there is no exact harm to me at all in reality as he actually spends most of the time with me or with work, he has no time to go out with other girls. everything as normal if i dont accidentally seen his email and sms. what should i do? pretend nothing happens or raise this matter?
2007-03-06 17:01:43 · 8 answers · asked by lost woman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First of all, NO married man should be 'flirting'
with other women no matter how 'innocent'
it may seem.
This type of behavior nearly always leads to
other things, namely, Adultry..
If this is allowed to continue, at some point he will become curious, especially if these girls
are making passes at him in some way.
He's a man, and most men 'love' there ego's to
be boosted by the female sex.
99 times out of 100, this usually leads to extra-
marital affairs..
NO you should 'not' pretend nothing happened.
You should confront him on this.
Ask yourself this question and think really hard
before you draw a conclusion.
What would be the reason if YOU were the one
flirting with other men on the internet??
The 'only' reason married people flirt with others
is, something is missing in their marriage..
This is a well known 'fact'..
2007-03-06 17:43:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it just flirting? I would be concerned and a little hurt..but would just watch it and not really make a big deal about it. If it moves to actually talking on the phone...having phone sex/cyber sex..you know turning into an emotional affair..then I would be very concern, because that could easily turn into a physical one if you are not careful.
2007-03-07 01:07:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk it over with your hubby. Ask him why he does that and what benefits will he get out of it? For myself, I don't think it is a good idea to let my hubby do these things. There must be something that your hubby is not telling you. Just a thought, good luck.
2007-03-07 01:07:53 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, this is cheating. It just takes one email for him to cross the line and meet someone for real. He is also giving attention that should ONLY go to you.
I suppose if your standards are low you might not mind him doing this. Really, it is up to you.
2007-03-07 01:07:32 · answer #4 · answered by sugarsweetsweetiepie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what do you think he would do if he found out you were doing the same thing?
He's basically having cyber affairs right? I guess if YOU THINK that's okay then by all means continue to ignore...but IT'S NOT OKAY!
2007-03-07 01:43:17 · answer #5 · answered by SecretFriend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah..........what part of the marriage vow makes it ok for him to give his attentions to other women????
It is just a matter of time before he crosses the line and meets one of these ladies.
It is really up to you whether or not you ignore this. I sure wouldn't ignore it. I think it is a red flag from trouble ahead.
You and husband need to come to some sort of agreement of what is and what isn't acceptable online.
He must need some extra attention from you.........give it to him.
2007-03-07 01:13:12 · answer #6 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it is cheating believe me i have been there, all cheating starts somewhere weather it be via sms email phone or just flirting in person confront him if he is hiding it he obviously has something to hide, if he was 100% committed to you he wouldnt be doing it
hope this helps
2007-03-07 02:18:32 · answer #7 · answered by KYE_81 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Watch for the situation not getting worse.
2007-03-07 01:56:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋