Family & Relationships - 27 February 2007

my girlfriend brokeup with me unexpectdedly after an argument, only leaves a note, saying dont call me please, need time to think and get myself together, everything is left in the open. Is 7 days enough time to at least know if your willing talk or continue at all. should I just call and ask, or what.

2007-02-27 08:04:00 · 10 answers · asked by S D 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 23 years old and i depend on my mom.She treats me like i´m 14.She won´t let me stay with my boyfriend of 6 years of relationship.And if she finds out that i´m still comunicating with my boyfriend,she will kill me.I´m so afraid of her because she is a strong person.I can´t continue living like this.She´s always threatning me.Saying that if i continue seeing my boyfriend ,she will kill me.She had already told me about this.She´s not that type of mom that you sit and talk to.I´m turning 24 this March,and my goals are to collect money and then run away but before i riun away,i will write her a letter.Do you think that i am doing the right thing?because i can´t talk to her about this,and she is very mean to me.She treats me like trash.

2007-02-27 08:02:57 · 4 answers · asked by vrrms 1 in Family

2007-02-27 08:02:29 · 15 answers · asked by chica 2 in Marriage & Divorce

She likes the following
her cat bob
dolphins
polka dots
other stufff...LOTS OF COLORS

2007-02-27 08:02:03 · 7 answers · asked by brookezimmermann 1 in Friends

I am a 30 years old and have been married to my husband for almost 10 years. In the past year I have drank more alcohol than I probably should have. My husband and I agreed that my alcohol consumption should be limited. I have agreed to that for the last couple of months and in fact have only drank one weekend last month when he and I both were at a party. He had no objections to that. However, when he saw me drinking a glass of wine this afternoon with lunch he freaked out. Now, it seems he wants me to leave and get a divorce.

What do I do?

2007-02-27 08:01:47 · 38 answers · asked by Carrie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i seperated with my ex....it will be 1 month this friday. She just called me and she is seeing someone else. I can't describe how i feel right now. it's very numbing. So i have come to the realization it is finally over. This pain is amazing, i'm at work i just want to go home. Wow.....i can't even think.

2007-02-27 08:01:31 · 25 answers · asked by aphotic nostrum 4 in Singles & Dating

I was really close to my friend then she met this married man and went to live with him. I dont know why but she seems to think that I have tried to run their life together, I have only seen this man twice. What they are doing is a hate campaign against me, the things they are saying are TOTALLY UNTRUE. It breaks my heart the friendship as completely gone, but how do I stop the lies. Only sensible answers please, I am too upset for stupid comments.

2007-02-27 08:01:28 · 13 answers · asked by Katrina S 1 in Friends

I'm just curious, I am 25 and I love woman in there 30's. better in conversation, like to have fun, appreciate things, and a lot better in bed. So I am just wondering if 30's something woman like men in there 20's. Or are we just used for sex????

2007-02-27 08:01:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would that be a reason not to date some one they are interested in.

2007-02-27 08:00:20 · 15 answers · asked by chica 2 in Marriage & Divorce

how many chores should i give my 14year old daughter? and how much should i pay her a week?

2007-02-27 08:00:07 · 15 answers · asked by thalia b 1 in Family

My bf and i have been dating for a month and a half. BTW im 20, hes 24In the last 2 weeks he has gotten REALLY busy with work and I am starting to feel neglected. I saw him once last tuesday, and I was with him and his buddies and my girlfriend on the weekend, but never alone with him. I just think that we should spend more time together, especially alone, instead of always with friends.ive been alone with him 3 times since we met. I am trying to be patient, but it's REALLY starting to bug me.I want to know if i should try to talk to him about it and if i should, what should i say so that i dont sound like im nagging????I really want this to work, but how r we supposed to get closer and get to know each other better if we never spend time alone? I briefly brought this up about a week ago, but not a conversation (it was on the phone and he was with his friends).iam seeing him 2nite and i just dont know how to bring it up!!!

2007-02-27 08:00:06 · 12 answers · asked by kimmy_717 1 in Singles & Dating

Just answer the question, if you would like too if not then that will be fine. I will understand.

2007-02-27 07:59:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister is going to NYC for the weekend with some people she works with (all over 21) and is BEGGING to borrow my ID (I'm 23, she's two weeks shy of 21). We don't look that much alike, so that worries me, but mostly I just worry that something would happen to her and it would be MY fault! What are the chances of her pulling this off? I feel like a heel for not giving it to her, since she will be the only one in the group underage, but my motherly/sisterly instinicts are telling me not to do it. Am I justified? Does anyone have any scary "i borrowed my friends id" stories that I can use to convince her it's a bad idea? What would the consequenses be if they didn't believe the ID was her's?

Please help!

2007-02-27 07:59:53 · 6 answers · asked by dukeblueforlife 3 in Family

His exwife gave him custody of his daughter once she found out we were together. She does not pay child support (she won't work) or help in any way with their daughter. We have full responsibility for her, I mainly take care of her because her dad work 2 jobs. However, her mother has the right to see her or call her whenever she wants if she wants to, and when she is sick I am the one that has to take care of her. She might call to see how she feels when she is told that she is sick. I can't help but feel a little upset that we have the full responsibility of the child and the mother has no responsibilities at all. While I am taking care of her sick child, she is care free. How do I not let this bother me to the point where I get so frustrated. I know that her mother is not a good role model for the child and lives with several different men, however, I still get ill thinking that I have her responbilities and she can play mom when it is convenient for her.

2007-02-27 07:59:19 · 9 answers · asked by grace 2 in Family

Just out of curiosity, if you like a guy at school or work, and you normally get along very well, but one day he just barely acknowedlges you, how do you act towards him?

2007-02-27 07:59:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do women look at and look for?

2007-02-27 07:58:57 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a very limited budget for my wedding.

2007-02-27 07:58:04 · 17 answers · asked by Soon2beMrs.B 1 in Weddings

I decided after my ex dumped me when ever I saw her I would say hi, but just as a friend, and that would be it I didnt think I'd get into a really deep converstation with her. It was going well untill my friends started to get involved because they know I still love her. I wasn't anywhere near them when they did this but from what I've been told they started off by just asking why she dumped me but they just kept asking it and then she started to think I had told them to ask her which isn't true. So she flipped and told me to F*** up and get over it :(. But the worst thing is my friends told her I said f*** off back to her which I didnt :( So now she hates me and I feel that I've got to talk to her and tell what really happened and hope she listens. Do you think I should talk to her?

2007-02-27 07:57:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-27 07:56:50 · 29 answers · asked by hawaiiansun_82 2 in Weddings

"I would leave him, I would leave him, his sorry --- if he ever had a affair. "Yeah, sure. We know better, don't we?

Weigh the advantages: I can be financially well off , don't have to share my kids, "have" him when I want and someone to help take care of the house rather than financially worse off, responsible for the kids and struggling.

Your mothers and grandmothers did it. You would do the same thing.

2007-02-27 07:56:18 · 16 answers · asked by jazz41 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i like one of my guyfriends,do i ask him out?

2007-02-27 07:55:35 · 7 answers · asked by trouble_baby889 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-27 07:55:15 · 7 answers · asked by chica 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have got a full load of things to do all the time and therefore can't always make commitments, and my friend just called asking if I would lead Bible study next Monday. I've had to skip Bible study a few times b/c I was too busy. He wants to meet with me on Thursday to plan it, and I don't have another commitment, it's just that that's the only time I can find to clean and get my stuff together before heading back home for spring break on Friday. It's not possible for me to head home any later on Friday.

I feel bad b/c I'm always telling him that I can't make bible study or just outright skipping b/c I'm busy with schoolwork and other things in my life. I don't want to lie to him, but how do I get him to understand that I can't always agree to make commitments?

I feel like all I tell him is "sorry I can't come, I'm too busy,", or "sorry i've got this that i've got to do instead".

2007-02-27 07:55:12 · 4 answers · asked by mighty_power7 7 in Friends

This is a real story: Last weekend I was at a do it yourself car wash and there was this seemingly handsome black guy next to me at the vacuum. He kept looking at me and smiling. A minute later he asked me if I change for a 5. He was very friendly and well spoken. We started talking about our personal lives and he told me how his wife was out of town and he had a free weekend. I asked him if he was going out that night and he said yes. I asked him where and he told me and I knew of the place. The next thing he asked if i wanted to join him for a beer. I said sure but I would have to clear it with my wife in case she had other plans. My wife did not want to join me and told me to go join Al at the bar. I met with Al and we had a nice evening chatting and checking out the eye candy. The only problem was that he seemed more interested in me than the nice looking women all around us. He then wanted me to join him for a night cap at his house. He said he wanted to show me his house.

2007-02-27 07:54:49 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I dated a guy in HS. He married the girl he cheated on me w/. We have been frenz since then. I am in a relationship, he's married. I still call him, see him, and go to him for answers if I have a prob w/ my significant other. We live in diff states, but still close. He sometimes still asks why we never ended up together. I really love my sig other. As a matter of fact, my sig other and ex were frens in H.S., I would never cheat on him, but I still like the ex. (Ex and I broke up 13 yrs ago, I have 5 kids for current man) Is it becuz we still talk and he gives me "straight" answers on life? The kind of answers u won't hear from your husband because he loves u.

2007-02-27 07:54:13 · 4 answers · asked by edc86520 1 in Marriage & Divorce

to have some fun and drink my boyfriend is coming to the party he is expecting me to drink....but what he doesnt know is that when we slept together 3 months ago he got me pregnant im not big enough to tell yet and my parents and failmy are still yet to be told is now a good time to tell him and by the way i drink smoke and all the other things that people would think that a pretty girl like me would do they dont know that i smoke drink cut and get high 24/7 some things about me ppl would never guess and now im pregnant and did i forget to mention that i am in a major gang that is known very well in the united states its form all over the country its the bloods and did i also forget to meation that i am onl;y 15 years old plez get back to me and what are some ways to tell my parents i thought about just out to the living room when my moms there right before i leave to go somewhere and throwing the prenacy test on to her lap but im not for sure that is the best way to tell my mom?!?!?!?

2007-02-27 07:53:49 · 10 answers · asked by Danielle D 1 in Singles & Dating

It's very strong right now. Personally, I feel like the distance can only weaken an otherwise strong bond. Some of my friends disagree. Curious what others think.

2007-02-27 07:53:19 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a guy. She is my friend of several years, and lately, we have gotten really close. She shares everything with me! Anyway, she told me in a recent email that she does not want to live here anymore, but she wants to live anywhere than where she is living currently. She also said she does not mind living in this state though. I just thought her telling me that was interesting. Why did she want me to know that?

2007-02-27 07:52:52 · 6 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2 in Singles & Dating

Are you aware a lot of men love your pantyhosed legs?

2007-02-27 07:51:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I still think about my exboyfriend everyday for 3 yrs. Im with someone and he is the second boyfriend after the one i think about. Does that mean i still love him? why do i still think about him?

2007-02-27 07:51:17 · 14 answers · asked by Vane 2 in Singles & Dating