My bf is really obsessive,he keeps calling me none stop,and said that if i ever cheated on him,he would kill the other man and kill himself infront of me. He suffers with depression and has a violent past. I want to end things but i'm scared to because of the way he is,he even had my name tatooed on his back. He said i'm all he has because his family dont want to know him. I'm fed up of the way he is,what should i do?he also knows high up people in the criminal world. P.s he knows where i live.
2007-02-27 08:18:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go to your local police department and get advice.if he is creeping you out and you made it clear to him that it is done then you need to be careful and take care of yourself.
2007-02-27 08:22:49 · answer #1 · answered by lovebirds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, get tape recordings of him yelling at you or pictures or videotapes or some kind of proof that shows that he can be abusive and harmful to you. Then break up with him, despite the threats and rants and blah blah blah. Contact your local police department and show them the pictures or whatever to prove your case and they'll probably say something like "Well, he hasn't done anything yet..." but tell them everything that you said in your question (the threats, depression, violence, etc.) and then file for a restraining order as quickly as possible. I hope that this helps!
2007-02-27 16:28:33 · answer #2 · answered by Lalalie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is what you do....
Stage your own death, then run away to Europe. Tell your family so they won't be worried. Change your name, get your family to help stage it. Then you'll be outta the country by the time it happens..... Wait till it all blows over, then come back with a different hair color and all. Then try not to associate anywhere near him.
Or go to the local police, ask them to call him and tell him you've been put into jail for drugs.....
Then not tell him where so he can't visit you. Then run away to Europe. By the time he figures out you're gone.
Pray and ask God to show you what to do.
Personally i like number 1 but in the long run number three is the best. Cause nothing is impossible with God.
2007-02-27 16:44:16 · answer #3 · answered by Theoretically Speaking 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know one time i was dating someone who had no family really and he relied on me for all of his emtional stress... it took a lil while but i know for me i still cared about this person but i did not want a relationship like that anymore... i just slowly stopped being there for him and his mental needs... i gues it just depends on whether you want to be nice about it or just be straight forward and tell him. eventaully he caught on and found someone else to be there for him. and he actually still calles me every now and then and its nice to just keep in touch.
2007-02-27 16:30:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's easy, the thing you gotta do is make him not want you, make yourself a carefree slob, (in front of him) and then introduce him to a girl with similiar aspects that he will find better than you. if all else fails, take a, "vacation" (wink wink)
2007-02-27 16:23:05 · answer #5 · answered by johnyrainbow_rockstar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him. Don't put up with his violence and threats. Get a restraining order. You deserve someone better, who will let you be you.
2007-02-27 16:23:10 · answer #6 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't Wait!!!
If he is that bad, he needs help!
if you don't stop him now, You will need help too.
you can't reason with someone who is obsessive.
Ask yourself, would you wish his behavior on any other person you valued???
Get help, but act quickly
2007-02-27 16:25:18 · answer #7 · answered by Life Coach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oy, what a mess.
you could always break up with him and then introduce him to a pretty friend you have : )
2007-02-27 16:22:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make an excuse and move somewhere else. seriously!
2007-02-27 16:24:46 · answer #9 · answered by Peachy Keen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call, 911,,,,,,also restraining order..............girl what's wrong with you,,,,,,,,,,I'm a guy and if that was a woman doing that to me ,,,,911 and restraining order ,,,,,,,,,life's to short to have to put up with that bull!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-27 16:27:55 · answer #10 · answered by tnedutsmp .rM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋