Asking a friend out?

Question

Hey guys, I currently found out that im attracted to a friend of mine. We both met eachother when we were both working at Kmart, and we found out we both were going to the same highschool. Ever since then we become somewhat good or decent friends. She had a bf when i met her, and then she broke up with him, and got another one, and just recently got dumped by him. Now, i have come to notice that i am somewhat attracted to her, and really enjoying her company, and just in general really like her. Well ever since she got out of her last relationship, she seems to be calling and texing me more often. I told one of her friends, and she says to give it time for her to get over her last relationship. But i sorta wanna ask her before she finds another guy out there. Now, i dont know if she feels the same way about me or not, but i wanna know if i ask her out and she says no, is it possible for us to hang out w/o feeling akward, or could this ruin a friendship?

Answer 1

Time to use your own intiuation. Really something like that comes down to the deepth of your relationship. Work on that. Relate, Debate, and conversate with her and let it flow from there. To be honest with you if the relationship is feeling good and vibin good you should feel your opening. But I get the impression your new to this, so listen to your friend and concetrate on building a relationship. Just one big mistake people make is that you don't hide your passion. You do that and your on your way to being a "brother". The best way to avoid that is don't be afraid to talk about love and relationships with her. Throw some tastful flirting in there, and don't hide the fact that your a man (you got ideals) not a boy (doesn't know what that is). O and stay away from saying to many "I don't knows" or appoligizing to much, common mistakes I've made in the past....