Family & Relationships - 6 March 2007

when I asked my brother for getting a girlfriend (he has a girlfriend), and here's is what I wrote in the email, I paraphrased it to condense it.

"Are there any pointers on to getting a girlfriend? I never had an intimate relationship nor have a big amount of female friends. Just because a female is your friend, that doesn't mean that she will become your girlfriend. I know that 1st appearance matter so I will stop biting my nails permanently."

He is in college while I am at home. I emailed that email since Feb 10, 2007 and he didn't reply. When he got home, I asked about him about it and he said he didn't replied to it since he didn't know what to say (aka, he thinks it was wierd). In my opinion, he's the wierd one. The relationship between my brother and I is that I never talk to him (online or phone). AKA, our communication is dead.

2007-03-06 17:13:17 · 6 answers · asked by KHCOM 1 in Family

Hi Guys. I met a really great guy recently and I would really like to move things forward into a realtionship.

We have met 4 times so far, 3 at a bar on a just happened to be there at the same time basis and once on an official date. I have played it pretty cool throughout the bar meetings knowing that we would bump into each other again, but when it came to the point where I wasn't sure that we would bump into each other again I left him with my number and told him to call me. Anyway, he did call that night but we didn't arrange anything and then 3 days passed at which point I couldn't wait any longer so initiated catching up for a dessert date, which we did.

The date went well..perhaps a little too well. But he is now going interstate for a couple of weeks and did tell me to keep in touch but we left it all a bit vague.

Is sending him a good luck message after another 3 days and asking him to let me know when he is back ok. Or should I wait for him to make the next move?

2007-03-06 17:12:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when I asked my brother for getting a girlfriend (he has a girlfriend), and here's is what I wrote in the email, I paraphrased it to condense it.

"Are there any pointers on to getting a girlfriend? I never had an intimate relationship nor have a big amount of female friends. Just because a female is your friend, that doesn't mean that she will become your girlfriend. I know that 1st appearance matter so I will stop biting my nails permanently."

He is in college while I am at home. I emailed that email since Feb 10, 2007 and he didn't reply. When he got home, I asked about him about it and he said he didn't replied to it since he didn't know what to say (aka, he thinks it was wierd). In my opinion, he's the wierd one. The relationship between my brother and I is that I never talk to him (online or phone). AKA, our communication is dead.

2007-03-06 17:12:51 · 2 answers · asked by KHCOM 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hey guys, I currently found out that im attracted to a friend of mine. We both met eachother when we were both working at Kmart, and we found out we both were going to the same highschool. Ever since then we become somewhat good or decent friends. She had a bf when i met her, and then she broke up with him, and got another one, and just recently got dumped by him. Now, i have come to notice that i am somewhat attracted to her, and really enjoying her company, and just in general really like her. Well ever since she got out of her last relationship, she seems to be calling and texing me more often. I told one of her friends, and she says to give it time for her to get over her last relationship. But i sorta wanna ask her before she finds another guy out there. Now, i dont know if she feels the same way about me or not, but i wanna know if i ask her out and she says no, is it possible for us to hang out w/o feeling akward, or could this ruin a friendship?

2007-03-06 17:10:08 · 1 answers · asked by limpnot 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-06 17:09:13 · 8 answers · asked by non_oxynol_9 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm a senior in highschool... I'm dating a fairly attractive girl, right now we're kind of casual and not really "exclusive" per say... she's an extreme chrstian and I'm not going to have sex with her... even if she wanted to, I'd feel too damn guilty because I know how much her "purity" means to her...

but I sort of want to break up with her since we're not really exclusive...
Lately my friends been a real ****** and he knows it, and his girlfriend wants me... (they wouldn't even be dating if I didn't introduce them to each other) We're both going to colleges far away from home...

Do I sleep with my friends girl and feel a little bit guilty, or leave his girl unsatisfied, and not only feel guilty for that, but also go into college as a virgin and I might not get a chance to be with someone like that.

2007-03-06 17:08:37 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A friend for a long term relationship to share?

or just a friend for a time pass?

or want a friend who is genuine in sharing and counselling and taking part in all sorts of events in life?

or just to share a sexual queries?

or a friend from various countries to know more about their country, life style, culture, etc., (to know more about the world through friendship)

please express yourself about your friendship.

2007-03-06 17:07:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm 28, have never been married and I have a child who is almost 10. I have only had one other serious relationship after my son's father who chose to move on with his life about 2 yrs ago. I'm a good person, decent looking latin girl, am a college grad, have a decent job, my own apt., nice car but I can't seem to meet people who I feel I connect with. I know I want to fall in love again, settle down in the future and have a traditional 'family'. I wonder sometimes if I will ever find a special someone. It seems that a lot of people in their later 20's and early 30's are married or in relationships except me* I live a happy life but I sometimes wish I could share that with someone. It feels however, as if I will never find that connection...

2007-03-06 17:05:49 · 21 answers · asked by Waiting to Scream* 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I started dating one of my best friends. We had that we just know feeling that we were meant to be. in the begining like the first month or so we had sex all the time. then i slowly didnt want anything to do with it. It is so bad now. We have gotten married and been together 2 years and i get so bad that i can not breath, i feel sick to my stomach and cry. I dread it!!! He is a man and has needs i know but it is not something i can help. I want to,want to, but i just dread it. We have tried some things like talking myslef through it that doesnt work. I even took extra sleeping pills so he could do it while i was asleep. But obviously he prefers me awake and involved. I dont know what to do anymore. It hurts me to know I am not satisfing him. He is supportive and somewhat understands, but he thinks it is something idont want to due but its not i ltereally cant do it and fear everytime we touch or kiss that I will have to have sex so now i tend to pull away from that too. it breaks my <3

2007-03-06 17:05:26 · 28 answers · asked by eyes_sparkle_green 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-06 17:05:15 · 9 answers · asked by looseeannadude 2 in Singles & Dating

My sweetheart and I just found out we are having a baby. After manny intense discussions we have decided to keep the baby, neither of us could live with ourselves if we chose to terminate it.( I already am a single mom going to school full time plus working nd he has no kids) But how do i get him to be as excited about it as I am? Obviously it will hit him when i am showing, but for now??????
he has always been extremly caring and generous, like rubbing my back and cooking diner before i us, so his actions as taking care of me were always there, and i know he will make a wonderful dad, he already steps up to when my kids' dad fails, and fails often. what should i look for as sighns so i have a wee bit more sucurity about the whole situation. I am all pumped on what we need to do, and he is over being scared, we discussed it, but i don't see any real excitment unless i ask directly about it, and to me that doesn't count if i have to bring it up!

2007-03-06 17:04:08 · 12 answers · asked by mtnightskies 1 in Family

i kinda like this chinese gurl(im not chinese)im 18 and i think she's 18,im a very regular customer for like 4 months,i act just like a regular customer,i order my food then pick it up,and she just does her job nothing special going on between us,all i do is be kind and say hi and thank you(for my food)and give her my reciept,we dnt really talk and it will be wierd trying to start a conversation after all this time,and so sudden.what do i do? thanx

2007-03-06 17:03:54 · 6 answers · asked by Trapstar81 1 in Singles & Dating

How do you ask a guy out? I don't want answers like "ask a friend to ask him" or "go up to him and say do you wanna hang out sometime". I want answers that are different from the norm. And answers that aren't so forward. I'm really not good with these things, and anybody who can have a good think about it for me I would very much appreciate.

Thanks everyone who answers.

2007-03-06 17:02:25 · 9 answers · asked by Sarah27 2 in Singles & Dating

I like to tickle her, pull her hair, spank her, that kind of stuff and she loves it. Any ideas on how else I could tease her physically?

2007-03-06 17:02:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is no exact harm to me at all in reality as he actually spends most of the time with me or with work, he has no time to go out with other girls. everything as normal if i dont accidentally seen his email and sms. what should i do? pretend nothing happens or raise this matter?

2007-03-06 17:01:43 · 8 answers · asked by lost woman 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I like to toy with my guy while he's stuck at work but running out of ideas...help a girl out, peace.

2007-03-06 17:01:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When I polish the bishop it tends to talk to me is this weird?

2007-03-06 17:01:18 · 13 answers · asked by Johnny B 1 in Friends

The guy's name is Jake. He's in my gym class, and i hope he dosn't read or find out about what i'm typeing. well he's really cute and we have been friends for a long time. also it's like, it's hard to explain. he's that someone that you know you can trust, adn the one that will always be with you.
yes, i feel happy that he's going out with the girl he likes, but that girl is also my friend, but she doesn't know i like her boyfriend.
i'm in a pickle, please answer back.
and no, just tell him how you feel, my friend did that once, and lets just say the guy ended up with a bloodie nose.

2007-03-06 17:00:30 · 10 answers · asked by Cierra W 2 in Singles & Dating

I invented this cute little game where I would take one thing from my girlfriend's house every time I came over until she would realize things are missing. Here's the problem. I've taken so much stuff that I've had to rent out storage space to put it, and she STILL HASN'T NOTICED! Anyway, I think she may be cheating on me, so should I just break up with her and keep all of the stuff?

2007-03-06 17:00:26 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was in panama and he was here working I dint know he married somebody else behind my back

2007-03-06 17:00:05 · 5 answers · asked by isabel72899 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i knew when i first saw you
something in me clicked
your eyes a beauty blue
andmy eyelashes flicked

the softness of your lips
the color of your skin
the way you move your hips
i knew there was no twin

i want you with me now
close by my side
your eyes say wow
they make me blind

i want to kiss your neck
the sweet smell of your axe
don't give me just a peck
now show me you can flex

i'm closing this poem with
nothing but a dream
i hope that you will twitch
when you think of this as cream!!!

so, what do you think?? i made it myself. and be honest, now!!!!

2007-03-06 16:59:29 · 4 answers · asked by u_no_u_want_me_boyzz 1 in Singles & Dating

I CHEATED ON MY HUSBAND ABOUT 3 YEARS AGO NOW. I RECENTLY HAVE HAD FEELINGS OF DOING IT AGAIN. I KEEP FIGHTING THESE FEELINGS, BUT THE THOUGHT IS ALWAYS THERE. I WANT OUR MARRIAGE TO WORK AND LAST, BUT I CAN'T SEEM TO FIGHT THE URGE. WE HAVE BEEN MARRIED 6 YEARS AND OUR MARRIAGE HAS BEEN FAIRLY GOOD. HE HAS FORGIVEN ME FOR CHEATING THE FIRST TIME BUT I DOUBT HE WILL FORGIVE AGAIN. I AM NOT SURE WHY I FEEL THE NEED TO HAVE AN AFFAIR. OUR SEX LIFE IS OK, IT COULD BE BETTER BUT HE WORKS ALOT. SO I TRY NOT TO COMPLAIN. BUT IF YOU HAVE ANY ADVICE WITHOUT JUDGEMENT I WOULD SURE APPRECIATE IT. THANKS!

2007-03-06 16:59:11 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-06 16:59:05 · 27 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

hey i want to talk to this girl who is really nice and friendly< she goes to my church. im 13 (14 in a month) and she is 13 (14 soon also) I want to know what i can say that isn't stupid and that she would like. we see each other wednesdays and sometimes sundays. im homeschooled she is public schooled. i really want to know thank you!

i can't actually ask a girl on a date till im 17 but i can hang out with them hellpppp!!
plus i need kinda step by step instructions please

ps what i mean by step-by-step is like what exactly do i say to her i am serious please

i kno i sound desperate but i need help

anyone who has had a crush knows about how it feels please

2007-03-06 16:58:13 · 4 answers · asked by pistoluser 3 in Singles & Dating

if your kissing someone on the lips or cheek what shouldnt you do?

just wondering

2007-03-06 16:57:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-06 16:57:09 · 14 answers · asked by Gina 1 in Singles & Dating

Lets say the man I married, isn't thrilled being married. He loves me, but maybe wanted something different in his perfect vision. Let's say that we are in the middle of his legalization in the US (although this is a low priority for him). This means he has a lot to lose if we split...but that doesn't keep him particularly happy all the time. He isn't seeing anyone, he won't cheat (I am sure on that-his personality basically)...but he almost seems like he would rather have a different life. What would you do?

2007-03-06 16:55:18 · 14 answers · asked by kishoti 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I plan to ask a girl out with this poem...What should the title be...How should I give this to her and ask her out?

2007-03-06 16:53:37 · 16 answers · asked by Shauny Boy 2 in Singles & Dating

I am in a relationship with the most wonderful girl. I love her SO MUCH. There is no way I could ever leave her for any reason. But she is constantly and I mean constantly telling me about things I need to change about myself. Granted some of t can help me in life too, but it's frustrating and kind of hurts basically being told I'm not good enough everyday? What can I do, WITHOUT LEAVING HER OR HURTING HER

2007-03-06 16:53:24 · 5 answers · asked by jimhm3 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years and I just saw that he signed up on a dating site tonight while I was gone. What should I do? Should I comfront him? We have been together so long and lately I have suspected he has wanted out but he hasn't said anything. Someone please help me.

2007-03-06 16:53:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating