The guy's name is Jake. He's in my gym class, and i hope he dosn't read or find out about what i'm typeing. well he's really cute and we have been friends for a long time. also it's like, it's hard to explain. he's that someone that you know you can trust, adn the one that will always be with you.
yes, i feel happy that he's going out with the girl he likes, but that girl is also my friend, but she doesn't know i like her boyfriend.
i'm in a pickle, please answer back.
and no, just tell him how you feel, my friend did that once, and lets just say the guy ended up with a bloodie nose.
2007-03-06 17:00:30 · 10 answers · asked by Cierra W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi girl, I don't want to say this, but it's best for you to give it up. I know it will be hard and painful to give up on a crush. However, he has a girlfriend! Who also, unfortunately, happens to be your friend.
There will be no win-win solution to this problem, I am assuring you. Either you lose your friend, lose the guy or both. Even if you got together with that guy and kicked out your friend, I don't think that guy will take you too seriously either. Guy don't like girls who stab their friends' from the behind and "betray" them...
Good luck! I am sure there are "plenty of fish in the sea" waiting for you!
2007-03-06 17:09:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where I come from friends do not go after friends boyfriends. It's not the right thing to do, a ex friend is what your going to have and when girls, ladies, or women do this it is the ruin of themselves. Then they usually keep going on like this through their life and have no friends or boyfriends. Who would ever trust you once the word gets out and it seem that you want it to get out using you name and the guys name. You don't have many morals in the real friends world. I guess someone forgot to teach you. But a jealous girlfriend or wife will teach you something and I don't think you'll like what they teach you. I have seen a jealous girlfriend fight and the jealous wife fight, both of the other girl/ women went ot the hospital. It wasn't pretty. Neither was their faces. You need to think about what your doing before you get hurt. Back in my days it was fist fights, now they have guns and knives.
2007-03-06 17:17:20 · answer #2 · answered by queenie one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say if you really are good friends with this guy, just try to be happy for him. Hang in there, friendships can be a lot more fulfilling than relationships in the long run. It will be very hard to see them together, but if you can handle it, then give it your best shot. I had this same problem, I stuck it out and they broke up after a while. I am still really good friends with the guy and can't imagine it any other way. And who knows, maybe one day his feelings toward you may change. But for now, accept that he is offering friendship, nothing more.
2007-03-06 17:15:32 · answer #3 · answered by life_lover425 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well think about first on how you really feel towards him. r u sure u have a very strong feeling that you would like him to be your bf? and how about your friend? r u willing to risk to break the friendship in favor of the guy? those r the things u have to consider 1st. there r many ways u can show the guy u like him. thats the easy part. what if he does not feel the same way, there's a big possibility it will ruin your friendship since he might feel uncomfortable towards u or vice versa. probably u jus feel jealous about the attention but not that strong that u know u want him to be ur bf... so think things over....
2007-03-06 17:08:49 · answer #4 · answered by xyne_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you told him you could lose his friendship and that of your other friend try and find someone else. and if its to hard seeing him change gym class so you don't see him so much good luck
2007-03-06 20:16:22 · answer #5 · answered by debbie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont interfere. move on with your life and feel happy for them. find someone else to like good luck
2007-03-06 17:08:11 · answer #6 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not happy at all hes going with someone else just get over it and deal with it
2007-03-06 20:55:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone. You are headed for trouble if you go there.
2007-03-06 17:06:56 · answer #8 · answered by jacksonvillegarycollins 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They both are happy.Please dont interfere.
2007-03-06 17:04:56 · answer #9 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep your filthy thing outa them
2007-03-06 20:56:05 · answer #10 · answered by anis118030 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋