Family & Relationships - 27 February 2007

What do you think would be a good gift?
What do you think we (bride and groom to be) should spend?
Would you prefer a keepsake or short-lived treasure (say, jewelry or food)?

I am drawing a blank on what to give. My fiance and I have 5 bridesmaids, 5 groomsmen, 2 flowergirls. None of them are travelling for the wedding, but they have all put in their time and money. I want to show them I truely appreciate them. Having never been in a wedding myself, I have no clue where to even begin. I know that the groomsmen (and my fiance) have been in a bunch of weddings where they have received: a beer mug, a "poker set" (deck of cards, pencil and paper in a fine wooden box), a flask, and shot glass. All personalized. Not so sure on the bridesmaids. I know I don't want to get them jewelry for the wedding (though I haven't completely eliminated jewelry in general) because they picked their own dresses and they're all different, I don't want to them to have the same jewelry.
Thank you

2007-02-27 08:23:46 · 10 answers · asked by Just tryin' to help 6 in Weddings

Does anyone know what this means?

2007-02-27 08:22:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I pretty sure my mom's already decided that i can, but my sister and her boyfriend (24) are going with us, my mom doesn't want me to kiss my bf...but what if he want to give me my first kiss then...? what do i do? my sister will be there and my mom is going to tell her not to let anything happen, im not sure exactly what she is going to tell her, but we will still hold hands and little stuff like that and i want him to kiss me, but i THINK that is what my mom is going to tell my sister...? what do you think she is going to tell her? and what happens if he does decide to kiss me and does it, (not like passionately making-out, just a first kiss sort of kiss)?
NO RUDE COMMENTS PLEASE!!!

2007-02-27 08:22:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is a serious question. I'm just wondering how often this really happens.

2007-02-27 08:22:19 · 3 answers · asked by cmd0622 3 in Family

I shave my pubic hair and do my eyebrows, and people think Im gay when im not. I don't like guys. I just want to look good and be clean. what do you think?

2007-02-27 08:22:07 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm 20 years old, very shy, and have very few friends, none of them being close friends. I've actually been on one date, but the girl went from having the hots for me to getting pregnant by another guy in about 3 weeks. Whatever though, I'm completely over that. However, I have really liked quite a few girls over the years, and I've always been too shy and disappointed myself. I actually got very depressed last semester over this one girl that I liked, but never even had the nuts to ask her if she had a boyfriend. Ever since I went on my first date in december, I've felt pretty good, mostly because I was not concentrating on girls as much. Instinctively, I want a girl to be with and what not, but there's this part of me that doesn't want to be disappointed like I have been so many times. I just don't know how to shut that voice up and get out there. Any suggestions?

2007-02-27 08:21:53 · 2 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Singles & Dating

Why does love lead to sex? We need more sexless love relationship! I would blame the songs and the dirty dancing on the floor. It makes them too horny and when they are in love, they want to do it already. Most of them doesn't wait until they are married. They want to do it before they are married, and most people masturbate also. this world has gone corrupted. I swear. Hell, if I was to fall in love, I wouldn't be having sex with her even after we are married. I don't mind kissing her though but not having sex though.

2007-02-27 08:21:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He has Hairy armpits. It natural for a boy of 15, obviously. When we go on holiday he NEVER takes his t-shirt off, so he never gets a tan. He is embarissed by them and he wont admit it, he just says he hates his body. But he admitted this to his cousin.

Why is he so embarrissed? Other boys have them.. Any thing on what i can say to him?

2007-02-27 08:20:51 · 15 answers · asked by acu_1000 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

he says he wants to still be friends but he seems to completly hate me! he is a real jerk to me now and honestly i dotn want to be friends with him! EVER AGAIN!

what do i tell him?!?!

2007-02-27 08:20:48 · 26 answers · asked by pigeontri 2 in Singles & Dating

All the lovely couples or really women why do men tell lies ina relationship instead of telling the truth to keep them out of trouble. PLus why do us as strong females lie in a relationship also.. Im 14 and i havent lied to my bf yet, but he has lied to me once or twice, what should i do, even though he told me the truth when i asked him" why are you lying to me?" so please help me understand why do we lie in realtinships if you relly love that persin that you are with and you dont want to hurt that person.

2007-02-27 08:20:25 · 19 answers · asked by Ashley P 2 in Singles & Dating

and they didn't go as planned?
I tried once on the beach and i knew what abrasive meant!

2007-02-27 08:20:04 · 23 answers · asked by dianabarff 3 in Singles & Dating

the whole office is silent, no one is talking. i haven't told anyone anything but for some reason they know. This is soooo awkward, if you don't know what i'm talking about refer to my last question. another thing i'm confused on is she had to tell me at work?? what.....it's still quiet.

2007-02-27 08:19:10 · 5 answers · asked by aphotic nostrum 4 in Singles & Dating

HE DOESNT...or at least on time he doesnt. When a bill comes he is like "dont worry about it" and says he will pay it and then "forgets" despite me reminding him, and when I do remind him he gets snappy and bitchy.
He will let the bills slide untill the power is at 600 or more, phone at 200 or more, car paement at 2500 or more...He does have the money to pay it on time but refuses to, then blames me for spending the money when he doesnt pay the bills. Even though I tell him the bills need to be paid, he just doesnt listen and then blames me.
I am a stay home mom and so he is the money maker and Im the child watcher basically and I depend on him to pay bills on time.
He also knows I want a car and cant help but think he does this to have an excuse to not get me one as he likes me to be stuck at home while he is out of town working. This has been going on for years.
When I say I will get a job to help with the bills he gets angry, same with me buying my own car..what do I do?

2007-02-27 08:19:09 · 21 answers · asked by Bitsy B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-27 08:18:46 · 26 answers · asked by Soon2beMrs.B 1 in Weddings

My bf is really obsessive,he keeps calling me none stop,and said that if i ever cheated on him,he would kill the other man and kill himself infront of me. He suffers with depression and has a violent past. I want to end things but i'm scared to because of the way he is,he even had my name tatooed on his back. He said i'm all he has because his family dont want to know him. I'm fed up of the way he is,what should i do?he also knows high up people in the criminal world. P.s he knows where i live.

2007-02-27 08:18:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My 2 friends had or 2end fight today :-(! When me and my friends have a fight they side together! What does these mean?

2007-02-27 08:18:14 · 5 answers · asked by April<3 2 in Friends

Just curious!!! :D


Thank you!!!


Have a NICE DAY EVERYONE :)

2007-02-27 08:18:05 · 11 answers · asked by Latina Hottie! W.Chocolate 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it sex and relationships such as dating or for curiosity and boredom.

2007-02-27 08:17:51 · 16 answers · asked by kc 3 in Singles & Dating

What are some of the tell tell signs ? How did your catch your mate cheating ?

2007-02-27 08:17:42 · 25 answers · asked by Kelly 1 in Singles & Dating

I know you're supposed to hand-address the invites, but what about save the date cards? I'm planning a wedding from overseas and don't want to make my mom address the envelopes for the save-the-dates magnets by hand....can she print labels? Anyone know what etiquette calls for in this area?

2007-02-27 08:17:39 · 13 answers · asked by Brittany B 1 in Weddings

My friend is 22, she is the mother of a 1-year-old son, and her husband immediately began dating other women just days after the decision to divorce was made. She is filled with anger, confusion, and sadness, and I wish I had the words to help her through this.

2007-02-27 08:17:36 · 13 answers · asked by EnglishRose21 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you do when you dont know what to do with you life. When you have no idea what you want to do with your life and have a girlfriend that is more than willing to marry you and you are stuck with a brick wall in your path so to speak.

2007-02-27 08:17:26 · 2 answers · asked by 666SheaKiller666 2 in Singles & Dating

besides naked?

2007-02-27 08:17:10 · 9 answers · asked by dianabarff 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-27 08:17:08 · 8 answers · asked by ♥live life to the fullest♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

what does this mean?

2007-02-27 08:16:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he calles on the phone and tells you that you and him weren't anything only friend and also that you not his tip wat do you think about that??

2007-02-27 08:16:45 · 13 answers · asked by sam 1 in Friends

THIS LAST FRIDAY MY BF AND I GOT REARENDED BY A VAN, AND WE WERE IN HIS STI, WHEN WE WERE AT STOP AND THE OTHER PERSON DIDNT EVEN BREAK, WE GOT HIT REALLY HARD THE BACK END OF OUR CAR IS TRAHSED, WELL WE GOT ALL THE INFO OF THE GUY THAT HIT US, AND WE DID GO TO THE HOSPITAL , THE DOC ASKED ALL THE USUAL Q:'S BUT AT THE TIME I DIDNT FEEL MUCH PAIN, BUT NOW MY NECK HURTS I AM NOT MAKIN THIS UP AND MY SHOLDER HURTS ALSO, REALLY BAD, I THINK IT HURTS BECAUSE I WAS LOOKIN AT MY BF AND WE WERE TALKIN, I AM SO SORE I CANT SLEEP, MY BF IS IN JUST AS MUCH PAIN, HE DOESNT SLEEP EITHER, WHAT SHOULD I DO TO MAKE THE PAIN STOP! WHAT WOULD U DO IN THIS STIUATION? I HAVE NEVER BEEN THRO THIS! I DONT NO?

2007-02-27 08:16:45 · 4 answers · asked by CANDY 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-27 08:16:23 · 29 answers · asked by ﺸÐïåMóñdÐôññåﺸ 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I went to a concert with a group of friends over the weekend and realized that I really liked one of the guys we went with. I emailed him today and asked if he wanted to go see a movie sometime, and we settled on going next Wednesday during the day. I don't know if this is considered a date or not. He's 15 years older if that makes any difference. Is he thinking it's a date? How do I tell if he's interested or not? Do I let him make the next move? I haven't had to deal with this in 4 years! Help!

2007-02-27 08:16:08 · 7 answers · asked by Illusion00 2 in Singles & Dating

was it all worth it or did you get caught?

2007-02-27 08:16:04 · 10 answers · asked by dianabarff 3 in Singles & Dating