or movies she likes. Hope some of this helps you out. Just relax and be yourself.
2007-03-06 23:44:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok
honestly mate you just need to be your self, if she likes she likes you, its that simple. Just be her friend and maybe things can develope from there.
Its hard to tell you what to say exactly because I dont know her or what she likes, find out what she likes or something yous have in common and start from there, yous both go to church and are the same age so theres a good start.
You said you cant date but friends go to the movies and on picnics.
A little tip women/girls love flowers if your brave give her a flower
2007-03-06 23:43:01 · answer #3 · answered by mel_leno 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Saying anything to her would be better than not saying anything at all. Just show interest in her by going up to her after church and make small talk........about anything...........say whatever feels right.......... if its stupid its stupid.....i dout shell judge you on that......the first step is always the hardest........good luck :)
2007-03-06 23:39:15 · answer #4 · answered by nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
asking about her favorite movie or music or band, could be a simple interesting start for a conversation, you would know whether you even have something in common
2007-03-06 23:40:03 · answer #5 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋