Should i go are not?

Question

Ok, a friend of mine is having his B-day party at a karaoke bar and then we will be moving the party to the club. But my problem is that a guy that I use to date is going to be there with his baby mother. I think I might feel a little weird being around them. I have never hung out with any of there friend so I really don't know what to expect. I kind of shy in front of ppl and not much of a risk taker. So my question is to you guys is. 1st should I go? Secondly how can me over come the fact that I’m by myself and see him with his lady. (No I don't have feeling for him) And how can I loosen up and not make a fool of myself. (And theses area bunch of NFL player) I just a little nervous and don't know what to expect.

thanks guy's for all of your help. i love it place

Answer 1

for one...if you know he is going to be there, then he knows you are going to be there. So by you not showing up shows that you have some sort of feelings for him and you can not handle seeing him w/some one else. But by you being there and facing it, that shows him that you don't care and its nothing to you. Show up, have a good time, and for the most part act like you don't see him. But make sure you exaggerate the fun you are having. Good luck! And screw him and his baby mom!

Answer 2

You need to go.... you can't keep running away from the truth right... If you dont have any feeling for him then you are absolutely fine to go there... be casual... just go around and talk to everyone just look at him as you look at anyone else..dont feel embarassed.. he only should feel embarassed looking at you ok...
You should go for the party!!!!!
Bye have fun :)

Answer 3

You should definitely go. Take a date or a friend. Get drunk and spew all over your ex.

Answer 4

go have fun