well my boyfriend told me he was confused but he wouldn't tell me about what. then today he finally says this girl wants to go out with him, but he told her that he has a gf and hes not gonna break up with me just to go out with her. and i asked if he wanted to break up and he said noo. and i was like sure and he said if i wanted to break up you would know. then i asked if he likes the girl and he said no. but b4 that hes like he told that girl if she would have told him a couple weeks earlier they could work something out. and he said hes confused, if he didn't like her. wouldn't he not be confused? i don't know. do you think he really does like her and do you think he will break up with me?
2007-03-06 15:33:21 · 9 answers · asked by kirsten h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Break up with him first! That way, you win!
2007-03-06 15:38:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like you are in High School and that your boyfriend knows what the right thing to do is, but its still tempting. This girl is tempting him and he is fighting it, compliment him for that , tell him you appreciate that. Turn the situation around, what if some boy wanted to date you? You would be complimented and tempted. Its human nature. Right now take him at his word and show him you appreicate the fact he didnt break up or cheat on you. If he does decide to break up with you, constantly quizzing him will not help or change it. SHOW him he made the right choice with you.
2007-03-06 23:40:02 · answer #2 · answered by fancyname 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is confused because he has got a soft corner towards that girl.... if you don't give enough consideration or love to your bf or if your bf feels that the new girl is more loving him than you then he might leave you....
I think he is not in true love with you or else he wouldn't have got confused for sure.... he is not loving you wholeheartedly :(
2007-03-06 23:42:26 · answer #3 · answered by Raj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know if hes gonna break up with u or not but he likes the other girl and u might want to break up with him cuz if he stil doesnt want to go out with the othergirl u might be able to tell him ur sorry and the u want to get back together
2007-03-06 23:38:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He loves you but still confused about his feelings. Maybe he is afraid to turn the girl down but i dont think he loves her.maybe there is pressure between her and the girl,just wait and hear from him.
2007-03-06 23:40:14 · answer #5 · answered by peedee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long u guys have been dating. i think he wont break up with u, but still go out with the other girl...
2007-03-06 23:36:52 · answer #6 · answered by Sagar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time will answer that question..and just a simple advice..make the most of the days that you're with him..as if it's your last..and try things that would make him think that know one will do this to him except only you..things that would make him really miss you if you're not with him.
2007-03-06 23:38:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, eventually he will leave you, he has given you a hint...take it
2007-03-06 23:37:03 · answer #8 · answered by ACTS 4:12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he loves you
2007-03-06 23:36:47 · answer #9 · answered by hfowley 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋